Misogyny kills; misandry h̶u̶r̶t̶s̶ f̶e̶e̶l̶i̶n̶g̶s̶ kills at scale

I wrote a long essay focused on the argument that misandry kills way more than misogyny:

Misogyny kills; misandry h̶u̶r̶t̶s̶ f̶e̶e̶l̶i̶n̶g̶s̶ kills at scale

I kindly ask for your feedback.

Here is an excerpt:

Is it possible we have developed an institutional blind spot for negative social norms affecting men?

There is an instrument that should answer exactly such a question. The OECD’s Social Institutions and Gender Index (SIGI) seeks to measure discrimination embedded in informal laws and social norms:

>Formal and informal laws, social norms and practices fundamentally dictate what women and men are allowed to do, what they are expected to do, and in the end what they do.

>SIGI 2023 Methodology (EN)

The SIGI examines twenty-five indicators across four broad dimensions, ranging from family law to physical integrity and economic resources.

Twenty-five indicators measure discrimination affecting women and girls.

Zero indicators measure discrimination affecting men and boys.

As the authors explain, indicators are capped at 50%, meaning that male disadvantage is not recorded if women perform better than men.

The United Nations’ Gender Social Norms Index (GSNI) takes a similar approach. Published every year, the index claims to break down gender biases and shift social norms towards gender equality. Drawing on data from the World Values Survey, it compiles seven indicators of gender bias against women and girls and none against men and boys.

The SIGI and GSNI do not deny that harmful social norms affect men;

They refuse to look at them.

This leads to a sad paradox. Institutions established to identify harmful gender norms become the pinnacle of the very phenomenon they seek to measure.

u/griii2 — 3 days ago

Feminist scholar Carla Pascoe Leahy cooks up that "women are 14 times more likely to die in a climate disaster than men"

Year 2024

Notable feminist

Carla Pascoe Leahy is a feminist scholar

https://web.archive.org/web/20260815101544/https://www.jstor.org/stable/10.15767/feministstudies.45.1.0100

Toxic deed

In a pro-feminist magazine, The Conversation, boasting the label "Academic rigour, journalistic flair", Leahy wrote that Women are 14 times more likely to die in a climate disaster than men. It’s just one way climate change is gendered

Citing a UNDP blog as a source, Leahy dropped "... and children" and kept only "women" in comparison to men, and made up the "climate" disaster qualifier. Putting the rigor into "academic rigor", Leahy failed to notice that UNDP made the statistic up.

Who-tags

feminist scholar

What-tags

lies, anti-science

See also

UNDP claims "women and children" are 14x more likely than men to die in disasters - cites its own tweet as source : r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic

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u/griii2 — 5 days ago

UNDP claims "women and children" are 14x more likely than men to die in disasters - cites its own tweet as source

Year 2022

Notable feminist

UNDP is regarded as a feminist organization https://www.reddit.com/r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic/comments/1v9sgie/comment/p3tc791/

Toxic deed

https://web.archive.org/web/20260815095228/https://www.undp.org/blog/women-are-hit-hardest-disasters-so-why-are-responses-too-often-gender-blind

>The statistics are staggering; when disaster strikes, women and children are 14 times more likely than men to die.

Note: "the statistics" is a talking head in their own tweet.

Who-tags

feminist organisation

What-tags

lies, anti-science

Note

The claim is further quoted and propagated through feminist sources:

See also

A pro-feminist magazine The Conversation, boasting the label "Academic rigour, journalistic flair", left out "...and children" and used the UNDP article as a source for the claim that Women are 14 times more likely to die in a climate disaster than men. It’s just one way climate change is gendered

u/griii2 — 5 days ago

Aurore Bergé, former French Minister for Equality between Women and Men and for the Fight against Discriminations, argues that opening a domestic violence helpline to a male victims would undermine its purpose

Year 2026

Notable feminist

Aurore Bergé, a former French Minister for Equality between Women and Men and for the Fight against Discriminations is a Feminist Diplomat.

