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I'm aware that the underlying issues need to be fixed, this is for the meantime.

I'm looking for:

- Connects with multiple bank accounts

- Clear lists of recurring outgoing costs like bills
- Clear lists of regular income
Or easy way of organising this information.

- Minimal shaming language - no 'you could've bought a car with the amount you spent on Uber Eats this week' type messages

- Flagging any subscription costs
- Flagging any unusual spending

- Visually interesting interface
- No or minimal adverts
- FREE app or very cheap

And any other features you feel could be useful for someone in my position. I have little financial education and I am currently unemployed, seeking work, so ideally the app works well with benefits payments AND when employed.

I am trying to save to pay off my overdraft and I repay £30 a month with another debt payment. I will potentially be managing another debt payment in future.

Hi, I'm based in the UK and under the NHS. I have been diagnosed with suspected GERD before but I threw up blood a few times this year and so I've been referred for another upper endoscopy.

The appointment is tomorrow. If I have sedation I need someone to be there with me, but I don't know anyone suitable.

I have PTSD which would definitely be triggered by the procedure without sedation. A nurse offered fentanyl to help over the phone, but I'm not 100% they would honour this, or if it would be at all effective.

I have already rescheduled once. I spoke to my GP and the hospital department who cannot help with the transport arrangements, and say no further investigations can be done until the endoscopy result. I spoke to a charity that offers patient transport but they don't operate in my area (north London).

Do I reschedule in the morning? Cancel the procedure altogether and try to forget about it? Go along anyway and risk the nightmare?

I'm struggling a lot with my abdominal pain and nausea but it seems like I'm at an impasse. Not sure it's worth it, if they find nothing again I'm back to square 1 with my GP, still in pain and now more traumatised.

Hi, I had a text saying the DWP had to respond by the 16th July about my PIP appeal and I would receive an update when they responded.

They haven't gotten in touch since. Is there anyone I can follow up with? I can't seem to find the right number online.

Me and my friend are going crazy trying to figure out who this FNAF theorist is.

She remembers he had fluffy kind of insane hair. It would've been around the time of the original game release that he was popular

Thanks!!

(Edit: the hair was not as impressive as I made it seem - just normal curly hair)

I'm trying to be nosy lol. Got a call today 2.5 hours after my blood test telling me they needed to see me at the GP within 2 weeks.

NOT asking for health advice.

What exactly do they test for?

I have an endoscopy scheduled for this week and I've just asked about patient transport, because I'm alone. All my friends work or aren't in the city, and my only family member is 300 miles away and 80 years old.

I can't have it done without sedation - I'll spare the gory details but I have PTSD and it wouldn't go down well, I'd also likely have flashbacks and be bedbound for weeks. I expressed this and they have replied telling me I can't have the procedure done with sedation, and to confirm if I wish to cancel.

That just seems crazy to me? For example what if I needed a life saving surgery and had nobody to pick me up? I'm just dying for the sin of living alone?

I get the liability risk but I'm really at my wit's end with how ill I've been and I don't know how to proceed here. Any advice?

I am UK based, 23F.

I have an endoscopy scheduled for this week and I've just asked about patient transport, because I'm alone. All my friends work or aren't in the city, and my only family member is 300 miles away and 80 years old.

I can't have it done without sedation - I'll spare the gory details but I have PTSD and it wouldn't go down well, I'd also likely have flashbacks and be bedbound for weeks. I expressed this and they have replied telling me I can't have the procedure done with sedation, and to confirm if I wish to cancel.

That just seems crazy to me? For example what if I needed a life saving surgery and had nobody to pick me up? I'm just dying for the sin of living alone?

I get the liability risk but I'm really at my wit's end with how ill I've been and I don't know how to proceed here. Any advice?

(NOTE - ADMINISTRATIVE ADVICE - I AM NOT ASKING FOR HEALTH TIPS OR HEALTH ADVICE.)

I have medical appointments I need to get to as a result of being ill, including an endoscopy.

I didn't plan for this illness, so I'm a little short of what I need to get through the month. £25 will tide me over and I will repay you in full when I'm paid on the 5th August 2026.

