First cry after watching five seasons of this is us. - S6E4

Grown man here, not too grown actually, I'm 23. I'm someone who never cries, like never (at least by watching movies and tv shows). Well I've watched this episode (Jack's mother death) and was entertained but I wasn't actually that invested, then the scene where the mother makes kid Jack eat the wurstel arrived, then Jack cried. Then I fucking cried.

I've never met my father because he died after I was born. I've never suffered too much the fact that I haven't had a father in my childhood but my mother obviously was destroyed by his death and it's been a thing for a lot of time. I remember seeing her in bed crying for no reason, I've seen her depressed... I couldn't understand it back in the day but she has been suffering in silence since his death. I remember all of this but I also can't forget how much she tried her best with me, when she cooked my favorite dishes, when she played football with me etc. My brain clicked and I realized Marylin and my mother are just two women who tried their best to make their child happy while they were deeply suffering inside. To this day, like Jack, I haven't the best relationship with my mother because the death of my father made her a difficult person to deal with...but this episode made me feel some sense of guilt other than love.

This show is powerful, hats off to the writers and to Milo Ventimiglia, that was an incredible performance. This is what art is about.

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u/FluidResult9482 — 1 day ago
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Ma ogni tanto ci pensate a che diavolo ha fatto Fedez a Chiara Ferragni?

Non me ne frega niente di loro due nello specifico, ma quest'uomo qua ha preso per il culo per anni sua moglie mentre se la faceva con un'altra per tutto il tempo, addirittura il giorno del matrimonio. E nel momento peggiore della sua vita (pandori ecc. ecc., che sia chiaro se l'è meritato eh) l'ha abbandonata, mentre lei gli è stata accanto durante la sua malattia e tutti i suoi scazzi e minchiate. Ci saranno sicuramente retroscena di cui non siamo a conoscenza ma questa roba è aberrante.

Pensate a quando siete stati lasciati e a quanto siete stati male per la fine a una relazione di 2,3,5 anni? Ora pensate a questa povera crista con 2 figli a carico e la consapevolezza di essere stata presa per il culo prima e dopo il matrimonio con quello che pensava essere l'uomo della sua vita + crisi finanziaria + processi giudiziari , contemporaneamente (ripeto meritato eh) e in più il tutto spiattellato su internet.

Porca puttana.

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u/FluidResult9482 — 3 days ago

Consigli metodo di studio dopo burnout - Medicina

Sento di aver raggiunto il burnout totale con il classico metodo del leggi e ripeti, leggi e sottolinea e minchiate varie. Ora mi sono preso qualche settimana di stop ma devo e voglio riprendere. Consigli sul metodo di studio? Le flash cards mi sembrano infattibili con l'università italiana, i riassunti impensabili con medicina...Forse l'unica sono le mappe concettuali che dovrei imparare a fare? Ogni volta non riesco a selezionare le informazioni realmente essenziali con le mappe.

Il mio problema principale ho notato che arriva nella fase post lettura, dopo aver letto tutta la sbobina e sottolineato. Leggo con un certo interesse alla prima, poi quando arriva il momento di imparare, ripetere, rileggere ecc. non riesco proprio a non annoiarmi fino alla morte.

Grazie in anticipo

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u/FluidResult9482 — 4 days ago

Consigli su metodo di studio

Sento di aver raggiunto il burnout totale con il classico metodo del leggi e ripeti, leggi e sottolinea e minchiate varie. Ora mi sono preso qualche settimana di stop ma devo e voglio riprendere. Consigli sul metodo di studio? Le flash cards mi sembrano infattibili con l'università italiana, i riassunti impensabili con medicina...Forse le mappe concettuali che dovrei imparare a fare? Ogni volta non riesco a selezionare le informazioni realmente essenziali con le mappe.

Il mio problema principale ho notato che arriva nella fase post lettura, dopo aver letto tutta la sbobina e sottolineato. Leggo con un certo interesse alla prima, poi quando arriva il momento di imparare, ripetere, rileggere ecc. non riesco proprio a non annoiarmi fino alla morte.

Grazie in anticipo

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u/FluidResult9482 — 4 days ago

Why is it wrong to go for a conservative transplant on your hairline at 22 years old?

