u/DifficultHat2125

First time posting here, I'm not even part of the community sara7a, but i just had some questions and i just thought if people here could answer, no problem though if no one does, I'm just basically venting here.

I'm still young to think about dating and stuff, but I'd like to ask curiously, do healthy relationships or marriages exactly exist? I don't trust couples on social media who show off their relationship in their content, and i had never fall upon someone who's actually married and having a nice healthy marriage.

I've seen people on good termes in relationships, but I'm talking about MARRIAGE, is there actually a hope there? Sometimes i think about my personality, how easily i get irritated, my mood swings, me talking for hours, even my look, and i think is it actually possible that I'd find a person who'd actually love me? The question sounds pathetic tbh, but i think about it a lot, i don't expect much anymore but i wonder is love still there or not.

Again I'm really not interested in dating in general, i js had the question in my mind feel free to say anything, respectfully

I don't find Morrocan artists bzf w bghit sbba to look at others arts and show mine (which would help also improve myselfff)

Drop a question or a comment about a topic we could discuss, I'd prefer anything outside of religion and politics, it's too much of a headache

3ndi bzf d storytimes bagha sba bach ngolhom

I just bought "once upon a broken heart" yesterdayyyyy, i don't usually buy books i only have few because i read online, BUT lbar7 l9itha 3nd wahd the three books for 75dh AND I DIDN'T LET GO OF THEM

Now i want to know is it really gooddd?? I saw foreigners kaygolo anaha zwina but i can't trust their taste anymore tbh (I've heard a lot about twisted series but i couldn't finish twisted love so ndmt)

Btw i don't like smut much ila kan b7al twisted love, but i LOVEEEE fantasy so pleaseeee golo liya wach t9olbt wla la

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Preferences:

\- i don't like when the fml is stupid (I'd say weak too but sometimes it's acceptable)

\- pleaseeee i don't want a love triangle and feeling bad for the second male lead, I'm fine with it only if the second male lead gets a happy ending too OR is hated so i don't feel baddd

\-i love when there's magic, superpowers or fighting, more than politics and just wars

\-please, i need the mls to be ATTRACTIVEEEE

\-lastly i like the mml to be STRONG, i get some cdramas having stronger fml but i don't like them being pathetic

(by the way iykyk but I'm still attached to Love in The Clouds, if there's anything like it tell meee)

I needd myyy people. Does anyone have any fantasy movie recommendations?? Lately, I've watched Alice in the wonderland, the golden compass, Narnia, etc..

I forgot some names, but just to say I LOVEEEE British old fantasy movies, it's just now I can't find anything.

Personally, believe it or not, I rewatched it around 13 times.

I tried posting on a community amd was yold I can't post because i have low karma. I just started using the app yesterday so i def have no idea, i don't even know how to earn many karma quickly, i wanted to post sooo bad

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I, female, had a friend of 4 years, we went to the same class 4 years ago and became friends. Fast forward a year ago moved out the city i lived my whole life in, leaving all my friends behind.

Including a person, let's call him Bob. Bob was my crush and talking stage for a while, he was a total redflag, he even was my ex crush's friend, and even HE warned me about him.

After i moved away, my friendship with most people ended or just stopped talking as much as before. Including this friend of mine, let's call her Britney.

Britney knew about my crush on Bob, in fact he himself knew about it after an argument we had because of him saying he likes me but likes another girl too and it's not that serious when i told him i liked him. Britney was shipping us even after i stopped talking with him as much as before, because of how much he got on my nerves, i gave him too many chances and he never changed. Untill once, i was sick of him, throwing mean jokes and acting like I'm being sensitive, i unfollowed him, deleted the chat and moved on. What i did NOT forget at that moment was when i went to unfollow him, i noticed Britney's account following his, mind you she NEVER said anything, and I didn't talk about us at that time or the fact that i stopped talking to him, last thing I've said to her was that i don't have a crush on him anymore and she STILL shipped us when i showed her recent messages with him hinting.

