u/skyshines04

For me the use case is pretty simple, giving it to my parents and I can directly settle the amount in my statement without worrying much.

Slice, I expect better from you guys, atleast allow us to request it, you guys are just ignoring this.

It's been months using your credit card, what am I supposed to do to tell you guys that yes, I want a limit increase, you already fetch our cibil score

Is it too much to ask?

An offmychest, which was inside of me for long.

Yeah, I am a gym going guy and I wholeheartedly agree, everyone should focus on themselves so they have a better health.

But, trust me, as a man, if someone asks me, which women I found to be cute. It's definitely big chubby girls.

Again the thoughts that do slide in my mind are some of lust, poems, beauty, but one thought definitely above everything.

They must feel very very good when being held in arms. Their hug would heal my day anyhow.

Like holding a big teddy bear, and feeling her presence around me.

You guys are beautiful. Please don't ever feel bad about your body. Go to gym if you can, but with the mindset to become fit, hating your body is just gonna make you feel more bad about yourself.

I am not talking anything about very muscular, or a guy with six packs

I am talking about someone who goes to gym regularly, mostly gets time to train one muscle group, who looks bulky but not fat.

Recently met someone, and he mentioned he had time of 6 months and trained excessively and he is getting more matches, on dating apps, matrimony from women he considers hot and are earning near to him.

I am not here to pinpoint, that you it's difficult if you are not fit, I assume the change can't be this drastic he mentioned, as earlier the matches he was getting, was not he was looking for.

Was just curious, if the change is actually this much?

This also reminds me of a thought that if I also wish to have someone I like, I need to make sure that they are attracted to me too.

A better physique, a good career, and a mind who has experienced life through travels, hobbies, meeting new people.

Obviously, fashion, posing, also comes in a picture here, but let's just keep the discussion to the scope of physique only

This is a story from a outing, in which I was a part of. Different ages, 28, 29, 33, 37, 35 and me 25

Everyone was enjoying, some sharing wisdom, some sharing about their home loan, or how the traditional product vs engineering lore works.

But then came the topic of relationship.

Everyone was married except me and him, 35M, Sr SDE.

He saw me and said, hey dude, I guess it will be great if you know about my journey of matrimony

"I tried my best, not gonna lie, and that is why I don't have any regrets because I was the part of process.

I started this journey at 25, already 3 years into career, and earning decent, and parents helped a lot, but the rishtas they brought were of girls that weren't my type.

I wanted someone who atleast was working, had a career, an ambition and will to have a family of her own

My family did tried to push me, to marry a girl without job, citing she will take care of the kids while I can work. I disagreed and stayed on my standards.

Although did met a few, but that just solidified what I wanted, they were only after my money, or how many assets I have, no conversation about growing together, just surface sweet talks.

Tried matrimony, the journey was same, it was difficult to get matches, yeah, I looked below average so it was difficult. Working women always had better options.

But yeah, I did got a match, everything went smooth for 6 months and then her parents took a step back.

After that, all other interactions ended at talking stages"

He said he was below average, I disagreed, he was muscular and near to 6ft and had a very good and strong masculine personality

"Paise to kama liye, par sath nibhane wala koi na mil paya

No doubt this feels weird, but this is it, better to be alone than to be with the wrong person"

He further shared how he visits his friends sometimes who are married, plays with their kids, and is happy in this life too.

He is doing financially well and just cleared his house loan recently.

"Body time se bana lena, help ho jati hai, jyada jagah travel karo and achi photos khichna seekho, ache dost banao.

Nayi hobbies try karo and unki classes join karo, aur agar sikh jao to classes khud se lana start kar do.

But make sure kisi ke lack of interest or less efforts tumhare liye sign na ho that you need to put in more efforts

Mutual intent hona bahut jaruri hai.

Wish you the best kid"

Then the topic changed.

Hi Slice

I tried contacting your support for credit limit enhancement, and all I get is, it's not something that can be requested.