Toxic deed

"Opening the 3919 helpline to a mixed audience would effectively undermine its fundamental purpose and dilute the specialized response provided to female victims. Such a shift would also risk weakening the awareness-raising message aimed at the general public by obscuring the systemic nature of violence against women and the gender dynamics at play in domestic violence."

Instead, they invite men to call 2 other helplines, one being for victims of an offense (crimes against property or persons, traffic accidents, mass-casualty incidents, terrorist attacks or a natural disaster), and the other for general legal aid, and even recommend specialized associations, such as SOS Homophobia (?!).

https://web.archive.org/web/20260811134922/https://questions.assemblee-nationale.fr/dyn/17/questions/QANR5L17QE8484

Who-tags

feminist leader

What-tags

double standards, discrimination, victim erasure

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u/griii2 — 9 days ago

“Do You Trust Him Enough to Go Hiking?” feminist medium pushes more misandry with so called "Alpine divorce"

The aeticle is paywalled, I am posting a link to their FB post instead.

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u/griii2 — 11 days ago
▲ 191 r/Goldpilltalk+1 crossposts

Mainstream research & mainstream media go full redpill: "only high-earning men are suitable partners for college-educated women"

The blatant hypocrisy on this one is through the roof.

A mainstream media outlet, The Independent, writes that only men who are college-educated or high-earning are suitable partners for women.

The article ends with a double-bind, lamenting that "rough financial times are likely ahead for Gen Z and millennial females (sic)" facing both the lack of high-earning men and the gender pay gap at the same time!

I mean, what? [Insert 2008 fucket up head meme]

College-educated women face shrinking pool of suitable men to marry, study finds | The Independent

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The study itself, published by the National Bureau of Economic Research, calls men who do not earn enough not viable:

>“College-educated women have maintained stable marriage rates by partnering with high-earning non-college men, shrinking the pool of economically viable partners available to non-college women,” the study said.

Low-earning men are then described as "less marriageable".

In a rather laugh-or-you'll-cry moment, the researchers end up echoing the "women most affected" meme:

>Taken together, the evidence suggests that deteriorating outcomes for men have primarily undermined the marriage prospects of non-college women.

Gender Disparities in College Enrollment and Marriage Patterns | NBER

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PS

Researching this topic, I stumbled upon a disgusting whitewash from an institution calling itself "American Institute for Boys and Men"

Are educated women less likely to get married? - American Institute for Boys and Men

u/griii2 — 16 days ago

Going forward, the UN Women organisation will count as a feminist organisation

I originally excluded UN Women and its sexist excesses from this sub, since, for political reasons, UN Women refuses to explicitly label itself a feminist organisation.

But the excesses keep piling up.

When Google AI insists UN Women is a feminist organisation, who am I to disagree?

>So is un women a feminist organisation or it is not? Your answers are ambiguous.

Yes, UN Women is definitively a feminist organization. [1, 2]

The confusion comes from a difference between ideological alignment and legal status.

The clear breakdown of that link is structured as follows:

  1. Ideologically: Yes, they are linked

UN Women explicitly bases its mission on feminist ideology. They publicly promote a feminist lens to analyze society, openly champion intersectional feminism, and state that their 2026–2029 operations are directly guided by the vision and energy of women’s rights movements. In terms of goals, values, and language, UN Women is a feminist entity. [1, 2, 3]

  1. Organizationally: They are partners, not the same thing

UN Women cannot be "officially part" of the global feminist movement because feminism is a decentralized social movement, not a club with an official membership list. UN Women is a formal bureaucracy created by governments. Therefore, the organization does not belong to feminism; rather, it acts as the institutional partner that funds, supports, and legislates on behalf of feminist movements. [1, 2]

  1. Diplomatic Vocabulary: The source of ambiguity

Because UN Women is governed by a board of UN member states—some of whom are deeply conservative or anti-feminist—the agency must remain a neutral diplomatic space. This is why you will see them frequently use neutral legal phrases like "gender equality" and "women's empowerment" in their official governing treaties, rather than exclusively using the word "feminism." They use diplomatic language to ensure hostile governments still sign their treaties. [1]

Summary

To put it simply: UN Women is an international government agency, but its engine, its ideology, its goals, and its partners are entirely feminist. [1]

>Is there any actual authoritative evidence that UN Women is linked with feminism? and no, the fact that they have What Is Feminism article is not evidence of anything.

