my friend [20M] was trying to get me [23F] drunk?

so I'm not big on alcohol, i only drink occasionally and never drink a lot. But one day i was at a party with my group of friends, and my male friend was excited at the fact that i agreed on drinking that day, and insisted on me drinking. I drank a lot, more than i was used to, he bought everything to me. He said jokingly he didn't know how i was still sober, but i didn't pay much attention to this comment. I thought he just meant my alcohol tolerance was bigger than he initially thought but in a neutral way, especially because my female friend drank less than me and was way worse. The thing is, he started to get especially touchy with me. I didn't know if i was seeing things at the moment, but he started hugging more than he usually does, grabbing my waist, etc. I was not avoiding him necessarily, at the end of the day he's my friend and yes we hug often, dance, etc. but i did showed him my surprise on his abnormal behavior. The day after the party, thinking more clearly, I got to the conclusion he was trying to get me drunk in order to flirt/kiss me, which made me very sad and disappointed. I feel almost betrayed bc he's my friend, or so I thought, and I think that was a low move.

Is that a valid conclusion? What do i do? I feel awkward addressing this, but how can our friendship even be the same

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u/qat_btata202 — 1 month ago

my friend tried to get me drunk?

so I'm not big on alcohol, i only drink occasionally and never drink a lot. But one day i was at a party with my group of friends, and my male friend was excited at the fact that i agreed on drinking that day, and insisted on me drinking. I drank a lot, more than i was used to, he bought everything to me. He said jokingly he didn't know how i was still sober, but i didn't pay much attention to this comment. I thought he just meant my alcohol tolerance was bigger than he initially thought but in a neutral way, especially because my female friend drank less than me and was way worse. The thing is, he started to get especially touchy with me. I didn't know if i was seeing things at the moment, but he started hugging more than he usually does, grabbing my waist, etc. I was not avoiding him necessarily, at the end of the day he's my friend and yes we hug often, dance, etc. but i did showed him my surprise on his abnormal behavior. The day after the party, thinking more clearly, I got to the conclusion he was trying to get me drunk in order to flirt/kiss me, which made me very sad and disappointed. I feel almost betrayed bc he's my friend, or so I thought, and I think that was a low move.

Is that a valid conclusion? What do you think as men? I feel awkward addressing this, but how can our friendship even be the same

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u/qat_btata202 — 1 month ago

my friend was trying to get me drunk?

so I'm not big on alcohol, i only drink occasionally and never drink a lot. But one day i was at a party with my group of friends, and my male friend (20M) was excited at the fact that i (24F) agreed on drinking that day, and insisted on me drinking. I drank a lot, more than i was used to, he bought everything to me. He said jokingly he didn't know how i was still sober, but i didn't pay much attention to this comment. I thought he just meant my alcohol tolerance was bigger than he initially thought but in a neutral way, especially because my female friend drank less than me and was way worse. The thing is, he started to get especially touchy with me. I didn't know if i was seeing things at the moment, but he started hugging more than he usually does, grabbing my waist, etc. I was not avoiding him necessarily, at the end of the day he's my friend and yes we hug often, dance, etc. but i did showed him my surprise on his abnormal behavior. The day after the party, thinking more clearly, I got to the conclusion he was trying to get me drunk in order to flirt/kiss me, which made me very sad and disappointed. I feel almost betrayed bc he's my friend, or so I thought, and I think that was a low move.

