u/Justahumanbeing71

Brother's marriage prospects and my family denied

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My brother is 30yo and he is looking for arrange marriage matches on shadi com premium ..

He recently matched with a 27yo girl she is working in finance and earning like 36lpa ..and my brother is earning 40lpa

She is really well educated and my brother met her 8 times in 3 months before this they talked for 2 months

They find each other compatible, she is genuinely a kind person and down to earth and very good to talk to and i also met her once

Now the girl's mother is an advocate at high court, her dad is a senior director at railways ...but her mom and dad are separated....her mom later remarried a Muslim man

The girl have no relationship with her mother's husband and do not seem to like him at all...she is close to her mom and her biological dad....the girl is a practicing hindu, her mom and dad are also hindu

She clearly told my brother she have no relationship with her mom's husband

Now my brother was okay with this and 6 months they were talking and she told her mom about my brother ...her mom said we will decide after meeting...but if you like the guy it's fine

My brother told our parents.... they liked the girl after seeing the photo and her education...but immediately rejected her after knowing her background

Now my brother is confused what to do ...cause he seems to like her to an extent

My parents had no other reason to reject her tho

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u/Justahumanbeing71 — 5 hours ago

Brother's marriage prospects and my family...give opinions please ?

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My brother is 30yo and he is looking for arrange marriage matches on shadi com premium ..

He recently matched with a 27yo girl she is working in finance and earning like 36lpa ..and my brother is earning 40lpa

She is really well educated and my brother met her 8 times in 3 months before this they talked for 2 months

They find each other compatible, she is genuinely a kind person and down to earth and very good to talk to and i also met her once

Now the girl's mother is an advocate at high court, her dad is a senior director at railways ...but her mom and dad are separated....her mom later remarried a Muslim man

The girl have no relationship with her mother's husband and do not seem to like him at all...she is close to her mom and her biological dad....the girl is a practicing hindu, her mom and dad are also hindu

She clearly told my brother she have no relationship with her mom's husband

Now my brother was okay with this and 6 months they were talking and she told her mom about my brother ...her mom said we will decide after meeting...but if you like the guy it's fine

My brother told our parents.... they liked the girl after seeing the photo and her education...but immediately rejected her after knowing her background

Now my brother is confused what to do ...cause he seems to like her to an extent

My parents had no other reason to reject her tho

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u/Justahumanbeing71 — 7 hours ago

Brother's marriage prospects and my family...give opinions please

My brother is 30yo and he is looking for arrange marriage matches on shadi com premium ..

He recently matched with a 27yo girl she is working in finance and earning like 36lpa ..and my brother is earning 40lpa

She is really well educated and my brother met her 8 times in 3 months before this they talked for 2 months

They find each other compatible, she is genuinely a kind person and down to earth and very good to talk to and i also met her once

Now the girl's mother is an advocate at high court, her dad is a senior director at railways ...but her mom and dad are separated....her mom later remarried a Muslim man

The girl have no relationship with her mother's husband and do not seem to like him at all...she is close to her mom and her biological dad....the girl is a practicing hindu, her mom and dad are also hindu

She clearly told my brother she have no relationship with her mom's husband

Now my brother was okay with this and 6 months they were talking and she told her mom about my brother ...her mom said we will decide after meeting...but if you like the guy it's fine

My brother told our parents.... they liked the girl after seeing the photo and her education...but immediately rejected her after knowing her background

Now my brother is confused what to do ...cause he seems to like her to an extent

My parents had no other reason to reject her tho

Pata hai aaj kya hua

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u/Justahumanbeing71 — 7 hours ago

I wanna pursue LLB from Mumbai itself, myquals are a bachelor's

I want a good environment and crowd as well and a well and good college

I am working and I want a college that would not be too strict on attendance

My work is flexible so i can manage basic attendance like 50 percent max

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u/Justahumanbeing71 — 15 days ago

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So if you guys tell your parents you like a girl you met via matrimony app or something....

Will they judge heavily based on caste or background or money of her parents? (Reasons not gonna impact your life )

Or they will let you Marry her if she is a good person and you genuinely like her and find compatible over months

I'm just overthinking so please...

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u/Justahumanbeing71 — 25 days ago

Suppose you find a woman on matrimonial app and you meet and talk to her and vibe with her...she seems compatible with you and your life ....and she is genuinely a good person and you start liking her and talk for like 3-4 months

Now you tell your parents and they reject her for reasons like her background or caste or anything that's superficial and not her fault ..

What will you do in this scenario?

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u/Justahumanbeing71 — 25 days ago