I had to do an online grocery shop last night that didn't arrive and has not been refunded, will not be eligible for a chargeback until the 8th August, so now I'm really in the bin.

I'm 23 years old with great credit, I unfortunately can't offer to repay more as it's apparently not allowed.

If it suits I could offer to pay the act forward and give away £10-15 on here when I'm paid, you are welcome to follow up with this.

I have some medical appointments I need to get to as a result of being ill.

I didn't plan for being ill when I budgeted, so I'm a little short of what I need. £25 will tide me over and I will repay when I'm paid on the 5th August.

I'm 23 years old, not a student, and UK based.

I can't offer to repay more as it's apparently not allowed. I am open to smaller amounts such as £15 or £20

I have some medical appointments I need to get to as a result of being ill.

I didn't plan for being ill when I budgeted, so I'm a little short of what I need. £25 will tide me over and I will repay £35 when I'm paid on the 5th August.

I'm 23 years old, not a student, and UK based.

Tone of the question is in jest, but I'm not entirely joking 😭😭

I'm not someone who's visibly trans or trans in a particularly 'one sex to the other' framework, I'm not sure about hormones but I'll wear a binder and masculine clothes etc. and go by any pronouns.

All of my friends are quite scattered, I don't have a friend group per se, and only one identifies as trans. I feel really isolated.

I'm London based and I go to a lot of trans events but I constantly seem to find myself going to the solo meetups, following a few people on Instagram, then just not seeing them again. I feel like a fish out of water seeing everyone in big friend groups, especially creatives. I don't like being super online with my work and creativity nowadays.

The problem is I genuinely loooove these events. Like clubbing, the music scene, all of it is so my vibe, but I just feel so lonely. I'm always there by myself. I chat to people so much but I just can't seem to gel with people long term. I'm going to London trans pride tomorrow and I'm gonna be alone again.

How are people finding their people? Is it actually super easy and there's something I'm doing wrong? I've been out for a year now and it's a scary world to be in feeling like no one understands.

I'm headed out around Finsbury Park area tonight to watch the game, not usually too much of a football fan but I'm basically nocturnal so it works out. I know a few pubs that are open so plenty of places to try and walk in. Anyone fancy it? Will probably be around midnight

Anyone interested in a group chat for queer rappers and queer rap producers? Or just battle rap fans

Sick of there being a higher bar for entry for us and want to build a community where we can all appreciate art for art

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Hi, I was overpaid a significant amount of carers allowance (£2000+).

I was a 'carer' for an abusive ex-partner, who set it up for me, I would think to tie our finances together.

At the time I was extremely unwell myself and to date I have episodes where I'm too ill to manage my money (mood disorders and autism).

When I left I cancelled the claim on UC, but I didn't realise you had to separately cancel it through a CA department. I was homeless and then living in a refuge during this time.

I was obviously still being paid the money, so I questioned this at all my job centre appointments and there are notes on my journal going back months and months.

When someone responded to my journal that I needed to go to the carers allowance website, I did it within 15 minutes. Unfortunately this was months and months after I needed to cancel and I've just been notified about the overpayment.

Two questions:

1. Do I have any grounds here to ask them to reconsider their decision to ask me to pay the money back?
2. If you were overpaid CA, how much do you repay each month?

I'm learning to make sort of rap music. I'd like to write and produce it all myself. I have no music education but I do have perfect pitch and a good sense of rhythm etc from theatre days.

I don't have instruments or know how to play them, though I'd maybe like a keyboard to mess around with.

I *can* work my way around Ableton and I have Koala sampler. I write some good lyrics too and find good beats and samples, but there's a block somewhere around bringing it all together.

Do I need more technical music education to move forward and if so where can I get that for free/cheap? Or is this just a common writers block type thing. Or something else.

Üzgünüm, ana dilim değil. Apache gençlik alt kültürü hakkında belgesel veya kurgusal olmayan filmler önerebilir misiniz? Ya da genel olarak Türk gençlik alt kültürü hakkında herhangi bir belge?

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Sorry it's not my first language. Can anyone recommend any documentaries and non-fiction films about apaçi youth subculture? Or any documentaries about Turkish youth subculture in general?