Is that a valid conclusion? What do i do? I feel awkward addressing this, but how can our friendship even be the same

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u/qat_btata202 — 1 month ago

my friend was trying to get me drunk?

so I'm not big on alcohol, i only drink occasionally and never drink a lot. But one day i was at a party with my group of friends, and my male friend was excited at the fact that i agreed on drinking that day, and insisted on me drinking. I drank a lot, more than i was used to, he bought everything to me. He said jokingly he didn't know how i was still sober, but i didn't pay much attention to this comment. I thought he just meant my alcohol tolerance was bigger than he initially thought but in a neutral way, especially because my female friend drank less than me and was way worse. The thing is, he started to get especially touchy with me. I didn't know if i was seeing things at the moment, but he started hugging more than he usually does, grabbing my waist, etc. I was not avoiding him necessarily, at the end of the day he's my friend and yes we hug often, dance, etc. but i did showed him my surprise on his abnormal behavior. The day after the party, thinking more clearly, I got to the conclusion he was trying to get me drunk in order to flirt/kiss me, which made me very sad and disappointed. I feel almost betrayed bc he's my friend, or so I thought, and I think that was a low move.

Is that a valid conclusion? What do i do? I feel awkward addressing this, but how can our friendship even be the same

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u/qat_btata202 — 1 month ago

my friend was trying to get me drunk?

so I'm not big on alcohol, i only drink occasionally and never drink a lot. But one day i was at a party with my group of friends, and my male friend was excited at the fact that i agreed on drinking that day, and insisted on me drinking. I drank a lot, more than i was used to, he bought everything to me. He said jokingly he didn't know how i was still sober, but i didn't pay much attention to this comment. I thought he just meant my alcohol tolerance was bigger than he initially thought but in a neutral way, especially because my female friend drank less than me and was way worse. The thing is, he started to get especially touchy with me. I didn't know if i was seeing things at the moment, but he started hugging more than he usually does, grabbing my waist, etc. I was not avoiding him necessarily, at the end of the day he's my friend and yes we hug often, dance, etc. but i did showed him my surprise on his abnormal behavior. The day after the party, thinking more clearly, I got to the conclusion he was trying to get me drunk in order to flirt/kiss me, which made me very sad and disappointed. I feel almost betrayed bc he's my friend, or so I thought, and I think that was a low move.

Is that a valid conclusion? What do i do? I feel awkward addressing this, but how can our friendship even be the same

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u/qat_btata202 — 1 month ago

my friend (20M) was trying to get me (23F) drunk?

so I'm not big on alcohol, i only drink occasionally and never drink a lot. But one day i was at a party with my group of friends, and my male friend was excited at the fact that i agreed on drinking that day, and insisted on me drinking. I drank a lot, more than i was used to, he bought everything to me. He said jokingly he didn't know how i was still sober, but i didn't pay much attention to this comment. I thought he just meant my alcohol tolerance was bigger than he initially thought but in a neutral way, especially because my female friend drank less than me and was way worse. The thing is, he started to get especially touchy with me. I didn't know if i was seeing things at the moment, but he started hugging more than he usually does, grabbing my waist, etc. I was not avoiding him necessarily, at the end of the day he's my friend and yes we hug often, dance, etc. but i did showed him my surprise on his abnormal behavior. The day after the party, thinking more clearly, I got to the conclusion he was trying to get me drunk in order to flirt/kiss me, which made me very sad and disappointed. I feel almost betrayed bc he's my friend, or so I thought, and I think that was a low move.

I'm not sure if that's a valid conclusion or what to do. I feel awkward addressing this, but how can our friendship even be the same

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u/qat_btata202 — 1 month ago

my friend was trying to get me drunk?

so I'm not big on alcohol, i only drink occasionally and never drink a lot. But one day i was at a party with my group of friends, and my male friend was excited at the fact that i agreed on drinking that day, and insisted on me drinking. I drank a lot, more than i was used to, he bought everything to me. He said jokingly he didn't know how i was still sober, but i didn't pay much attention to this comment. I thought he just meant my alcohol tolerance was bigger than he initially thought but in a neutral way, especially because my female friend drank less than me and was way worse. The thing is, he started to get especially touchy with me. I didn't know if i was seeing things at the moment, but he started hugging more than he usually does, grabbing my waist, etc. I was not avoiding him necessarily, at the end of the day he's my friend and yes we hug often, dance, etc. but i did showed him my surprise on his abnormal behavior. The day after the party, thinking more clearly, I got to the conclusion he was trying to get me drunk in order to flirt/kiss me, which made me very sad and disappointed. I feel almost betrayed bc he's my friend, or so I thought, and I think that was a low move.