A while later, i stopped talking to Britney, not because i wanted to, but because she never texted me first in months, even in our gc, i asked about her, sent her in private twice and each she gave an excuse then when i decided to see if she's gonna text first, she never did, not even a hi.

I had totally forgotten about Bob.

FAST FORWARD, i find a follow request on my account, by no one but that asshole in a new account he seems that he just made, again, she was following him.

Time had passed since our last encounter so i just brushed it off and accepted his follow request. I told my friends about it the other day, and I mentioned Britney's account following him again, not even an hour later, SHE TEXTED ME.

I'm telling you it was literally "hiii, how are you doing? Just wanted to ask you do you still have the screenshots you showed me before of Bob's chat with you?"

I WAS STUNNED, she never texted me for like 5 months or 4, only to come now to ask me about HIM.

I asked her why, she said she'll tell me later if I sent, so i found it and sent it to her, and asked why.

She told me: him and I are dating now, he's my boyfriend.

LITERALLY, I MEAN LITERALLY, MY JAW DROPPED.

i took minutes to recover, i told her oh congrats girl, and immediately went and unfollowed that jerk.

I told my friends about this because i never shut up, and I told them I wasn't really comfortable about this. She's my friend of 4 years, and he was my crush for like over a year, and I knew him more: an asshole.

But due to not us speaking for a while, going to her and warning her about him would just sound like I'm trying to come between them because I'm jealous.

So what i did, i went on and texted him instead, i sent him a quick message "is it true you're dating Britney?" He replied a while later, "yeah. why asking?"

And i said "are you serious about her?" Because, as person who argued with him many times about not taking things seriously, i GENUINELY was worried about her.

I wake up next day only to find messages from both Britney and Bob. Brittney sent me a message saying "you think I'm lying or somth? Why the hell did you go bitching and texted my boyfriend behind my back?"

I was shocked, i went to see his messages, and he said "ew i don't talk to double faced people, go away"

I don't give a damn what he said, BUT her??? And I know by him sending a ss of my messages it probably looks so bad, but AT LEAST ask about it, not just come and accuse me.

I sent her and explained that i didn't want ANYTHING but to make sure he's good for her cuz ik him and i don't trust him the slightest, and that i even unfollowed him when i knew you two were in a relationship.

She replied with a long ass message, all saying that first i shouldn't be telling someone else about her business, and that doesn't matter when I could've just sent her instead and that I was "embarrassing" her because he didn't see it as a person texting him, but her friend texting him, and said that even though we didn't talk for a while that doesn't change our friendship or anything, and what I did was stupid.

I was frustrated the least to say, i sent her the next day and told her that she didn't text for months, only to come ask about my EX CRUSH, that SHE always knew about, and that she never even told me they were talking or anything and then now that i texted him, not even said anything flirty, just straight up asked him, and instead of just asking me why i did it, which i would've explained thoroughly, she just accused me of what HE showed her, HIM THE PERSON THAT I ALWAYS COMPLAINED ABOUT AND TOLD HER ABOUT HOW HE TREATED ME AND HIS REDFLAGS. At the end i told her you never even asked about me, so it did affect our friendship, you just accused me of trying to steal your bf with nothing but some words, so imagine what would you had done if i came and started warning you about him.

i sent him too, i just took it out on him cuz i was really mad, i blocked them both and moved on.

AIW?

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I, female, had a friend of 4 years, let's call her Britney. Around a year ago I moved away from the city I lived in my whole life, and naturally I lost touch with a lot of people.

One of them was a guy, let's call him Bob. He had been my crush and talking stage for over a year. Britney knew everything about it. Bob was a huge red flag and we argued multiple times because he never took things seriously, made mean jokes, and kept giving mixed signals. Eventually I got tired of him, unfollowed him, deleted our chat, and moved on.

Before that, Britney used to ship us all the time. Around the same period I noticed she was following him, but I didn't think much of it.

