Lesbian unsure and afraid
Hii, I feel very strange typing and posting this but I feel like there’s someone or a few people out there who are in or have been in the same boat as me!
I’m a femme but also masc, Idk terms tbf I don’t like labels much! but I feel like having a femme gf I’d HAVE to be masculine 24/7 as I only ever seem femme girls be into masc girls , never femme for femme if you get what I’m saying lol.
Like I want a femme gf I’ve only ever had celeb crushes (as I’m newly out and labelled) on more feminine girls and when I was realising if I’m gay or not I knew I was more into femmes then mascs! I don’t have an issue being the more masculine presenting gf but I would miss being girly , wearing dresses and skirts, and being held and cuddled like I would with a guy, being a little spoon, being massaged, being looked after, hair stroking etc, I’d obvi love to do all of those to a girl 100% but do girls do that to girls? Idk if I’m acting nuts but would a femme girl do all those back to me..? I feel so lost…
I hope I don’t sound rude or generalising femme and masc women and comparing them and demoralising them and us at all, I’m trying to say online I only ever seem femme women want masc women and to be more submissive and like looked after by a masc woman, and a masc woman want a femme gf to spoil and look after, but like what if I want both?? I wanna spoil a girl but also I wanna be held and have a girl stroke my hair to fall asleep, and I’ll do the same to her! Like am I asking too much??