u/lomein2790

Well the title says it all. Why do us women have to suffer from the sins of Adam and Eve? Why can’t he just punish them only?

I‘m genuinely worried that I may have uterine cancer. If only g*d did not create me with a uterus, I wouldn’t have to worry about this. If I do have uterine cancer, I can’t have kids and I want kids in the future. And even if I’m able to have kids, I’ll have to suffer the pain of childbirth. So thanks a lot, Adam and Eve for eating from the tree or thanks to the tyranny who chose to punish me too 🙄

Hey! 19F here and I’m currently looking to meet new people to form genuine, real friendships. I want someone that I can have daily convos with everyday, rant to each other, share jokes and support one another. I don’t have as many female friends in real life and it would be nice to connect with other girls. I am specifically looking for girls in the NJ/NYC area or if close by, that’s fine.

Here are some of my interests/hobbies: makeup, nails, art, sustainable living, holistic health (sorta?), learning about the female anatomy, learning about the environment, cats, nature, music etc.

I am not into politics or any kind of religious stuff. I also don’t smoke, drink or do any delinquent stuff so if you’re one of those people that do, I suggest you click out of this post!

Here are some few things about me: introverted, shy, fun to hang out with, I get comfortable with people easily.

Comment or DM me if you’re interested!! I am hoping to build great connections with you girls 🥰

Hey. Yesterday I had wawas tuna sandwich for dinner. The tuna had celery in it and I wasn’t even aware until I heard a crunch sound. Could I possibly get cyclospora? I know Wawas veggies aren’t usually contaminated with cyclospora, google says it’s usually store bought cilantro, berries or parsley. I just want to make sure because im a bit of a hypochondriac. Is celery a common veggie linked with cyclospora? I live in the state of NJ btw.

I absolutely hate reading the bible. I am forced to do bible study everyday for an hour with my religious dad. It’s a waste of time and I hate it. Everything in the bible makes no sense to me at all.

You know how god forces all of us to abide by his Ten Commandments? One of them is “you shall not kill.” Yet in Deuteronomy 14 NIRV, god allows us to slaughter lambs, cows, chickens, fish, etc. to cook them and eat them. How ironic. What kind of evil hypocrisy is this?? Who the fuck allows their creations to perish their other creations??

It absolutely breaks me how killing animals and eating them is beyond normalized for thousands of years because of the bible. Why can’t we eat other high protein foods that we can replace with meat. It’s sad how we’re allowed to do this. If it was a sin, we wouldn’t have turned animals into our food today. Animals are living beings just like us, it doesn’t make them any less valuable.

So me (19F) and my bf (23M) have been dating since I was 17 and he was 21. Brief history about our relationship, when I told my friends that I was dating him, they were happy at first. I introduced them to him and vice versa, they seemed to get along. Then they soon realized that he is grooming me but I never thought about that because we were happy with each other and he seemed to love me a lot. I was told by them to break up with him and I refused (they are no longer my friends for another reason.) We have broken up before because he emotionally cheated on me, got caught and denied it. He apologized for denying it and we moved on.  

My parents, friends, etc around me tell me to break up with him bc they think he’s grooming me because of the age gap and they found out he spoils me and uses that as a way to bribe me for sex (he’s a virgin and they think he sees me as an opportunity to lose his virginity to) and also to trap me in the relationship with him. He recently got me an LV purse because I begged him for one and he said he’ll only get it for me if I promise that I’ll stay w him forever and I told him ofc I will. I didn’t mean it, I only wanted the LV bag. Like I’m so torn. I know that he loves me but part of me thinks they’re right that he may be grooming me. Another part of me wonders if that isn’t the case because he’s autistic and may not fully understand the value of money or how relationships work. I just feel so guilty that he is willing to get me anything I want. 

He also lies and blames it on his ADHD. There are countless times where he acts clueless on purpose. Sometimes I can’t tell if he’s genuinely that dumb or if he’s acting clueless on purpose. For example, I tell him that my favorite color is pink and he’ll say “I didn’t know that. I thought it was green!” Even though my entire aesthetic is literally all pink. It pisses me off how he acts dumb. It’s childish and it’s a huge turn off for me. He also has issues with grammar. He talks like a third grader and it’s embarrassing for me. Whenever we have a conversation about a certain topic, he tends to go off on something completely unrelated. I was telling him about how I wanted to boycott Sephora makeup items because they’re not eco friendly. Then he says “Buy cheaper items from Sephora next time” like he completely misses the point. I would sometimes tell him “use your brain” or “are you dumb” etc. I feel like I’m too harsh on him because he’s a little slow. Most of the time I feel guilt ridden because he’s genuinely so sweet and he spoils me and treats me better than anyone else has. 