Yes. If an educational article is set aside, the official, authoritative evidence linking UN Women to feminism is found within its formal institutional frameworks: its multi-billion dollar operational coalitions, its official Strategic Plans, its binding funding mechanisms, and its governing audit metrics. [1]

The most rigorous, authoritative evidence of this link operates across four specific areas:

  1. The Multi-Billion Dollar "Generation Equality" Mandate

UN Women is the founder and official secretariat of Generation Equality, a massive global partnership model spanning 2021–2026. [1, 2]

  • The Evidence: In its official 2026 reporting compendium, UN Women explicitly defines Generation Equality as a "feminist, intergenerational, multistakeholder partnership model." [1]
  • The Scale: This is not a public relations campaign; it is a formal operational framework that has mobilized $50.3 billion in pledged financing and directed $21 billion in expenditures specifically toward systemic, feminist policy reform. [1]
  1. Formally Binding Institutional Strategic Plans

A United Nations agency’s core legal directive is dictated by its multi-year Strategic Plan, which must be reviewed and approved by its Executive Board.

  • The Evidence: UN Women's formal blueprint for global operations—the UN Women Strategic Plan 2026–2029—explicitly embeds feminist methodologies into its core strategy. [1]
  • The Language: The formal text of the document details that UN Women's operational tactics rely heavily on "feminist research, movement-building," and a legal obligation to "secure sustainable funding for feminist movements" globally. [1]
  1. Legal and Operational Funding Mechanisms

UN Women directly manages the UN Trust Fund to End Violence against Women, a major international grant-making mechanism. [1, 2, 3, 4]

  • The Evidence: The legally binding Strategic Plan 2021–2025 and the successive Strategic Plan 2026–2030 for this Trust Fund explicitly state that a core, measurable objective of the fund is to "help feminist movements grow globally."
  • The Action: Rather than remaining abstract, the agency actively channels tens of millions of dollars of official development assistance (ODA) directly into civil society networks that are explicitly vetted and labeled as autonomous feminist organizations. [1, 2, 3]
  1. Official Internal Audit and Evaluation Systems

How an organization measures its own performance provides definitive proof of its structural alignment.

  • The Evidence: When auditing the success of its global programs, UN Women employs an official, formalized metric system known as Feminist Collaborative Evaluation.
  • The Audit Framework: As detailed in its 2024 institutional data reports, UN Women does not use standard, neutral corporate auditing. It requires its investigators to evaluate local community impact specifically through a "feminist lens" that prioritizes redistributing power to marginalized groups. [1]

Summary

The authoritative proof is budgetary and structural. UN Women writes feminist objectives into its governing Strategic Plans, audits its own staff using feminist evaluation frameworks, and actively distributes billions of dollars earmarked explicitly to scale up global feminist movements.

u/griii2 — 22 days ago

2026 UK Study: consistent “pro-girl” bias in teacher grade predictions harm boy's university admission chances

The study: Tracing the origins of teacher gender bias - ScienceDirect

University of Cambridge cover article: Gender gap in predicted grades raises questions over their use in university admissions | University of Cambridge

Notably, the only "mainstream" medium covering this is the "tabloid" The Daily Mail. The post in the main UK subreddit reached a decent 1.4k upvotes: Teachers ruin boys' university chances because they underestimate A-level grades, study says | Daily Mail Online

From the University of Cambridge article:

>The research, by academics at the Universities of Cambridge and Bristol, found a consistent “pro-girl” gap in teacher predictions across 10 A-Level subjects. Depending on the subject, girls were between 3% and 11% likelier than boys to have their grades overpredicted, and between 15% and 41% less likely to have them underpredicted.

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Could someone more knowledgeable explain the following part?

