u/deeblok06

They were bussin too. One of my specialties. No smoker needed.

My bad, I didnt take a pic when it was fresh out the fryer. By request, today's dinner was fried chicken (wings and thighs), mashed potatoes and gravy, creamed corn, cabbage and biscuits...all homemade except biscuits. Our diners said the chicken was a 10/10, no notes, and best chicken they had around here(charleston, sc). I will say, everything was fire, but the cabbage was a foshoyourighton lol.

Today is our 10 year anniversary. Unfortunately, we both had to work and didnt get to celebrate it how we should, however, that was just the tip of the ice berg. This morning we got very disheartening news that rocked us to our core about another younger couple we love and pseudo mentor. It was devastating, but she sat by me and supported me through it. Normally, im the one supporting her in these type of moments Unfortunately, but it was her turn and she did her best to make it easier for both of us. Its these bad times that show how strong you really are, both as an individual and as a team. And with that, this must be said, its to her but I want my reddit community and friends to hear as well:

"I dont know if i deserve such a woman as you. Words cannot describe how happy you make me. You have been my rock, my pillow, my safe space, my home, and my peace for 13 years now. Your beauty is unmatched in temple and in spirit. At first, I was a bit scared and hesitant about marrying you. I was still sore from the pain I endured before you. You saw that I was worth the work and effort. You sae how I needed to heal, but didnt run from it. You let me heal myself both alone and together. You held me accountable. You cheered for me when I needed it. You critiqued me when I needed it. Through it all, you were by my side and never left, never faltered. The first time I was ever separated from you, I felt a pain worse than what kept me from giving you all of me. I was reminded what the lord already knew...you were made for me. You really do complete me, you make me whole, and not just because you compliment my personality. You complete me when im 20%, you find it within yourself to give me the 80% I need to keep going. I can shed the tears i was afraid to give. I can share the smile I was afraid to open (still working on it). I can speak the words i feared were never heard. I can be the man I didnt know I could be. I could be myself for the woman who let me be me. I couldnt ask for a greater gift. From the day I prayed for you, you came out the box and Into my life. No matter how far my faith could waiver, you are proof he is there and always listening. Your are still and forever gods gift to me. And for that, you will forever and always be my world. I love you babigrl. I cant wait to experience the future with you, more adventures, laughs, smiles and cries. Well keep taking those adventure, together, 10 years At a time. Happy 10 year anniversary ❤️! Love, your grateful and humble husband "

EDIT: she wrote her own letter for me yesterday as well. I loved it and wanted to share

Of the things they don't tell you when you are young, one of my hardest yet most rewarding lesson has been this: MARRIAGE IS HARD WORK. Why? Because happiness IS hard work.

You have to love them on their best days, and love them even harder on their bad days. You have to wake up and make the conscious decision to choose them... even if they left their clothes in the same spot for 3 days after you asked them to pick it up 300 times. You have to learn their needs and make accommodations. You have to learn their love language so you know how they perceive and receive love. You have to champion for them when you honestly may not even fully even understand their passion for that hobby, show, or subject- but you also celebrate their victories, big or small, and/ or lift them when they fail. You have to apply all the lessons you've acquired from painful failed past relationships so that you can be the best you for you and for your spouse. And that type of work IS work because sometimes you have bad days- we all do...

After my sister passed away I was in such a dark place. He loved me so much and so hard that it almost hurt to be around him. He was the light, and the light was much too painful. I just wanted to hide. And in those dark days, which were truly the worst days that I've had, he chose to love me even harder. When I wasn't doing well in school and staying up late studying, he loved me harder. When I was struggling with friendships and had to learn, yet again, painful lessons, he loved me harder. When I get overwhelmed and/ or overstimulated and I get snippy with him, he loves me harder. When I struggle with feeling worthy of every ounce of love this man has given me,

HE. LOVES. ME. HARDER.

Mi amor, how do I put into words what words can't describe? I have been searching for the right words since the moment I woke up. And... I'm not sure I'll ever get them just right to explain the depth of love and gratitude I have for you. I will say this, if being by your side is my job, then its the best job I've ever had. I would do it every day and work hard, a thousand times over, because you do it for me every single day. And I promise to choose you day after day. I love you for so many different reasons, and I will spend the rest of my life trying to show you the many different ways to love you, in hopes that I can offer the amount of love that you actually deserve.

Happy 10th Anniversary, Best Friend.

I love her so so much.

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