I’m not an ableist person. I set standards for myself and I’m not wrong for doing so. I personally choose to be with someone who can think for themselves and is capable of making smart decisions. He is not smart at all. I feel like our intelligence levels are so different. Let me know your thoughts. 

Hey 19F here and I have a hard time connecting with other females. I literally have no female friends. I have a lot of guy friends and it’s so much easier to make friends with males rather than females. I don’t feel the same way about both genders. I get called a wh*re, h*e, attention seeker, etc for being friends with only guys. My parents tell me to make friends with other girls but i refuse to because of my experiences with my past friendships with girls. They are all snarky, two faced, rude and dramatic. With males, they tend to be drama free. I had a ”best friend” who was jealous of me over a boy and our friendship ended because of that. Most of my former female friends are male centered. Our talks are always about boys. Literally boys that’s it. They also complain about men yet sleep with them. That’s the part i hate the most. I always see girls as competition because I’m insecure abt myself and i always feel like they put me down. On the other hand… males aren’t like this with each other, they just get inspired by each other.

Another thing is, I’m raised conservative which probably contributes to why I don’t like females as much. I don’t want to go against my own gender and I really want to develop healthy female friendships. Pls give some advice and don't be rude. Lmk if anyone else struggle with this too!!

hii! 19F here and i tried a menstrual cup for the very first time. i got an xs sized menstrual cup because i’m a light bleeder and i’ve never given birth. before trying it, i smeared a lot of lube on the cup and tried to relax myself. i did it while standing up & used the punch down fold method and that was the easiest one for me (my vaginal opening is very small.) i managed to get the whole cup in except the stem was hanging out of the opening and i couldn’t push it in a little further because it was hurting :( the cup opened up in the inside and i felt some pressure but it wasn‘t as painful. so i guess the first attempt was a kind of a successful try!!

second attempt: relaxed myself and got into a comfy position. i tried the c fold method this time. somehow the entire cup didn’t go in, only the rim of the cup did. took a 5 min break and tried with the c fold method again. somehow i couldn’t get it in at all 🤨 even though i used a lot of lube. gave up and gave my pussy a break lol plus my fingers were in pain from pressing down on the fold. second attempt was unsuccessful 😔

i will keep trying everyday and hoping to get used to it before my next period starts. wasted a lot of lube but it was $2 anyway. maybe next time i’ll get an applicator which is prob much easier. thanks for reading & good luck if you’re gonna give it a try! :)

Hello, 19F here and I started my sustainable journey two months ago. I feel like this lifestyle isn’t suitable for me at all. I know it’s not about my personal comfort and that I should be doing it for the love of the planet but it’s just frustrating having to boycott things that are convenient for everyday life. Maybe I’m still getting used to it because I started not that long ago or bc I’m broke, not making money & living with people that aren’t eco friendly.

I’m still doing research on greenwashing, what to boycott, how to live a sustainable life, etcetera without having to use ChatGPT which is much difficult because ChatGPT comes up with quick, accurate answers but the goal here is to not waste gallons of water.

When it comes to being a non vegan I feel so much guilt. I love animals and I very much condemn the murdering of animals but I just can’t adapt to veganism because I have to have my meat. I’m underweight and I have an eating disorder and there’s no way to get my protein unless I eat meat. 

I also hate insects—mosquitoes, ants, fruit flies, and every other insect (bees are the exception bc they produce honey). It’s hard to call myself eco friendly when I don’t even like insects, it’s so hard to care about these creatures when all they do is be invasive and nothing 😭

End of rant, I’m still doing my best on going zero waste, not fully bc it’s impossible but I’m trying. I can’t give up because I just started. I’m learning, adjusting, and trying to become more comfortable with this lifestyle. Also I’m not seeking for advice or anything I just need to rant, please don’t leave any mean comments otherwise just downvote my post. Thanks for reading <3

TMI POST ⚠️ Hey. I’ve heard about the cyclosporiasis disease spreading across the country. I’ve ate a salad and chipotle 5 days ago. Ever since then I didn’t eat any fresh produce. The next morning, I was cramping a lot and shitting but it wasn’t diarrhea, just normal stool but a bit mushy. It was less than the normal amount too. It happened 5 mornings in a row. The rest of the day I feel completely fine, no shitting until the next morning again. Also I stopped getting my period so I don’t think it’s period symptoms. Maybe it’s something bad I ate or IBS?

Could this possibly be early symptom of cyclosporiasis?