>We conclude our analysis by incorporating all observable student attributes and scholastic skills simultaneously as statistical controls in column 9 of Table 5 (full results provided in Appendix Table A.9). The estimates closely mirror those in column 8, suggesting that once cross-disciplinary competence is controlled for, additional observable characteristics explain little further variation in predicted grades.

>A clear pattern emerges in the residual gender differences, summarised in Fig. 3. In the baseline specification, girls receive higher predicted grades in both STEM and non-STEM subjects. After conditioning on the full set of observable characteristics, the gender gap in non-STEM subjects is substantially reduced, while in STEM subjects it reverses in favour of boys. This contrast highlights how the structure of residual differences differs across specifications and subject groups

>We interpret these results with caution. Although our controls capture a wide range of observable determinants of achievement, unobserved factors may contribute to the remaining gaps. Therefore, the results should not be interpreted as definitive evidence of discrimination, but rather as reflecting systematic, subject-specific differences that are consistent with gendered patterns in expectations.

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u/griii2 — 22 days ago
▲ 355 r/TheTinMen+1 crossposts

How quartz kitchen counters are silently killing men...

Every day, it feels like I discover a new, tragic thing that is quietly killing countless numbers of men, in terrible and unknown ways.

And this time, it could be something in your house right now.

Quartz kitchen worktops have exploded onto the home renovation scene - a manufactured product that looks and feels like natural stone, but costs much less.

It sounds like a dream product.

And so, right across social media, home improvement gurus, interior decorators, and domestic goddesses film themselves showing off their latest quartz kitchen worktops; entirely unaware of the fact that the manufacture of such engineered stone costs numerous men their lives, right across the world.

How?

Well, sanding and cutting these innovative new products creates dust that, when inhaled, permanently scars the lungs, causing a fatal disease ‘silicosis’, for which there is no cure.

Stonemasons, even in their twenties, are developing this disease and dying, so someone else can save a few quid on their new kitchen, and yet… nobody wants to talk about it.

Besides Australia, that is, who, after a spate of deaths in young masons, has outright banned these products.

America could well be next. Hundreds of doctors, as part of the ‘Western Occupational and Environmental Medical Association’, have signed an open letter demanding a ban – insisting that manufactured stone cannot be worked with safely, and needs to go.

Murmurs have been heard in the UK too, with all the major construction unions standing up and demanding change, and pressuring Westminster to debate the issue.

So why is nobody talking about a product that could quite literally be right beneath your nose, that is killing stonemasons at enormous scales?

Is it time to ban manufactured stone?

What do you think?

[1] https://www.clydeco.com/en/insights/2025/01/silicosis-an-evolving-risk

[2] https://www.thompsons.law/news/news-releases/industrial-disease-news/experts-unite-at-westminster-to-call-for-action-on-silica-exposure-crisis

u/TheTinMenBlog — 27 days ago

EU extends protection for "people" fleeing Ukrainian - excludes men

The official Council of the EU press release is as cowardly as the act itself:

The title claims that

>EU countries agree to extend temporary protection for those fleeing Ukraine

It talks about

>EU’s commitment to support Ukraine and its people for as long as it takes

It further obfuscates the truth with phrases like

>temporary protection should be granted only to those complying with their military obligations in Ukraine.

Of course, only men have "military obligations".

As always, not a single human rights organization gave a single fuck.

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An article in Politico calling it what it is: EU will exclude fighting-age men from Ukraine refugee scheme – POLITICO

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u/griii2 — 30 days ago

EU extends protection for "people" fleeing Ukrainian - excludes men

The official Council of the EU press release is as cowardly as the act itself:

The title claims that

>EU countries agree to extend temporary protection for those fleeing Ukraine

It talks about

>EU’s commitment to support Ukraine and its people for as long as it takes

It further obfuscates the truth with phrases like

>temporary protection should be granted only to those complying with their military obligations in Ukraine.

Of course, only men have "military obligations".

As always, not a single human rights organization gave a single fuck.