Months later, Britney and I BARELY spoke anymore. I was usually the one reaching out, and after a while I stopped to see if she would text first. She never did.

I had completely forgotten about Bob. until one day he sent me a follow request from a new acc. and since things had already ended, I accepted it and just mentioned it to my friend. I also mentioned that Britney was following this acc too.

Less than an hour later, Britney texted me for the first time in months. She asked if I still had screenshots of old conversations between me and Bob that I had shown her before. I was surprised because she hadn't talked to me in so long.

I sent them and asked why she wanted them.

She told me she and Bob were dating and that he was her boyfriend.

I was shocked. I said congrats, then immediately unfollowed him because I didn't want any awkwardness.

Later I talked to my friend about it. What bothered me wasn't really that they were dating, but that Britney never mentioned they were talking, especially when she knew how much history I had with him.

At the same time, I was worried for her because I knew what Bob was like, and the fact that she never dated someone. I didn't want to warn her directly because we hadn't spoken properly in months and I thought it'd sound like jealousy.

Instead, I messaged Bob, "is it true ur dating Britney?" . He replied "yes, why?" Then I asked "are you serious about her?" Because I knew his history of not taking relationships seriously, by saying he's "figuring it out".

The next day both texted me.

Britney asked me why i was bitching and texted her bf, and that i didn't believe him. And Bob called me a "hypocrite".

I didn't care what Bob thought, but Britney's reaction upset me. Instead of asking why I did it, she immediately accused.

I explained that I wasn't trying to do somth. I was genuinely concerned because I knew him well and didn't trust him. I reminded her that I had already unfollowed him after finding out they were together.

She replied saying I should have come to her instead, that I embarrassed her by messaging him, and that what I did was stupid.

I got frustrated and told her that she hadn't spoken to me for MONTHS and only came back to ask about my old chats with my ex-crush. I also told her that she never told me they were talking or dating, and that instead of asking for my side she immediately believed what He showed her.

I said that if she could accuse me of trying to steal her boyfriend over one message, then there was no way she would have listened if I had actually tried warning her about him.

After that, I blocked both after taking out on that jerk too, and moved on.

AITAH?

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I, female, had a friend of 4 years, we went to the same class 4 years ago and became friends. Fast forward a year ago moved out the city i lived my whole life in, leaving all my friends behind.

Including a person, let's call him Bob. Bob was my crush and talking stage for a while, he was a total redflag, he even was my ex crush's friend, and even HE warned me about him.

After i moved away, my friendship with most people ended or just stopped talking as much as before. Including this friend of mine, let's call her Britney.

Britney knew about my crush on Bob, in fact he himself knew about it after an argument we had because of him saying he likes me but likes another girl too and it's not that serious when i told him i liked him. Britney was shipping us even after i stopped talking with him as much as before, because of how much he got on my nerves, i gave him too many chances and he never changed. Untill once, i was sick of him, throwing mean jokes and acting like I'm being sensitive, i unfollowed him, deleted the chat and moved on. What i did NOT forget at that moment was when i went to unfollow him, i noticed Britney's account following his, mind you she NEVER said anything, and I didn't talk about us at that time or the fact that i stopped talking to him, last thing I've said to her was that i don't have a crush on him anymore and she STILL shipped us when i showed her recent messages with him hinting.

A while later, i stopped talking to Britney, not because i wanted to, but because she never texted me first in months, even in our gc, i asked about her, sent her in private twice and each she gave an excuse then when i decided to see if she's gonna text first, she never did, not even a hi.

I had totally forgotten about Bob.

FAST FORWARD, i find a follow request on my account, by no one but that asshole in a new account he seems that he just made, again, she was following him.

Time had passed since our last encounter so i just brushed it off and accepted his follow request. I told my friends about it the other day, and I mentioned Britney's account following him again, not even an hour later, SHE TEXTED ME.

I'm telling you it was literally "hiii, how are you doing? Just wanted to ask you do you still have the screenshots you showed me before of Bob's chat with you?"

