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▲ 2 r/Divorce

The self sabotage is real

My soon to be ex has done some shysty stuff and won't communicate with me even though it would be in their best interest to do so. I've emailed and texted and I'm blocked. I shouldn't care anymore but TBH I just can't turn 14 years of loving him off in a couple of months. He thinks I'm being vindictive and I'm not. I'm upset they just won't be honest with me and treat me fairly. I'm physically emotionally and financially exhausted and just want this to be over. They're in the middle of a self sabotage spiral and it hurts to watch. I'm tired of watching them shoot themselves in the foot.

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u/Negative-Bar7264 — 12 days ago
▲ 2 r/NarcissisticSpouses

Car contrl

I was only really allowed to use the car at his discretion even though we had two vehicles. He took his truck to work but wouldn't want me to drive the car unless it was to run errands or do things for him. He'd tell me we had car problems mechanically and then without him fixing them suddenly the car was OK to drive when he needed it, wanted to use it or wanted me to do something for him.

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u/Negative-Bar7264 — 19 days ago
▲ 3 r/domesticviolence

I'm free and dog is missing

My husband told me our car and dog were stolen in Denver. I think he gave her away. I'm currently living in a homeless shelter and I have fosters willing to help us until I get on my feet. Please share far and wide she could be anywhere. She nursed me through thyroid and lung cancer last year. She shouldn't suffer because I left an unsustainable situation. I'm desperate to find her. Please help me. I use a cane and I'm an hour away by bus from where she disappeared. Social media is a gift in this situation.

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u/Negative-Bar7264 — 22 days ago
▲ 42 r/denverwomen

Please be kind please help

My husband and I are divorcing. He told me our dog and car were stolen I believe he gave away our dog and disappeared the car traded or sold. I love her she nursed me through thyroid and lung cancer last year. She shouldn't suffer because I left an unsustainable situation. I'm in a homeless shelter use a cane to get around on the bus. I have fosters willing to help us until I get on my feet. She is loved and missed. Please help me find her.

u/Negative-Bar7264 — 22 days ago
▲ 313 r/englewoodco+1 crossposts

Bella is missing in Denver

#bellapugosi

My husband and I are divorcing. He told me our car and dog were stolen in Denver. I believe he gave her away. She nursed me through thyroid and lung cancer last year. I'm desperate to find her. She's dog reactive and lost her house training. I'm worried she'll end up in a shelter. I'm in a homeless shelter myself and have fosters willing and able to help us until I get on my feet. She shouldn't suffer because I left an unsustainable situation. Please help me find her.

u/Negative-Bar7264 — 21 days ago
▲ 4 r/LifeAfterNarcissism

Missing Bella Pugosi in the Denver area could be anywhere

I believe my husband gave her away he claims she was stolen along with our car. She doesn't deserve to lose us both. She nursed me through thyroid and lung cancer. I'm in a shelter but have foster options available. Please help me find her.

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u/Negative-Bar7264 — 24 days ago
▲ 88 r/boulder

Missing Bella Pugosi in Denver area could be in Boulder

I believe my husband gave her away. We are divorcing. He claims she was stolen along with our car. I can't find a police report. She doesn't deserve to lose us both. She nursed me through thyroid and lung cancer. I'm in a homeless shelter but have foster options available. Please help me find her.I know what this sub does and is and I'm still here begging for your help. Please be kind I'm posting everywhere for her sake. We're the idiots.

u/Negative-Bar7264 — 24 days ago
▲ 16 r/TheNarcissismCode

Missing Bella Pugosi in Denver area

I believe my husband gave her away. We are divorcing. He claims she was stolen along with our car. I can't find a police report. She doesn't deserve to lose us both. She nursed me through thyroid and lung cancer. I'm in a homeless shelter but have foster options available. Please help me find her.I know what this sub does and is and I'm still here begging for your help. Please be kind I'm posting everywhere for her sake. We're the idiots.

u/Negative-Bar7264 — 24 days ago
▲ 13 r/missing

Missing Bella Pugosi in Denver area

I believe my husband gave her away. We are divorcing. He claims she was stolen along with our car. I can't find a police report. She doesn't deserve to lose us both. She nursed me through thyroid and lung cancer. I'm in a homeless shelter but have foster options available. Please help me find her.I know what this sub does and is and I'm still here begging for your help. Please be kind I'm posting everywhere for her sake. We're the idiots.

u/Negative-Bar7264 — 24 days ago
▲ 14 r/highlandsranchcolo

Missing/stolen Denver area

I believe my husband gave her away he claims she was stolen along with our car. No police report I can find. She doesn't deserve to lose us both. She nursed me through thyroid and lung cancer. I'm in a shelter but have foster options available. Please help me find her.

u/Negative-Bar7264 — 24 days ago
▲ 338 r/LakewoodColorado+4 crossposts

Missing/stolen dog Bella Pugosi

We are divorcing and my husband told me our dog and car were stolen in Denver. I'm living in a homeless shelter in another city. I'm desperate to find Bella Pugosi she nursed me through two rounds with cancer in 2025. Complete thyroid removal in Jan 25 and partial lung removal in March 25. I have foster options available. I believe my husband gave her to an individual in Denver. Please help me find her she doesn't deserve to lose us both.

u/Negative-Bar7264 — 24 days ago