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An article in Politico calling it what it is: EU will exclude fighting-age men from Ukraine refugee scheme – POLITICO

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u/griii2 — 1 month ago

EU extends protection for "people" fleeing Ukrainian - excludes men

The official Council of the EU press release is as cowardly as the act itself:

The title claims that

>EU countries agree to extend temporary protection for those fleeing Ukraine

It talks about

>EU’s commitment to support Ukraine and its people for as long as it takes

It further obfuscates the truth with phrases like

>temporary protection should be granted only to those complying with their military obligations in Ukraine.

Of course, only men have "military obligations".

As always, not a single human rights organization gave a single fuck.

EU will exclude fighting-age men from Ukraine refugee scheme – POLITICO

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u/griii2 — 1 month ago

EU extends protection for "people" fleeing Ukrainian - excludes men

The official Council of the EU press release is as cowardly as the act itself:

The title claims that

>EU countries agree to extend temporary protection for those fleeing Ukraine

It talks about

>EU’s commitment to support Ukraine and its people for as long as it takes

It further obfuscates the truth with phrases like

>temporary protection should be granted only to those complying with their military obligations in Ukraine.

Of course, only men have "military obligations".

EU will exclude fighting-age men from Ukraine refugee scheme – POLITICO

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u/griii2 — 1 month ago

Canadian Standing Committee on the Status of Women urges government to "force online platforms to moderate antifeminist content"

Year 2026

Notable feminist

Canadian Standing Committee on the Status of Women

https://web.archive.org/web/20260720105450/https://www.ourcommons.ca/committees/en/FEWO

Toxic deed

>The federal government should table legislation to force online platforms to moderate antifeminist content, according to a recent report by the Standing Committee on the Status of Women.
[...]
Ménard said the legislative work to counter antifeminist ideology online will be aided by the proposed Bill C-34, the Safe Social Media Act.

https://web.archive.org/web/20260720105240/https://montrealgazette.com/news/its-very-possible-to-save-someone-slipping-into-antifeminist-ideology-mp-says/

Who-tags

feminist organisation

What-tags

censorship, authoritarianism

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u/griii2 — 1 month ago

In a feminist journal Emma, the feminist icon Alice Schwarzer, priasez rapper Ikkimen for misandry and "feminist lyrics" like "I fuck them all" and "do they make penises in larger sizes?"

Year 2026

Notable feminist

>Feminist icon Alice Schwarzer, and the next generation

>As the founding editor-in-chief of Emma, one of Germany's first important feminist magazines, Alice Schwarzer had a strong influence on many women in the country.

https://web.archive.org/web/20260709115505/https://www.dw.com/en/alice-schwarzer-turns-80/a-63954982

Toxic deed

>he calls her music "Fotzenrap" – a clear reaction to men's "porn rap." 

>Ikkimel isn't dumb at all. She's smart and incredibly interesting. She's a nonconformist, strong young woman who not only makes really good music—a kind of German rap with hard-hitting feminist lyrics

>Men don't find much to laugh about with Ikkimel. "I fuck them all," she raps. Or: "Do they make penises in larger sizes?"

>In interviews, Ikkimel even refers to the stronger sex as "a weak group."

https://web.archive.org/web/20260709115925/https://www.emma.de/artikel/alice-meets-ikkimel-342405

Who-tags

feminist leader

What-tags

sexism, hate, body shaming

Notes

A voice for a feminist awakening, rapper Ikkimel, shows men how misogyny feels by reversing the roles, says "it's time men were afraid" : r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic

u/griii2 — 1 month ago

A voice for a feminist awakening, rapper Ikkimel, shows men how misogyny feels by reversing the roles, says "it's time men were afraid"

Year 2026

Notable feminist

>Ikkimel grew rapidly in prominence as a voice for a new-generation feminist awakening.

https://web.archive.org/web/20260709112517/https://campus.europavox.com/en/news/ikkimel-revolution-rebirth-of-the-metoo-movement-in-germany/

Toxic deed

>The "I" in Ikkimel's songs is "not a fictional character," Strauß told the German newspaper "Die Zeit" in November, but rather a disguise for the purpose of exaggeration. "When I rap 'fuck all men,' I obviously don't mean that as Melina," 

>And the method is: show them what misogyny feels like by reversing the roles.