I'm on meds since I was 19 years old, situation improved and got stable, now I'm almost 23 years old. Most male members of my family have mpb. But my hairline has never recovered, I have good density overall and no one can tell I'm balding, but my hairline is just fuked up and thin.

Since I have decent density behind I wanted to take a very conservative approach and fill a little my hairline without lowering it. Why do people say that it's risky? I'm on every med (dutasteride, oral and topical minoxidil), how could the situation get so worse in the following years? If I will lose something it will be minor loss and since I went for a conservative transplant now, won't I have a lot of grafts for the next transplants? I suppose I'm gonna need 1000 grafts or even less to fill my hairline, I don't even want to touch my widow peaks and leave them as they are.

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u/FluidResult9482 — 4 days ago

Is it normal to lose around 6 strands of hair when you run your hand through your head multiple times?

When I run my hand through my hair multiple times back and forth and mess with my hair, when look at the table I see 5-6 strands of hair everytime. Is it normal?

I wash my hair everyday

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u/FluidResult9482 — 5 days ago

Trying to learn wonderwall alone as a beginner, I find the DSUS4 Chord hard. Any tips?

I have no pick so I'm trying to do it with my fingertip, and I can't make a good sound when I do the up strumming of the chord. I find it so hard, I don't hit every string when I do it and when I hit them all, I hit them too hard. My guitar also have an high action, I don't know if it may be related, also I'm playing it without the capo because I don't have it and it sounds awful. Any tips?

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u/FluidResult9482 — 13 days ago

Do I Need to build armor penetration?

On op GG i have seen that they suggest Building for the 3rd item the armor penetration bow ( I don't know its name) but should I build It even if their teams hasn't a lot of armor or what? Is their normal armor (not the One gave by items) enough to make me build the armor penetration item?

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u/FluidResult9482 — 15 days ago

Ugh...S5 E2 Plot twist is almost making me quit.

Seriously, the writers have always went for the "realistic" route of the show. Like, all of that happening to the same family is crazy etc. but believable. But Laurel being alive? Wtf? I have had enough of Randall's existential crisis and biological family issues and whatever. I was already bored when they were showing again William's backstory in these first episodes...But now Laurel being alive? lol I think that's too much. William, then Nicki, now Laurel... And don't get me wrong I loved Nicki'story but it's so stupid to revive another dead member of the family. What were they thinking? Couldn't they show us Sophie and her husband? It's obvious that she will come back, probably Kevin's endgame . Or again something about Madison? Rebecca's parents? Rebecca's sister? Anything about young REBECCA? What about new characters? I loved Gregory. And what about all the time spent in showing Malik and his family and then ending it all in the course of 2-3 episodes?

Will it be a big part of season 5? I don't think I can bear it. It's a shame because I was actually really invested in everything else, Kevin's storylines, Kate and Toby, Rebecca, Randall's mental health. Covid and BLM storylines didn't excite me but it's ok, they didn't impact the story that much.

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u/FluidResult9482 — 16 days ago

I am so stupid. Just bought my first guitar and I've already broke a chord. What next?

2nd day. I was tuning the guitar but I had selected the wrong key and I was tightening the wrong one, kept going on since the app told me it wasn't tuned yet (...yeah I'm so stupid) and then...slap! It snapped. My heart is broken. WTF. How could I be so stupid? Did it happen to you as well? It wasn't the first time I made this mistake. Now what should I do?

Should I take it to a shop and let them mount new chords or can I do it by myself? Should I change all the chords or just the one I've broke? What chords should I buy now? I have a Baton Rouge X11LS - F SCR. Did I ruin the guitar? I've noticed that the bridge have some grooves caused by the chords, should I change it as well? Thanks in advance

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u/FluidResult9482 — 20 days ago

New to soraka, how to carry with her?

Usually I play taric, thresh etc. And when I lose lane I Always roam and manager to feed other lanes. In this way chances to win drastically increase. But Soraka cant really gank? What do you do in these cases? Trying to learn her cause despite being difficult ( I die too easily with her when my team sucks, while with taric I can do Crazy plays thanks to his r) She feels pretty broken when I played well and She Is fun to master.

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u/FluidResult9482 — 24 days ago