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Dual temperature settings on electric tea kettle
A few years ago I learned not all tea needs boiling water. I bought an electric tea kettle with settings below boiling. Here is an article with the ideal settings if anyone is interested. Have a beautiful weekend, and don't forget to look up at tonight's full Harvest moon.
I was prompted to share this from another sub
Hello,
If you're scared and need to dial 911, but an abusive person is listening, this is what you need to do. Dial 911 and ask for a pizza. Just keep talking when dispatch tells you this is the police. Say yes I'll take pepperoni etc they should understand and ask you questions about if you're in danger. This started in the 1970's or 80s as a way to call for help when you can't call for help.
https://www.upworthy.com/large-pizza-domestic-violence-call-ex1/
I divorced an abusive alcoholic and am working my way towards peace. I hope everyone here also finds peace. 💝
Pumpkin spice coffee
I used oat milk but anything works. The ingredients cost $7 or about the same as one Starbucks latte. My mug is about 40 calories. I added a little brown sugar and ground ginger. I used a milk frother to mix it all before adding the espresso. Coffee works and you don't have to use any milk. Tonight I'll put some coffee in the fridge so I can have one iced after my walk in the morning.
Researchers quantify the rate of “mercy sex” among women with low sexual desire. Women experiencing a chronic lack of sexual desire still routinely engage in sexual activity with their partners, a behavior researchers have quantified as happening about two and a half times per month.
psypost.orgI like this weird girl, Marianne
A good one about a girl who is ostracized by her peers but blossoms in later life.
Fiber & Protein
Blueberries, strawberries, cottage cheese and Fiber One cereal
Tipping culture entitlement has bled into so many other businesses
I just paid a few hundred dollars for prescription glasses at Lens Crafters. When I go to swipe my card, I'm shown a picture of a child in need of glasses or some medical care. It's prompting me to add money to some charitable organization. The sales person at least seems embarrassed and tells me to just skip the screen.
Then, I splurge on a pair of much needed walking shoes because my pair have holes in them. The only decent pair I can find for exercising are over $80 New Balance. After tax they are almost $100, and the screen pops up with some blurb about more children in need. The cashier starts badgering me to donate to help children in need of school shoes. She is pushy and rude. When I firmly tell her no, she acts like I want children to suffer. I figure it must somehow affect her paycheck or maybe she gets a bonus for x amount of donations.
Goodwill knows me by now, and they quit asking me to round up to the nearest dollar amount for the charity of the week.
I like to read articles on Substack, and they are always asking me to donate so they can continue to provide content. Go ahead and quit providing content, I dare you.
These corporations think customers are too stupid to realize they are getting tax refunds from our charity dollars.
Edit: I forgot to add the cars with cash app or venmo user id written on the windows to get money for birthday, graduation or just married. I see those about once a month.
Protein bowl
Cottage cheese with mustard, everything bagel seasoning, a chopped up hard boiled egg and some pretzel thins. I forget to add my dill pickle.
The movie Pillion
The movie Pillion made me cry. When I watch it all I can see is attachment disorder. It's about a dominant/submissive gay relationship. A younger sub guy falls in love with a dom biker played by Andrew Skarsgard. It shows how much the sub is controlled at home by his overbearing mother and how much the dom is afraid of relationships. The movie definitely has sex, and it's a bit nasty in parts. There are two versions, and one is unrated. For anyone who is afraid of love or loves someone who is unavailable, you might enjoy this film. It's streaming on HBO
Morning walk
I started walking really early because it's hot. I'm out the door by 6 am. There's a hill I like to tackle, and it is by this house with a completely overgrown yard. I don't care about that aesthetic, but it can be awful for your home. The front 'yard' has a bright trailer with Magical Magi or something painted on the front and a tree stump covered in bird seeds. So the squirrels he's feeding are everywhere. That's great except it will also attract mice and pack rats to your home.
One morning I saw the owner I assume. He had long white hair and a long beard. Again, cool I'm a hippie. But I can hear this guy from the bottom of the hill because he's always hacking. It sounds painful, and I can smell the skunk. A few years ago, I would have stopped to partake instead of just waving hello.Today, it just looks sad. Like a guy who can't maintain his health or home but would never relate it to the weed. It looks like something I used to think was freedom until I got my head out of the fog.
I'm so grateful I exercise in the mornings instead of filling my lungs with smoke. I spent way too much time starting my days with a wake and bake.
Free on Tubi - That Summer
That Summer (2017) - IMDb https://share.google/Wi8ceLv4RXseyiafW
I haven't watched it yet, but Tubi is free. It's about Edith and Little Edie before Grey Gardens was filmed.
I made this a few years ago and it's my favorite meme
I posted this a while back under a different account. It's the most accurate meme I've made. DO NOT FALL FOR THE CAREGIVING TRAP. If you don't have a choice my heart breaks for you 💔