>"It's time men were afraid," Ikkimel said recently at the Polyton Awards ceremony. 

>Not everyone can see the meaning and depth in Ikkimel's actions. One feminist colleague sees her as an advocate for "women being better than men – and that achieves nothing." 

https://web.archive.org/web/20260507034136/https://www.rnd.de/kultur/ikkimel-veroeffentlicht-feministisches-rap-album-poppstar-am-15-mai-XJ3SZ6DTTRCO7CUWVZZMLL4LTI.html

>Rapper Ikkimel: "It makes me proud to be this hate figure."

>Why does female assertiveness trigger so much aggression in some men, and why does it frighten other women?
If you've lived with privilege your whole life and then suddenly women come along and stop begging for the same privileges, it bothers you. Because then men quickly feel like something is being taken away from them, even though women just want the same things. 

https://web.archive.org/web/20260709114528/https://www.watson.ch/international/interview/941575189-ikkimel-im-interview-deutsch-rapperin-ueber-hass-und-toleranz

Who-tags

feminist author

What-tags

sexism, hate

Notes

In a feminist journal Emma, the feminist icon Alice Schwarzer, priasez rapper Ikkimen for misandry and "feminist lyrics" like "I fuck them all" and "do they make penises in larger sizes?" : r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic

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u/griii2 — 1 month ago

A prominent figure of second wave feminism Shulamith Firestone wrote that "family structure is the source of psychological, economic, and political oppression"

Year 1970

Notable feminist

>She was a prominent figure in the early development of radical feminism and second-wave feminism and a founding member of three radical feminist organizations

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shulamith_Firestone

Toxic deed

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https://web.archive.org/web/20260705165358/https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/11063380-the-failure-of-the-russian-revolution-is-directly-traceable-to

>“Unless revolution uproots the basic social organization, the biological family—the vinculum through which the psychology of power can always be smuggled—the tapeworm of exploitation will never be annihilated,” Firestone wrote. She elaborated, with characteristic bluntness: “Pregnancy is barbaric”; childbirth is “like shitting a pumpkin”; and childhood is “a supervised nightmare.”

https://web.archive.org/web/20140731211809/http://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2013/04/15/death-of-a-revolutionary

Who-tags 

feminist leader

What-tags

separatism

Note

>When Shulamith Firestone’s body was found late last August, in her studio apartment on the fifth floor of a tenement walkup on East Tenth Street, she had been dead for some days. [...] Such a solitary demise would have been unimaginable to anyone who knew Firestone in the late nineteen-sixties, when she was at the epicenter of the radical-feminist movement

https://web.archive.org/web/20140731211809/http://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2013/04/15/death-of-a-revolutionary

u/griii2 — 2 months ago

Spain's minister of equality, Ana Redondo, says men and women are "radically different species, which have not much to do" and has asked to help "evolve" the male gender in social and emotional matters

Year 2026

Notable feminist

Ana Redondo. She is Spain's minister of equality, a ministry for feminist and lgtb+ issues, thus being the most visible figure of institutional feminism.

Toxic deed

>The minister stated that men and women are "radically different species, who don't have much in common", and also called for help in "evolving" the male gender in social and emotional matters.

>Likewise, Redondo said about men that "they are still anchored in privileges that aren't really privileges at all, because denying feelings or weakness is very harmful to any human being."

https://web.archive.org/web/20260704190525/https://www.outono.net/elentir/2026/07/03/the-anti-scientific-speech-of-the-socialist-minister-ana-redondo-against-men/

Who-tags

feminist leader

What-tags

demonisation, separatism

Notes

Spain's minister of equality, Ana Redondo, says she thinks it is unethical, immoral and unconstitutional for an association for abused men to exist : r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic

u/griii2 — 2 months ago

Managing editor of The Oakland Post Lauren Karmo, a student magazine writing about feminism, says feminism isn’t enough, demands misandry and male oppression

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u/griii2 — 2 months ago