u/nousernam7

30f, have had dry eyes for about 3 years now. The issue coincided ironically around the time I was cleaning up my diet, stopping alcohol and reducing takeout (I had a lot of stress around this time too but had stress before the diet clean up as well). The weight loss happened over months.

At 5’2 I went from around 109 to 105-106. I had been at 109 for years with no dry eyes. I have since reduced my stress but the dryness persists.

I am not sure if it’s just a coincidence or if there’s a correlation.

Any recommendations for someone looking for a minimalist and easy to apply makeup routine?

I used to do primer, foundation, brows, liner, mascara, and lips but I feel like that’s too much for me now…or maybe I just need to choose more muted colors. I think blush would be cute but I don’t know which ones are easy to apply. Thanks in advance!

Btw medium skin tone, 32N in Positive Light Tinted Moisturizer Broad Spectrum SPF 20 Sunscreen, super dark hair

Which Levi’s jeans do you guys think flatter petite frames the best and make the booty look nice?

I’m considering the 501 original cropped, ribcage straight ankle, and wedgie icon fit. Should I be considering any others as well? I’ve shared some general measurements below.
Thanks!

5’2, ~105 lbs, 24 waist 35 hips

Among other brands of jeans I’m considering, which Levi’s do you guys think flatter petite frames the best?

I’m considering the 501 original cropped, ribcage straight ankle, and wedgie icon fit. Should I be considering any others as well? I’ve shared some general measurements below.
Thanks!

5’2, ~105 lbs, 24 waist 35 hips

Anyone know any low profile sneakers that can be worn with more feminine pieces of clothing without looking weird and bulky (ex. Trousers, blouses, midis, etc.)?

Edit: I’d like less sporty styles please! Simple low profile sneakers is what I’m looking for.

Edit 2: Has anyone tried Thursday Boot Co.’s sneakers?

Which pair fits good and makes the booty look nice? Thanks!

Edit: 5’2, 105 lbs, pear shape with most of that coming from pelvis, 24 waist 35 hips.
Curvy fits have NOT worked for me - way too much extra fabric in the backside

Not knowing if your anxiety/fears/phobias/triggers/panic episodes are even from the “real you” or from the “iron/ferritin-deficient you” sucks.

Has anyone found the perfect white/off-white button up shirt? Please share if so! I’d prefer a more casual one, not looking to wear to work.

How do you guys spend your down time while you’re working on fixing your low iron?

I ask because many of us are low on energy, have injuries, and/or have low mood so many hobbies and activities are out of the picture.

Curious how many of you also have other types of dryness like dry hair, dry face, dry lips, etc.

Anyone have this symptom? It’s new for me.
After walking for a considerable amount of time (ex. An hour) the underside of my feet start feeling kinda numb, like mild neuropathy. Kinda scary.

Hi girls,
After a glow up that spanned 2-3 years I started noticing something strange- some guys that are more conventionally handsome seem to check me out (at least overtly) more than the less conventionally handsome ones. Are they self-rejecting?

What’s going on? If someone can offer advice or tell me anecdotal experience or whatever, I’d appreciate it!

I started lifting about 2 years ago (just for a few months before I had to quit) and my mediocre health worsened even more.

Tendon injuries that are stubborn to heal, slow healing scars and scratches, persistent hair loss (already had before the gym), insomnia, the list goes on from there…

Has anyone experienced anything like this? My theory is that the physical stress of working out like that drained the rest of the iron my body has. Ferritin at a grand 16. But Interestingly I think my ferritin has been low for many years looking at my old bloodwork (ferritin at 14 9 years ago).

Do we all start feeling worse or see things we don’t want to when scrolling on here vs when we search for something, then leave?

I thought that was just a “me thing” until one other commenter said this and I was surprised.

It seems to happen no matter how much I curate my feed.

(Reposting because my previous got deleted)
Does anyone else relate? Don’t get me wrong, most people are neutral or friendly. But some guys just say weird or do weird things. I don’t even wear provocative clothing. Capris, jeans, t shirts, sometimes a jacket if it’s starting to get chilly out. I did notice it tends to happen more when it starts to get darker out. The guys tend to be way older than me too. Guys around my age act quite normally on walks (even when they appear slightly attracted).

I don’t think these older guys are necessarily “dangerous,” but it is a bit odd. Maybe they just like the feeling of talking to women that they think are pretty or whatever idk.

Edit: as embarrassing as it sounds to type, it’s part of the reason I like to walk while looking at my phone. Feels safer that way idk

Does anyone else relate? Don’t get me wrong, most people are neutral or friendly. But some guys just say weird or do weird things. I don’t even wear provocative clothing. Capris, jeans, t shirts, sometimes a jacket if it’s starting to get chilly out. I did notice it tends to happen more when it starts to get darker out. The guys tend to be way older than me too. Guys around my age act quite normally on walks (even when they appear slightly attracted).

I don’t think these older guys are necessarily “dangerous,” but it is a bit odd. Maybe they just like the feeling of talking to women that they think are pretty or whatever idk.

Edit: as embarrassing as it sounds to type, it’s part of the reason I like to walk while looking at my phone. Feels safer that way idk

Why?

No doubt that society like good looking people. But are we giving “pretty privilege” more credit than it actually deserves? I don’t think pretty privilege alone can help someone become a lawyer, doctor, pilot, etc.

You may of heard of the hypothetical comparison-
“If applicants x and y were exactly alike in all aspects except for their looks…”
But would they be? The chances of this happening, I’d assume, are slim to none.

Is this concept of “pretty privilege” more applicable instead to certain careers where appearance is more important, such as news anchoring, acting, singing, etc?

Are we subconsciously externalizing blame using “pretty privilege” as a reason we don’t reach our highest potential as individuals?

Or is “pretty privilege” just the latest internet trend to encourage people to feel insecure and contribute to more consumerism to feel beautiful?