Is it just me or just looking at the retail shop when it’s closed scares you? Something about the dark blue heart just feels so haunting to me idk 😭

I see a lot of girls in here ask if they’re pregnant or if they can get pregnant and it’s so overwhelming & annoying. Most of them aren’t even about periods. Just them panicking and asking if they’re pregnant. Go to a different subreddit. This is about PERIODS.

If you read the rules of this subreddit, one specifically says they’re not allowing these kind of posts.

And for the girls asking “I had period sex, could I have a chance of getting pregnant” yes tf. Or other questions with an obvious answer. How else would you get pregnant?? Just by holding hands?? Use your damn brain. Okay good night.

Hello! 19F here and I’ve been struggling with super irregular periods. I started my first period at 11 years old and for the first few years, they were regular (duration and flow talking) now they’ve been irregular lately. I don’t know what’s causing it. I stopped getting an actual period since September of last year and now I’ve been spotting like once every two months. I’m also constantly shedding hair like crazy and there’s a spot on my balding spot on the back of my hair that’s very visible.

The only reasons why I think I may not have PCOS:

- I barely have any facial hair

- I don’t get period symptoms at all, not even when I had my periods back then

- I barely break out (have acne)

- Slightly underweight 5’0/97 lbs

I will be seeing a doctor next month to see what is going on with my body!

Hey. I don’t know if this is an ARFID thing, but I have an aversion to Taco Bell chicken tacos. I used to like it but after eating it a few times I got sick of it (usually I don’t get sick of foods unless I eat it a lot) and every time I think about their chicken tacos, I get very nauseous and I end up losing my appetite the next day. Same goes with Tylenol. I haven’t took Tylenol in 9 months and for some reason the feeling of swallowing Tylenol pills lingers and makes me nauseous and want to gag. The coating is sweet and I absolutely hate when it goes down my throat. I had a hard time eating yogurt because of those thoughts. Is this an ARFID thing? I’m seeing my doctor to get diagnosed next month.

I have an aversion to Taco Bell. Every time I think about eating their chicken taco, I get a nauseous feeling. It lingers for hours even when I don’t think about it.

I also HATE swallowing Tylenol pills. I haven’t took Tylenol in 9 months and when I think about swallowing Tylenol it makes me very nauseous and want to gag. The coating of the pill is sweet and it makes me bleh.

Everytime I think about Taco Bell, pierogis or Tylenol i just get super nauseous and then lose my appetite.

Is this normal? I can eat just fine but after my meal these sudden feelings of consuming food I hate makes me nauseous. Do any of you guys have the same issue?

I keep having new villagers move in my town. They keep choosing for their house to be right in front of mine, barely any space in between our houses 😭 this is so annoying and it pisses me off ugh. There’s so much space in my town but they specifically choose to locate their house right in front of mine. How do I make these villagers move towns?? Will dropping random items in front of my house prevent this??

I just started my sustainability journey. I’m slowly taking small steps and doing more research than just boycotting/doing everything at once.

I’m a 19 y/o female that still lives with her family. It’s much harder to be eco friendly when everyone else in the family isn’t, and I’m already starting to face judgement.

My family all uses plastic bottles and I can’t just force them to stop buying/using plastic bottles. I don’t know if I should keep using plastic bottles or not because even if I don’t use them, my family will still use them and they will be ending up in the ocean regardless. I also can’t drink sink water because I live in New Jersey and our water here is not clean. Is it safe to boil sink water and drink it without a filter?

I have a lot of plastic bottles in my room and I don’t want to recycle it because it’ll go to the ocean which is what I’m trying to avoid. How can I reuse them? I don’t even know if I can because I have A LOT. Please help me here, any tips or advice appreciated.

Hi, I (19F) want to boycott plastic. I hate seeing turtles getting harmed and I think it’s time for me to switch to sustainable products. Can anyone give me some alternatives or tips? Thank you.

Also I have a box of tampons that I bought a while ago but I never used them bc I stopped getting my period. I need tips on how to get rid of them.

I’ve been relapsing, which caused my ARFID to flare up again. It’s so frustrating. I lost two pounds because of this. Yesterday, I had an anxious episode again which cause me to lose my appetite and my throat became tighter the next morning. I’m hoping to improve again, because for me it seems to be an ongoing cycle at this point. It takes so long for me to swallow and I would have to let the food sit in my mouth for about 10 secs. Whenever I have these stress/anxiety/ or depressive episodes, I tend to fall back into bad eating habits. Then days later, I can eat normally again.

did I make a mistake. it was mildly infected. it would have puss coming out when a scab fell off. im panicking.