u/dingalaxie

Buna, fetelor! Mozzarella aici!

Încă din copilărie am detestat bronzul, în mare parte din cauza arsurilor, iar asta m-a făcut să evit statul la soare excesiv, mereu port spf când ies undeva. Ce mă deranjează sunt comentariile răutăcioase pe care le primesc despre pielea mea albă, mereu pe timp de vară.

Nu înțeleg de unde provine ideea asta că un om arată bine doar când este bronzat, când știm că nu este recomandat. Nu este mai benefic să folosești autobronzant dacă chiar îți dorești o nuanță mai închisă?

Hello, everyone! I am not a neet anymore, but i was thinking about how my parents treated me.

Even if i have a job now, i still feel very behind, i still feel like i lack basic stuff and i am 24, still feeling like a kid.

I still struggle alot at my job, i am very anxious, like i work in a shop, and even talking with clients make me feel exhausted.

My parents never tried to teach me anything, they knew i am not well but still didn't try to help me or do something about my situation, but at the same time they criticized me for everything, the way i look, the way i act, the way i speak. They left me for years staying isolated.

I know it s not fair to blame them for everything, but i just wonder if my life would be different if they cared?

Bună! Recomandări?

I need something to not look orange

Hello! I am 25, I am pale and never really cared about having a tan, but lately i've been thinking how great i would look with one.

But i am not sure if tanning is good in the long term.

Bună! N-am purtat gene false până acum și vreau să încerc. Îmi doresc să pară naturale și calitative. Mersi!

Bună! Am 1.75, știu că nu este o înălțime exagerată, dar totuși am primit comentarii răutăcioase, iar într-un fel îmi pare că nici bărbații nu preferă femeile înalte.

Cum pot să mă împac cu acest complex?

I am 25, never been in a relationship and i don't think i'll ever be.

I am not smart, i am not attractive, i am very boring too and i don't even belive that i deserve being loved.

All this years and I have no pic with myself, i don't let anyone neither to make a photo of me. I avoid looking in the mirror.

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I know it's sad, but i do all this things to not go insane again. I almost ended myself a few years ago because i hated seeing myself.

Tocmai ce am văzut o postare cu un individ care a făcut un videoclip de câteva minute spunând că el nu consideră femeile slabe și cu intervenții estetice atrăgătoare.

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Ca după să spună că bărbații preferă femeile voluptoase, ca alea din filmele por*o, ironic este că și femeile respective au ajustări estetice.

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După să văd câte femei îi dădeau dreptate la postare, jignind direct alte femei.

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Eu pot să înțeleg că fiecare om are preferințe vizuale diferite, dar nu înțeleg nevoia de a face comparații nepotrivite.

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Dacă o femeie vrea să aibă un fizic pe placul ei, de ce ai impresia că este datoria ei să te mulțumească pe tine vizual?

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I can't lie to myself, i know that i am unattractive. And before y'all saying, yes, i did try to change how i look many times and it didn't help, still invisible for men.

The thing is that i'm trying to make peace with being alone, but the lack of affection sucks.

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How can I deal with this?

He was the only man that gave me a little attention and since then I can't stop thinking about him, I feel so weird. I wanted many times to text him, but i can't, being unattractive sucks.

Bună! O să șterg curând postarea. Nu știu ce să fac, dacă să îi spun tatălui meu, deoarece eu sunt deja adult și nu știu dacă are rost să intervin între doi adulți.

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De câteva luni vorbește cu un alt bărbat( bărbatul respectiv la rândul lui este însurat, îl cunosc de prin oraș). Am încercat să trec cu vederea, dar începe să mă afecteze.

So, i've had women that i don't even know, stopping me in the street to tell me that I am beautiful and that i look like a model, and that happened many times, but it's hard for me to belive this because men rarely hit on me.

Hello, everyone!

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I don't know if it's ok to post this here, but lately i've seen many posts and mean comments about Ariana.

It's clearly that she is not well, but making fun of her, doesn't help at all.

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I am making this post because many women struggle even here.

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Let's be kind!

So, i've seen many women claiming that you need to be very skinny now to be attractive, and how men preffer women to be skinny, underweight, but that wasn't my case?

Men in my country preffer curvy women, and i even had men calling me unattractive because I don't have big boobs and ass. Women always made fun of me for being too skinny.

And i just want to understand, why do they belive this thing when we all know it s a lie?

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I grew up unattractive, and the way i got treated made me feel unworthy. Now I am 25, and I started getting a little attention from men, but i got to a point where i put all my self esteem in how much attention I get from them.

If i see another woman getting much more attention than me, i feel envy of her even if i know it's not her fault when men hit on her.

I know this is not normal, but i don't know how to stop.

I grew up unattractive, and the way i got treated made me feel unworthy. Now I am 25, and I started getting a little attention from men, but i got to a point where i put all my self esteem in how much attention I get from them.

If i see another woman getting much more attention than me, i feel envy of her even if i know it's not her fault when men hit on her.

I know this is not normal, but i don't know how to stop.