I am happy people are getting their limit upgrades, but come on man, there are decent people who have a good history with you guys and deserve the limit. Plus recently the new financial year started, so a lot of us folks also got increments and their variable pay.

Earlier I used to ignore this limit thing, but realised it's importance, when there was a medical emergency at my friends place and I had to exhaust 3 of my cards, slice being one of them as well, since they didn't have enough liquid money.

He returned me the money soon after. But yeah, now I realise why these limits are so important, they can save your family from a disaster, a money that is available for your own safety.

I wish this message reaches the slice team.

Atleast you guys can fetch our CKYC reports, check our cibil once a month(soft enquiry), ask our salary slips, but pls do something.

I know you guys can.

2025 batch, tier 2 university, currently working in a MNC as full stack SE 1, 1.1 YOE

Yeah I fed up on my part, couldn't clear jee well enough, 24k rank, and all.

Even in college, I struggled, with no friends or backstabbers.

All my efforts felt in vain.

People around me in my current org, make fun of me sometimes

"dude you are turning 25, did you do btech twice?"

"At this age, I was already at 3 YOE"

They are strong, some even younger, but far ahead, in terms of compensation, skills, connections, strength, mindset.

I am sorry if this sounds a rant, but rn I am traveling, and I was just scribbling my thoughts and also these thoughts passed me too.

I feel kinda slow, less worthy somewhere, while they appear strong, relaxed, less stressed, and somewhere at content as well.

My batchmates are earning 2x, some 3x of me, at 21- 22 years of age.

I see my parents, hesitant to spend even 700 for themselves, will do the work manually, because they at the end feel I am not earning enough to give to them.

And not to mention this brain of mine, will pump all such negative thoughts more, whenever I get some me time.

I wish I was strong.

I went to meet my best friend a few days ago. We met after an year for someone's marriage.

We were talking and this topic came. Although he said to me he can help, but I kinda feel negative about all of this.

I do understand if I expand my social circle, meet my friends friends and go on trips with them, hangout with them and accordingly they become my friends, then mutually I might find someone and there will be less to no chance of my friendship or connection getting affected.

But if someone I know, a friend or connection, helps me get along with someone, and if it doesn't goes right. Any miscommunication or something, then my friends respect will be on the line too.

Any thoughts on this?

From a few days, was feeling heavy

As if, I needed some personal time.

Parents are asleep, my brother is sleeping beside.

The room feels safe and cozy. AC is on, and yet I feel the warmness of my blanket.

If you read till here, thank you

No matter what anyone says. People who are ugly, or below average looking, know what I mean.

Even after all the self care, consistent gym, decent diets, you just can't completely change yourself if there isn't much to improve.

And yeah, once in a while you get the good photos, which are like diamond seriously.

The moment I look, at arms, feet, face in images, I feel bro, how bad can genes actually fumble.

I am a jatt sikh, and yes, by rules, atleast I shouldn't be like this, but I am.

I am more towards dark side, often called the south paaji.

Thanks for listening, such thoughts were crossing my brain, have wrote them down and burned the paper.

No matter what anyone says. People who are ugly, or below average looking, know what I mean.

Even after all the self care, consistent gym, decent diets, you just can't completely change yourself if there isn't much to improve.

And yeah, once in a while you get the good photos, which are like diamond seriously.

The moment I look, at arms, feet, face in images, I feel bro, how bad can genes actually fumble.

I am a jatt sikh, and yes, by rules, atleast I shouldn't be like this, but I am.

I am more towards dark side, often called the south paaji.

Thanks for listening, such thoughts were crossing my brain, have wrote them down and burned the paper.

From a few days, was feeling heavy

As if, I needed some personal time.

Parents are asleep, my brother is sleeping beside.

The room feels safe and cozy. AC is on, and yet I feel the warmness of my blanket.

If you read till here, thank you