Lately I’ve realised the moments I feel most at peace are usually the quiet ones:
soft clothes, makeup, femininity, gentleness, and not forcing myself into a role that never fit properly.
I don’t really have a dramatic conclusion. I just think I’m finally allowing myself to exist a little more honestly.
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I posted about this a while ago when I first swapped the car for bikes, I’m about a month in now and it’s starting to feel really normal.
The first week was rough honestly. My legs were constantly tired and everything felt like effort, especially doing school runs with the tag along.
But it’s weird how quickly your body adapts, because now it’s just part of the day.
I’ve started to notice things I never would have before. Little moments like this, or just how quiet everything feels compared to being in a car.
It’s slower in a good way.
Also I can’t believe how many rats there are in my town… something I just never noticed as a driver 😅
I don’t think I’ve really missed the car yet. I thought I would, especially with kids and all the logistics, but it’s been surprisingly manageable
(though I’ll admit the weather has definitely been on my side so far).
Physically I feel better too. I was worried I wouldn’t be fit enough, but it turns out I’m coping a lot better than I expected.
Anyway, this little squirrel decided to inspect my bike setup today and I thought it was really cute 🐿️