If someone who you have no mutuals with, is suggested to you, are they stalking ?

I don't know if I should feel embarassed right now, or if I'm thinking too much, but over the last few months I've been stalking my professor's instagram account, because I have a crush on him (I know...), and his account was suggested to me over the last few months, which I figured was because I keep checking it so maybe instagram thought we knew each other. He recently made his account private and I wonder if it might have to do with maybe my account popping up as a suggested for him, because I saw on Twitter that apparently when someone you know in person, have no mutuals with, and don't follow, comes up as a suggested account it's because they often view your account. I really hope it's just a coincidence and that I didn't get caught in the act. Can someone please confirm or deny if this is true ?

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u/dontknowwhattoput3 — 4 days ago

Whats an small thing your TC did that you find endearing?

I'll go first. We had a free work period in his class and I decided to work on an art project from another class, and so I asked him if he had any coloring pencils, expecting he wouldnt actually be able to provide them, since he's not an art teacher, but he actually left the class and came back with some from his office. As I was using the coloring pencils, I realized they were from his childhood, because they had tags with his and his brothers name on them 😫🥲

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u/dontknowwhattoput3 — 10 days ago
▲ 1 r/Names

What vibe does my name give off ?

My name is Rebecca and I was wondering what "category" of names does my name fall under ? By that I mean, some names to me have a certain similar vibe like Emma, Sophie, and Olivia. So what names feel similar to mine ?

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u/dontknowwhattoput3 — 13 days ago

Guy from tinder became my teacher!

So I (17F) graduated high school this year and this happened during my last semester. Basically I had been on tinder during my break after exams (I know it's 18+ but they don't check IDs), and I came across this guy from my city that had teacher as his profession on his profile. He actually swiped right on me first, and we matched. Then we got to texting and I was genuinely only on tinder for short term fun, and so was he (his bio was actually pretty dirty, stuff like "call me daddy", etc..), so obviously we sexted, and because of my age I usually end up ghosting guys when they ask if I can come over, but he actually ghosted me first, after we had a couple interactions talking about stuff like "what would you do to me if I was your student", since its low key a kink of mine. Anyway, fast forward to 10 days later, I have an online class that semester, and I recognized my teachers name and thought he looked pretty familiar, so I went on tinder and looked at the guy from the week before's profile and it ended up being the same guy! Luckily in my online class I can have my camera off, and I also use another name on tinder, so he genuinely had no idea it was me, the entire semester. He even had a parent-teacher conference over zoom with my parents! 😭

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u/dontknowwhattoput3 — 13 days ago

Photo ID verification won't go through

So yesterday my account got suspended for absolutely no reason and I took pics of 2 different non governmental IDs like they told me to and when I press submit the button doesnt go through like it just stays there and I press it over and over again, with no pop ups. Is this a glitch? I'm becoming very frustrated because I'm wasting my time taking different pics of my IDs.

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u/dontknowwhattoput3 — 17 days ago
▲ 25 r/Dreams

Has anyones dream impacted them during the day ?

So last night I had a dream where I felt so violated and for the whole of today I just felt such an icky feeling as if it had actually happened in real life. Has anyone else had this feeling of like "what the fuck happened last night" ?

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u/dontknowwhattoput3 — 20 days ago

Lightheadedness and hunger on Elfy

So I recently started taking elfy (variant of lolo/loestrin), before going to bed to sleep through symptoms even if it is the lowest dose of estrogen in a birth control brand, but it does have more progesterone. This higher dose of progesterone in the pill is causing me severe hunger before going to bed and especially when I wake up. When I wake up it feels like a have a huge pit in my stomach, which causes me to feel lightheaded and dizzy. I already have low iron, and am taking iron capsules, so the mix of my regular headrushes upon standing up, and the hunger dizziness does not feel good at all. Anybody else experiencing this ?

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u/dontknowwhattoput3 — 21 days ago

Lightheadedness and hunger on Elfy

So I recently started taking elfy (variant of lolo/loestrin), before going to bed to sleep through symptoms even if it is the lowest dose of estrogen in a birth control brand, but it does have more progesterone. This higher dose of progesterone in the pill is causing me severe hunger before going to bed and especially when I wake up. When I wake up it feels like a have a huge pit in my stomach, which causes me to feel lightheaded and dizzy. I already have low iron, and am taking iron capsules, so the mix of my regular headrushes upon standing up, and the hunger dizziness does not feel good at all. Anybody else experiencing this ?

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u/dontknowwhattoput3 — 22 days ago
▲ 20 r/sex

My boyfriend isn't vocal in bed.