Is that a valid conclusion? What do i do? I feel awkward addressing this, but how can our friendship even be the same

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u/qat_btata202 — 1 month ago

my friend was trying to get me drunk

so I'm not big on alcohol, i only drink occasionally and never drink a lot. But one day i was at a party with my group of friends, and my male friend was excited at the fact that i agreed on drinking that day, and insisted on me drinking. I drank a lot, more than i was used to, he bought everything to me. He said jokingly he didn't know how i was still sober, but i didn't pay much attention to this comment. I thought he just meant my alcohol tolerance was bigger than he initially thought but in a neutral way, especially because my female friend drank less than me and was way worse. The thing is, he started to get especially touchy with me. I didn't know if i was seeing things at the moment, but he started hugging more than he usually does, grabbing my waist, etc. I was not avoiding him necessarily, at the end of the day he's my friend and yes we hug often, dance, etc. but i did showed him my surprise on his abnormal behavior. The day after the party, thinking more clearly, I got to the conclusion he was trying to get me drunk in order to flirt/kiss me, which made me very sad and disappointed. I feel almost betrayed bc he's my friend, or so I thought, and I think that was a low move.

Is that a valid conclusion? What do i do? I feel awkward addressing this, but how can our friendship even be the same

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u/qat_btata202 — 1 month ago

my friend tried to get me drunk

so I'm not big on alcohol, i only drink occasionally and never drink a lot. But one day i was at a party with my group of friends, and my male friend was excited at the fact that i agreed on drinking that day, and insisted on me drinking. I drank a lot, more than i was used to, he bought everything to me. He said jokingly he didn't know how i was still sober, but i didn't pay much attention to this comment. I thought he just meant my alcohol tolerance was bigger than he initially thought but in a neutral way, especially because my female friend drank less than me and was way worse. The thing is, he started to get especially touchy with me. I didn't know if i was seeing things at the moment, but he started hugging more than he usually does, grabbing my waist, etc. I was not avoiding him necessarily, at the end of the day he's my friend and yes we hug often, dance, etc. but i did showed him my surprise on his abnormal behavior. The day after the party, thinking more clearly, I got to the conclusion he was trying to get me drunk in order to flirt/kiss me, which made me very sad and disappointed. I feel almost betrayed bc he's my friend, or so I thought, and I think that was a low move.

Is that a valid conclusion? What do i do? I feel awkward addressing this, but how can our friendship even be the same

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u/qat_btata202 — 1 month ago
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my friend was trying to get me drunk

so I'm not big on alcohol, i only drink occasionally and never drink a lot. But one day i was at a party with my group of friends, and my male friend was excited at the fact that i agreed on drinking that day, and insisted on me drinking. I drank a lot, more than i was used to, he bought everything to me. He said jokingly he didn't know how i was still sober, but i didn't pay much attention to this comment. I thought he just meant my alcohol tolerance was bigger than he initially thought but in a neutral way, especially because my female friend drank less than me and was way worse. The thing is, he started to get especially touchy with me. I didn't know if i was seeing things at the moment, but he started hugging more than he usually does, grabbing my waist, etc. I was not avoiding him necessarily, at the end of the day he's my friend and yes we hug often, dance, etc. but i did showed him my surprise on his abnormal behavior. The day after the party, thinking more clearly, I got to the conclusion he was trying to get me drunk in order to flirt/kiss me, which made me very sad and disappointed. I feel almost betrayed bc he's my friend, or so I thought, and I think that was a low move.

Is that a valid conclusion? What do i do? I feel awkward addressing this, but how can our friendship even be the same

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u/qat_btata202 — 1 month ago