My mother had diagnosis 10-12 years ago. She need an answer

My mother is taking specially made homeo med for her condition. Her RA is quite controlled. The diseases hasn't progressed much if we look at the years she is in. She has pains here and there even her recent RA factor test and ACCP test came back negative. Her vit D and B12 levels are normal too. She is just constantly complaining that her fingers hurt. She is constantly scared for them. Can anyone tell me that the pain in fingers means the disease is progressing or not, despite that her tests are normal.

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u/concerned_shit — 15 days ago

Had the worst poop yesterday but was able to prevent fissure.

I have just soreness. These are things i did

  1. I didn't sit for more than 5 min on toilet. I had poop just at the exit but i didn't push or tried anything else. I cleaned myself with bidet/muslim shower, took deep breath, and got up while keeping my pf relax

  2. Drank warm water

  3. Walked a bit

  4. I applied GTN ointment(you can apply vaseline if you don't have GTN)

  5. QWhen i got the urge, i did "moo technique" while pooping

  6. AIt was hurting but i didn't contracted my anus. I always have this urge to contract but i resisted it.

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u/concerned_shit — 15 days ago

8 month not drinking milk

Im giving her two main meals per day and her milk started to reduce. It was fine as she was taking 3 6-7 ounces of bottles per day but now she only takes two 6 oz and one 4 oz. No idea if this is the right group to ask but what should i do. Is it okay if she only drinks 14-16 oz per day or should i stop her solid intake? She is otherwise healthy playful, might also be teething.
She also is very much interested in our food and okay with solids

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u/concerned_shit — 20 days ago

Accidentally added extra scoop

I was making formula and was talking to my husband. When i fed her, he asked me that how much i made so i told him i made 7oz. He looked at me weirdly and told me that i added extra scoop as he was counting in his head too. My baby is almost 8 month old

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u/concerned_shit — 1 month ago

Stuck in the worst workplace

I'm a dentist and working in a dental company. The work environment is so toxic but I'm unable to leave the job cause the job market is so tight.

First of all they when they first hired me, the salary was veryyyy low. Not even bare minimum. They said that if I'm able to attract more patients through my practice then the commission would be more than enough. We agreed on 20% commission per patient. Somehow i was qble to gain patients Alhamdullilah. Finding good in bad situation, I liked the timing of the job and a bit of independence in my decisions. I started making more commission than my basic salary.

So company decided to change my supervisor and the new supervisor changed my timing, they increased my salary around 60%(still very less than other job pays)
And they entirely reduced my commission to only 2%. So according to new total salary I'm unable to even afford my conveyance. On the top of that , my supervisor is really rude and uncooperative regarding everything about patients and their issues.

Is there any legal way i can deal with this as my initial contract was different than my new contract or just leave my job. I would prefer not to leave my job cause like I said, market is really difficult these days.

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u/concerned_shit — 1 month ago

I think seasos 4 would have been perfect if they didn't do that ending

It was going so well when they later showed that his obsession has completely took over his brain and then the suicidal thoughts made sense. Everything was great until the end where apparently Kate appeared saint initially turned out to be evil too who also sided with Joe. Honestly it was really unrealistic.

Changing his identity made sense that how he survived all the murder he did without being caught. Going back to his own country where he was apparently dead before and then no one cared that he killed so many people. Ig the show lost the charm

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u/concerned_shit — 2 months ago

I have been detected with benign tumour and i have wudu related question

I can't really walk as the tumour is compressing my muscles in leg. I limp and its sometimes scary in washroom cause there's a chance i lose balance and fall. My question is regarding wudu. Can i make dry wudu in my scenario. I have been praying sitting for so long due to my condition and now making wudu is getting harder each day

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u/concerned_shit — 2 months ago

Please share tips to deal with tumour diagnosis. Although benign but the tumour i have has chances to recur. Its also in a complex area of my body. I'm unable to cope with news as i know it'll fuck me up for mentally. It'll be a life long visits of hospitals too

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u/concerned_shit — 2 months ago

Anyone had Aneurysmal bone cyst and had surgery to remove it?

I wanna know if surgery would bring my normal life back. Its in my superior pubic ramus of left side and although it's non weight bearing area, I'm still unable to walk properly. I wanna know if removal of cyst will help or cause more damage?

My surgeon isn't keen on operating it.

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u/concerned_shit — 2 months ago

Want to rant about my in laws

I so hate the fact they try to implement religion on me. I'm a practicing muslim, pray and do all the things. I just cover my head loosely that's all. Reason for that is i get really hot in neck and upper body and sweat profusely. So i just do enough that's bearable for me. I love my husband, as he is calm and although he also has same opinion but he doesn't force me for hijab. Plus i have heavy chest so my purpose is to hide my chest but they tell me to cover my head neck back front arms just using one chaddar etc. i tried it and it made me look like old women. That style ages me by 10 years(i don't like I'm perceived like that) they have their own definition of awrah. I don't wanna do abaya.

For me i just think one should dress modestly. I know on this matter my husband won't take stand for me. He is afraid of his parents anger.

And all the molvis please stay away 🙏

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u/concerned_shit — 3 months ago

I got married and moved in a new home. Only one room is giving me sore throat and nose irritation with nasal bleeding

What can be the reason? For change i tried to sleep in our guest room and my irritations cleared up. My room has two big windows and big curtain. There's lane view from it and cars are always passing by

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u/concerned_shit — 3 months ago

Anyone lost appetite after stopping breastfeeding?

I'm having health anxiety. I stopped bfing a month ago and now i don't wanna eat at all. I have to remind myself to eat

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u/concerned_shit — 3 months ago

I'm able to have sex it's just the initial penetration that hurts. Every single time. Used oil yesterday but still it hurt. Husband loses erection if i tell him to do slowly.

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u/concerned_shit — 4 months ago

Bay was combo fed in the beginning but she always was gassy whenever she took breastmilk. I thought may be she is just colic. Then she stopped taking bottle due to bottle aversion and i started ebf her.

During those few months she was fussy and unsettled baby. She was clingy and wouldn't go to anyone even her father. It was hard for me as i was struggling mentally and also health wise. Due to health reason, we switched her to formula after a long battle of overcoming her bottle aversion (lactose free formula as per her paeds recommendation)

That baby turned into a new baby within a day. I kid you not, she wasn't crying much, started playing independently, would go to everyone at home. I wish i had switched sooner.

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u/concerned_shit — 4 months ago