Ages

just asking what is everyone ages if possible but if you don’t feel comfortable just say like in 20 or teens I’m in my 30s and I was just wondering does it ever stop? it is my comfort though so maybe it doesn’t but yeah

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u/Capable_Client9033 — 2 days ago

Fostering while dealing with infertility

I feel like this is a taboo subject of some sort. yes we’re fostering but it seems to be like well you can’t foster while dealing with infertility don’t expect these children to heal you. which I never have but has anyone foster while dealing with infertility? I thought I close the chapter on infertility but honestly it still hurts it’s still a lot I love the kids in my care and no I don’t expect them to heal anything in me I’m hoping I could just be a safe loving place for them but it does hurt from time to time. I try not to think of the future too much and try to be ok with todaybut it’s hard I have to admit I try to just look at the positive but it’s some what of a grief as well.

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u/Capable_Client9033 — 2 days ago

Therapy sucks

my therapist told me the other day maybe God doesn’t want you to have a baby what do you do then? you have to know yourself before you want a baby I understand you want to be a mom but if the answer is no than it’s no

and I haven’t even tried ivf yet anyone else dealt with a therapist like this

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u/Capable_Client9033 — 5 days ago
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Anyone else that deals with this

infertility issues anyone else been through this as an infj it is truly disheartening and yes I’m in therapy and also support groups but I feel this is such a huge weight to deal with

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u/Capable_Client9033 — 6 days ago

Infertility issues

any other scropio moons that deal with this? how do you deal with it. I know anyone and everyone could deal with this I just wondering for us with the scropio moon if you dealt with infertility or still do? I know I talk to one astrologer they said there is a blockage but idk what that means lol

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u/Capable_Client9033 — 6 days ago

Hopefully I could get some encouragement

I don’t know lately it’s been difficult. I’ve come from a cult before and left but my relationship with God is everywhere but I was Protestant for some time now I’m wanting to become Catholic and kind of do that. I’m just struggling with the in between. I suppose especially since I do have religious trauma. I’ve prayed about it I think it’s the road God is leading me down is the Catholic anyways I’m not trying to say which one more so I was just wanting to ask for encouragement has anyone else been through this it’s kind of been really heavy on my heart lately I’m just a person going after God’s heart and I get worried if He tells me you say Lord Lord but I do not know you. has anyone been through this what encouraged you.

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u/Capable_Client9033 — 8 days ago

Just interested honestly

has anyone known anyone that was excommunicate? or do you know what the reasons are for? I grew up a Jehovah witness and left and now I’m shunned but I think Catholic does the same thing but I’m not quite sure. I did ask at one point do you excommunicate to a random nun I met and she said only if you go against the faith which I did not know exactly what that meant at all to be honest. does anyone have experience with this?

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u/Capable_Client9033 — 9 days ago

Religion and all of the such

Question for INFJs only honestly I really love this group and the support. I was wondering anyone have hard time with their spiritual journey? For reference I grew up in a cult, so I’ve dealt with religious trauma a lot of my life I’ve been in therapy for it for ten years. I’m wondering though now I do believe in God personally I’ve went Protestant now I’m interested in becoming catholic but I don’t agree with all their beliefs. I know it should be easy just have my personal relationship with God but for some reason this is the core foundation for me. I’m trying to just be okay with my spirituality. I’m open to it all of course yes I’ve look into astrology and done new ageism as well. I’ve done all practices just anyone else that goes through this. I hate feeling confused on this. thank you in advance.

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u/Capable_Client9033 — 10 days ago

Everyone loves you until they don’t

this is something I’ve noticed not sure if others have but everyone thinks that I’m a nice person and kind and all of that but then out of nowhere they will hate me either I say ok no thank you I hold boundary and full on just 180 of their personality? They change so quick Does this happen to other Scorpio moons?

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u/Capable_Client9033 — 19 days ago

I was told to post this on here

let me get this straight I can’t go to confession unless I get baptized? the classes aren’t until October and I have to pay registration before I go to the classes but I wanted to ask the priest questions and they said not until you get into the school can you ask questions. is this true across all Catholic churchs? and baptism is not until spring of next year.

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u/Capable_Client9033 — 26 days ago
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Emotional validation

I was speaking with my therapist and we were talking about how much I need emotional validation she is a INTJ by the way. but anyways do any of you struggle with that? the need for emotional validation? now don’t get me wrong i understand i need to deal with it myself and be able to validate myself but im just asking if maybe this is an infj thing? the irony is im seeking validation to know im not alone in this lol but no im just wondering and if you do struggle with it how can you heal it or manage it better?

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u/Capable_Client9033 — 1 month ago

Saturn in 1st house

anyone have that as well what does it mean exactly? why do I feel I’m not doing the right thing in life no matter how hard I try to succeed I end up feeling lIke I didn’t do enough. what are the pros of having saturn in the 1h and what are the cons of it?

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u/Capable_Client9033 — 2 months ago

New to all of this and seeking advice

I’m new to this world lol and I would love all the tips and tricks. I don’t have a lot of money and I was wondering what is the best cheap travelers notebook but good condition at the most? I’m excited to start on this journey

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u/Capable_Client9033 — 2 months ago

Having A Taurus mom and dealing with the ups and downs

anyone here have a Taurus mom how is yall relationship? she’s my best friend on some days and my worst enemy on others I swear it’s hard with her.

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u/Capable_Client9033 — 2 months ago

My mom is just plain mean

anyone else has just a mean mom she thinks it’s bad I put my child in daycare she thinks I’m a selfish parent for doing so she expects so much out of me and yes I create boundaries but it is hard she does help take care of my kiddos for me too but she’s mean and says mean comments she’s also in a cult that I left a long time ago as well I have gone no contact before and we got back together and talk through things but it’s so hard idk what to do set hard boundaries I suppose but damn I just hate how she puts down my parenting i wish I didn’t care what she said about me as well but she homeschooled me all of my life and was very much overprotective of me

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u/Capable_Client9033 — 2 months ago

What to do with my therapist

I’ve been in therapy for ten years now. Now every time I go to this new one I’ve had her for a year or so now. She continues to tell me I need to get a divorce from my husband of 12 years. She believes I’m losing myself in the relationship I suppose. He has made broken promises of going to college or getting a better job but he does help around he cooks and cleans and we have been through a lot together. He also does have a job as well. I don’t understand but it does get annoying after a while of her to keep telling me I need to leave him every week. Anyone else has dealt with this? What do I do? Should I say something to her or no?

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u/Capable_Client9033 — 3 months ago