I WAS STUNNED, she never texted me for like 5 months or 4, only to come now to ask me about HIM.

I asked her why, she said she'll tell me later if I sent, so i found it and sent it to her, and asked why.

She told me: him and I are dating now, he's my boyfriend.

LITERALLY, I MEAN LITERALLY, MY JAW DROPPED.

i took minutes to recover, i told her oh congrats girl, and immediately went and unfollowed that jerk.

I told my friends about this because i never shut up, and I told them I wasn't really comfortable about this. She's my friend of 4 years, and he was my crush for like over a year, and I knew him more: an asshole.

But due to not us speaking for a while, going to her and warning her about him would just sound like I'm trying to come between them because I'm jealous.

So what i did, i went on and texted him instead, i sent him a quick message "is it true you're dating Britney?" He replied a while later, "yeah. why asking?"

And i said "are you serious about her?" Because, as person who argued with him many times about not taking things seriously, i GENUINELY was worried about her.

I wake up next day only to find messages from both Britney and Bob. Brittney sent me a message saying "you think I'm lying or somth? Why the hell did you go bitching and texted my boyfriend behind my back?"

I was shocked, i went to see his messages, and he said "ew i don't talk to double faced people, go away"

I don't give a damn what he said, BUT her??? And I know by him sending a ss of my messages it probably looks so bad, but AT LEAST ask about it, not just come and accuse me.

I sent her and explained that i didn't want ANYTHING but to make sure he's good for her cuz ik him and i don't trust him the slightest, and that i even unfollowed him when i knew you two were in a relationship.

She replied with a long ass message, all saying that first i shouldn't be telling someone else about her business, and that doesn't matter when I could've just sent her instead and that I was "embarrassing" her because he didn't see it as a person texting him, but her friend texting him, and said that even though we didn't talk for a while that doesn't change our friendship or anything, and what I did was stupid.

I was frustrated the least to say, i sent her the next day and told her that she didn't text for months, only to come ask about my EX CRUSH, that SHE always knew about, and that she never even told me they were talking or anything and then now that i texted him, not even said anything flirty, just straight up asked him, and instead of just asking me why i did it, which i would've explained thoroughly, she just accused me of what HE showed her, HIM THE PERSON THAT I ALWAYS COMPLAINED ABOUT AND TOLD HER ABOUT HOW HE TREATED ME AND HIS REDFLAGS. At the end i told her you never even asked about me, so it did affect our friendship, you just accused me of trying to steal your bf with nothing but some words, so imagine what would you had done if i came and started warning you about him.

i sent him too, i just took it out on him cuz i was really mad, i blocked them both and moved on.

AITAH?

I, female, had a friend of 4 years, we went to the same class 4 years ago and became friends. Fast forward a year ago moved out the city i lived my whole life in, leaving all my friends behind.

Including a person, let's call him Bob. Bob was my crush and talking stage for a while, he was a total redflag, he even was my ex crush's friend, and even HE warned me about him (my ex crush was my bsf's brother so she told me)

After i moved away, my friendship with most people ended or just stopped talking as much as before. Including this friend of mine, let's call her Britney.

Britney knew about my crush on Bob, in fact he himself knew about it after an argument we had once because of him saying he likes me but like another girl too and it's not that serious when i told him i liked him but this is bullshit.

Britney was shipping us even after i stopped talking with him as much as before, because of how much he got on my nerves, i gave him too many chances and he never changed so i started talking les. Untill once, i was sick of him, throwing mean jokes and acting like I'm being sensitive, i unfollowed him, deleted the chat and moved on. What i did NOT forget at that moment was when i went to unfollow him, i noticed Britney's account following his, mind you she NEVER said anything, and I didn't talk about us at that time or the fact that i stopped talking to him, last thing I've said to her was that i don't have a crush on him anymore (though I've said it many times before) and she STILL shipped us when i showed her recent messages back then with him hinting.

