Inframe: Jessica Shine On. In last few videos, she’s starting to sound truly resentful and frustrated. I think her trueself is also coming out where she tried building relations with husband’s family and it yielded only being used more. Also, her husband …

From how and what she mentions, it seems her husband is also softly manipulating her or definitely she is someone who believes in making marriage work with bare-minimum. What do you mean you have to buy washing machine and stove together? What do you mean you need to put money in brother’s wedding, after she said husband and I decided, we won’t.

u/saywhatIneedtosay26 — 1 day ago

Inframe: Jessica Shine On/ Jessica The Brown Girl- she just milks pity-party comments. Def doesn’t need help and is now def settled (although it is a joint fam situation which isn’t easy)

I think she has found her hooks, to show her life as a sorry but I’m managing life with her nigerian family.

She in one video mentioned something about pleasing, catering to others which is now backfiring for her.

I think she is just a massive people pleaser, but people are grey, so clearly she has understood that milking sorry situations, dissing in laws and family, talking about problems is getting her views.

She must be def rich by now.

u/saywhatIneedtosay26 — 4 days ago

Feeling low energy, disconnected from Universe. Any tips on how I can take slow steps towards my career and start manifesting? I just want to be able to work

I am bedrotting all day, worried but find myself unable to take action. There is fear of not being enough + confusion (which I’m slowly sorting out) regarding how to proceed.

I just want to sit for work daily and manifest greatness for me.

Any advice? Thank you so much in advance.

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u/saywhatIneedtosay26 — 7 days ago

Unable to login, unable to freeze NPS

I am in a huge fix. I have the card, the physical card of NPS, National Pension System. I have my PRAN number. Everything is sorted. However, I am unable to log into any of the options of NPS login system. I am unable to freeze my account. I don't know what to do.

Is there anyone who can help or guide

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u/saywhatIneedtosay26 — 8 days ago

Prajakta is such a bad actress with zero voice modulation.

I saw Safed Sagar on netflix today and Prajakta just sounds the same in every role. Acting is def not her forte… and she def needs to learn voice modulation.

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u/saywhatIneedtosay26 — 11 days ago

I am desperately seeking a tried and tested performance person, to drive leads and grow my YouTube and IG through ads. This is for space in astrology, numerology, tarot. Pls help

Pls share leads

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u/saywhatIneedtosay26 — 14 days ago

Struggling with finding a stay at our home help in sector 28. Can the kind people of this sub ask their mothers for refs? (No agencies)

Any references for domestic help would be appreciated

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u/saywhatIneedtosay26 — 24 days ago

Don’t know if maa’s test or a real bad family karma due to dysfunctional family - I couldn’t complete Ashada Navratri pooja

Breaks my heart. My second time of not being able to a gupt navratri, even thiugh I’ve done 2 sankalps earlier

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u/saywhatIneedtosay26 — 1 month ago

Doctor Bahu- Salman’s character was a performative green flag, actually only looking to egg his father. He is a complete red flag now.

  1. An absolute mama’s boy, who blamed doctor Rubina, his own wife but the real culprit his father.

  2. Tells Sania main tumhare saath hoon, then snubs her or shuts her in front of family members or outsiders.

  3. Women should have an identity beyond home - this went down the drain moment she got pregnant.

  4. Insisted why did she change Rubina’s residency to dad’s and then when she did has been most difficult.

  5. Cares about his own failure, not how his wife is feeling

  6. Was so excited that someone in the family who responds back to dad, and now has turned her into a coward woman.

  7. I’ll stand with my wife, if corruption is proven correct - and then fights with her for leaking evidences.

Complete character arc hi flip kar diya, he always was what he hated. A comment mentioned how he said yes to marriage for his mother.. yes only a mother’s boy.

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u/saywhatIneedtosay26 — 1 month ago

I want to legally separate from my parents, need a lawyer’s perspective.

Hi.

Since childhood, I’ve grown up in a highly dysfunctional home and from teenage till now I’ve been made to be a complete villain for everything. It has ofc impacted both my feelings and my behaviour for them.

I’m well liked by people outside of family which reminded me of the goodness in me. I’m talking emotional and mental abuse, and sometimes physical abuse by my brother.

I also stay away from home so I doubt I’m the kid who is capable of doing anything for them in physical presence (doctor visits, dinners, etc). My siblings do more for them for sure in terms of presence.