I'm writing this cause I'm honestly getting tired of looking like an idiot while I'm having sex with my boyfriend. I am super vocal in bed, I moan and dirty talk a lot, but my boyfriend doesn't reply back. Whenever I ask him questions in bed while I'm dirty talking, he just moans more. Should I talk to him about it ? I don't want it to feel forced.

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u/dontknowwhattoput3 — 25 days ago
▲ 1 r/kidney

1+ blood in urinalysis?

So I took a urine sample yesterday to see if I had glucose or ketones in my pee, because I was having symptoms of diabetes. Those were negative, but I had 1+ marked for blood on my results, but my period ended a week ago, and I'm having no symptoms of UTI or kidney infection. I'm wondering if this is worth discussing with my doctor in case it's something I shouldn't ignore, or if it might've been a false result ?

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u/dontknowwhattoput3 — 1 month ago

Echocardiogram made flare-up worse

I had an echocardiogram yesterday, because I've been having chest sensations I'm not sure are related to my heart or costo. I was already having a flare up for days before so I knew the probe would make my symptoms worse, and it did. My ribs and sternum hurt super badly as if the probe was still digging into my bones. I had to tell the sonographer to stop when she pressed down on the bottom of my sternum because of the stabbing pain. I am so annoyed because I just want to work out but I can't because it'll make it worse. My sternum hurts to touch, and deep breaths cause discomfort.

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u/dontknowwhattoput3 — 1 month ago

1+ blood in urinalysis?

So I took a urine sample yesterday to see if I had glucose or ketones in my pee, because I was having symptoms of diabetes. Those were negative, but I had 1+ marked for blood on my results, but my period ended a week ago, and I'm having no symptoms of UTI or kidney infection. I'm wondering if this is worth discussing with my doctor in case it's something I shouldn't ignore, or if it might've been a false result ?

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u/dontknowwhattoput3 — 1 month ago

Who wanted to be Kevin?

As a kid I used to want to play the role of Kevin so bad, even as a girl, his role got me into acting. To this day, I still want to play his character.

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u/dontknowwhattoput3 — 1 month ago

Changing brands. Which is best for hormonal fluctuations ?

I am 17F, I took alesse for only a month, and recently stopped taking it because it was causing me extreme headaches and breast pain. The reason why I took the pill in the first place was because I would experience lightheadeness days leading up to my period, and the first days of my period, which went away on the pill, but for all the other 21 days of the month, I would experience terrible symptoms not worth enduring. I know it's because my body is adjusting to the pill, but I feel like I should take a pill that might be more suitable for me. I definitely want to stick to taking a combination pill because I find it does stabilize my hormones, but I would like to know if anyone who's experienced similar symptoms to me, could recommend a brand that could potentially suit me?

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u/dontknowwhattoput3 — 1 month ago

Should I stop my birth control 17F ?

So I'm in my second month of taking alesse, my period recently ended and I'm back on the active pills, and I feel like I'm dying. To start off, I started taking this medication because I experience lightheadeness and blood pressure drops during and before my period, and since starting that has gone away, but every other day of the month I experience annoying side effects. For example, breast pain, and swelling, muscle fatigue/weakness, and spasms, as well as nausea. Recently after starting the active pills again I've been having a super intense migraine, that almost made me pass out. I'm someone who struggles with health anxiety to begin with, so experiencing all of these sensations is very stressful for me. I am speaking to my doctor soon, but I just wanted to know if anyone else experienced these symptoms, and continued to take the pill, and felt better once the adjustment period was over. I'm starting to wonder if I should not take another brand of birth control.

*I also want to state that I am not using the pill as a form of contraception, since I am celibate, so there is no risk of pregnancy.

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u/dontknowwhattoput3 — 2 months ago

Have you ever come across your students' social media accounts ?

I'm a student who some times comes across my teachers social media accounts when I'm on Facebook or Instagram, as a follow suggestion, or sometimes their posts even come up in my feed. To be honest, when this happens I usually block them, even though they probably don't come across my account. I was wondering if this happens to teachers too, but with their students ?

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u/dontknowwhattoput3 — 2 months ago

How can I avoid muscle fatigue ?

I used to be able to workout excessively everyday, but for a year now I've been set back because of anxiety, heart muscle fatigue, and back pain, even during non-intense short workouts. I haven't been diagnosed with a heart condition, but my chest feels heavy and I feel weak/tired after a workout. How can I put all of this aside to lose weight again ?

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u/dontknowwhattoput3 — 2 months ago