A while later, i stopped talking to Britney, not because i wanted to, but because she never texted me first in like months, even in our gc, i asked about her, sent her in private twice and each she gave an excuse then when i decided to see if she's gonna text first, she never did, not even a hi.

I had totally forgotten about Bob, because of course he was an asshole who gets on my nerves.

Britney stopped talking, but didn't question further.

FAST FORWARD, i find a follow request on my account, by no one but that asshole in a new account he seems that he just made, again, she was following him.

Time had passed since our last encounter so i just brushed it off and accepted his follow request, saying that things had passed already so there's no need to hate on him. I told my friends about it the other day, and I mentioned Britney's account following him again, not even an hour later, SHE TEXTED ME.

I'm telling you it was literally "hiii, how are you doing? Just wanted to ask you do you still have the screenshots you showed me before of Bob's chat with you?"

I WAS STUNNED, she never texted me for like 5 months or 4, only to come now to ask me about HIM, which screenshots? The ones she shipped us before with saying he's hinting.

I asked her why, she said she'll tell me later if I sent, so i just scrolled back on media I've sent her before, and found it (she said she deleted the chats so she could find it) then sent it to her, and asked why.

She told me: him and I are dating now, he's my boyfriend.

LITERALLY, I MEAN LITERALLY, MY JAW DROPPED.

i took minutes to recover, i told her oh congrats girl, and immediately went and unfollowed that jerk.

I told my friends about this because i never shut up, and I told them I wasn't really comfortable about this. She's my friend of 4 years, and he was my crush for like over a year, and I knew him more: an asshole.

But due to not us (me and Britney) speaking for a while, going to her and warning her about him, –and mind you she was never in a relationship before according to my knowledge– would just sound like I'm trying to come between them because I'm jealous.

So what i did, i went on and texted him instead, i sent him a quick message "is it true you're dating Britney?" He replied a while later, "yeah. why asking?"

And i said "are you serious about her?" Because, as person who argued with him many times about not taking things seriously, i GENUINELY was worried about her, cuz if he slightly was suspicious i would immediately do something about it.

I wake up next day only to find messages from both Britney and Bob. Brittney sent me a message saying "you think I'm lying or somth? Why the hell did you go bitching and texted my boyfriend behind my back?" (I couldn't find a more accurate word than bitching because English isn't our first language)

I was shocked, i went to see his messages, and he said "ew i don't talk to double faced people, go away"

I don't give a damn what he said, screw him, BUT her??? And I know by him sending a ss of my messages it probably looks so bad, but AT LEAST ask about it, not just come and accuse me.

I sent her and explained that i didn't want ANYTHING but to make sure he's good for her cuz ik him and i don't trust him the slightest, and that i even unfollowed him when i knew you two were in a relationship, and sent her the vm i sent back when i was telling my friend wether should i go text him or just warn her instead.

She replied with a long ass message, all saying that first i shouldn't be telling someone else about her business, and that doesn't matter when I could've just sent her instead and that I was "embarrassing" her because he didn't see it as a person texting him, but her friend texting him, and said that even though we didn't talk for a while that doesn't change our friendship or anything, and what I did was stupid.

I was frustrated the least to say, i sent her the next day and told her that she didn't text for months , only to come ask about my EX CRUSH, that SHE always knew about, and that she never even told me they were talking or anything and then now that i texted him, not even said anything flirty, just straight up asked him, even when i told my friend beforehand, i told her i would ask him and block him immediately after, and instead of just asking me why i did it, which i would've explained thoroughly, she just accused me of what HE showed her, HIM THE PERSON THAT I ALWAYS COMPLAINED ABOUT AND TOLD HER ABOUT HOW HE TREATED ME AND HIS REDFLAGS. At the end i told her you never even asked about me, so it did affect our friendship, you just accused me of trying to steal your bf with nothing but some words, so imagine what would you had done if i came and started warning you about him.

i sent him too, i just took it out on him cuz i was really mad, i blocked them both and moved on.

AITAH?