My parents have paid for my education and expenses till I could earn and then done all big expenses- bought a home and car for me, and are now supporting in my business.

However I want to legally separate from them, foregoing inheritance or things in my name paid for by them like home, savings done in my name by them.

And regarding business help, make something in contract that this will be duly returned.

Going low contact or no contact I’m again made the problem person as they are strikingly different parents to my siblings- they’re all a family well bonded family.

Kindly guide me what can be done in this situation. Is sending a legal notice with an honest chat enough?

I am just tired and done with carrying on this faux dynamic, and I want emotional and mental disconnect from them for life. I do not want to feel I’m mentally seeking them nor I want them to engage in my life. Just want both of us to be free of each other.

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u/saywhatIneedtosay26 — 1 month ago

As an astrologer and tarot card reader, looking for fantastic theme options for Shopify

I'd be running ads to do conversions for a paid astrology/ tarot consult call of 9.99 USD for 10mins / 999 for 10 mins.
Would be targeting people based in USA, UK, INDIA, Australia and Dubai.

Very new to Shopify, would appreciate support from community, kindly drop suggestions.

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u/saywhatIneedtosay26 — 1 month ago

I need help/attention: Chanted Varahi Gayatri Mantra and halfway through it I started hitting myself crazily. What does it mean?

Namaste all
I have been chanting Varahi Gayatri Mantra since past 2 days, today was the third.

Halfway through it I randomly in supreme frustration and annoyance, kept making the gesture of ‘what’s this’ with hands, then kept slapping my head, then I suddenly held my neck I just wanted to hurt myself, kill myself. Then I kept hitting my face.

Finally when I finished one mala (which is all I did), I made ‘fists’ with my hands and hit myself more all across my face and held my neck again.

I wasn’t scared as much, but was feeling frustrated, annoyed and I just wanted to punch myself so much, and end my life because what is this life, I was feeling so done. I wanted to hit myself soo hard and not stop.

Then I started rationalising if maa is punishing me through me?

What does this mean? I was normal before jaap. If someone could enlighten I’d be grateful.

More context: I had done proper bhairav jap, digbandhan, and sought blessings of Maa Durga via jaap to do the Varahi GAYATRI MANTRA

“Mantra done:
Om Mahishadhwajayai Vidmahe,
Dandahastayai Dhimahi,
Tanno Varahi Prachodayat”

Context outside of Sadhana about my emotional and mental state: Life definitely has not been nice lately. I am in desperate need of blessings and a change.

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u/saywhatIneedtosay26 — 1 month ago

IG reel shoots and Edits

Hoping to use community’s help.
Anyone knows a video person for shoots and edits for IG reels? Would appreciate. They need to have prior experience, their own camera light and mic setup, shoot will be at sector 21.

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u/saywhatIneedtosay26 — 1 month ago

Sharvari is hands-down one of the best commercial actresses we have today. Hoping for more success for her.

I recently saw a lot of her movies just out of curiosity towards her acting. She genuinely is soooo good.

She was decent in Veda, she was too good in Maharaja. Even in Alpha, frankly, she's shining beyond Alia.

Also, when you listen to her in interviews, she is someone who has a mind of her own. She has a proper personality. Unlike, you know, what was shoved down our throats in the last few years with the nepo kids and curated profiles.

She comes across as fresh, genuine, and fun to watch and listen to.

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u/saywhatIneedtosay26 — 2 months ago

I need some advice about plateau, as I cannot work out aggressively.

For anatomical context— Female, 33

I seem to have hit a plateau after losing 10kg. And it makes me lose motivation though this time I am trying to be very mindful and not letting plateau affect my schedule.

Now there are 2 issues:

  1. No calorie spend - I cannot workout aggressively as I have some knee injury; because of which I cannot do long walks or high intensity workouts. So I do stretching and other bits and non-weight exercises now, as I’ve been advised rest.

  2. I cannot go below 1500 calorie diet to ensure I do not get any health issues or weakness.

I want to check with people here, do any alternate things like ‘kapaalbhaati’ help in breaking plateau?

Diet context:

I’m on a 1400-1600 calorie diet to not have health issues and to create a decent deficit I used to burn of 300 calories daily, which I can’t anymore. How do I break my plateau without affecting my body physically.

Please tell me I am feeling extremely demotivated and my goal is 55kg, I’m currently at 63kg.

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u/saywhatIneedtosay26 — 2 months ago