u/Officer_Joi

Been talking to him a week or so. He didn’t really text too much so I really wanted to call him and talk that way because I feel like my jokes and silliness don’t really show well over text. We were complimenting each other and lot and he kept calling me baby and love and stuff which I realllyyy liked. But he kinda stopped responding much and never wanted to call. I felt like I was nagging him. Then I just straight out called him and he didn’t answer, said “why would I want to call when you have been consistently not flirting” 😭 like WHAT?? We barely know each other for one, and two, I have been! I told him that and asked if he was even still interested and he didn’t answer. I wished him well and now I’m just wondering what the frick is wrong with these men dude.

Another guy got so mad that I didn’t want to meet up immediately with him, that I wanted to call on the phone for at least a few weeks to see if our values aligned and such. That’s just my preference. I just can’t do this dating app stuff anymore man…

Its just so annoying they are big and always poke thru my shirts. So embarrassing :(

I (f21) broke up with my boyfriend (m22) of 4 months and I’m filled with so much regret and sadness. Every time we tried to call and talk about troubles I would not be able to even understand how I’m feeling or expressed them. So I made up a text that expressed how I felt and then I really do care for him, but I don’t think that we belong together. I sent it hoping to hear back from him, but all he said was “I wish you well.” it broke my heart just to break up with him. and I really wish I could hear from him again I know he loved me, but I felt like that was way too fast for us. We hung out all summer long even though we’re two hours away from each other and we kissed. he was my first boyfriend and I feel like I want him back already. Just every time we hung out I was so annoyed by him and I felt like I couldn’t do that to him anymore.

I really wish I could get some closure hear from him again or at least say more of what I feel. Should I send a letter to him? I know his address still. I’m just so mad at myself for only sending a text. And I know I broke his heart and it was so sudden. I really don’t think he deserves me and I’ve always felt like that. I think he could find someone that really cares about him and isn’t always annoyed by him, but I do really care for him and love him. We have so many memories together, I’ve been crying each day thinking about them. Looking at our photos. I really don’t think I’m very emotionally intelligent and I definitely just do things without thinking. I’ve been thinking about breaking up with him for a while, but I still feel like my reasonings are crappy.

Anyways, what do y’all think? I’m just kind of heartbroken right now even though I’m the one that did it I feel like an absolute a hole. I just wanna hug him one last time.

I recently got a new job that comes with an HSA and better health insurance. My old one is from my mother and it did not cover some lab work I had that is $500 in total for some odd reason. That old insurance usually covered my lab work. From my understanding I can’t use my new insurance because it was not active when I had the lab work done, but can I use the HSA? Just curious thanks!

I will be moving in the next month or so and we have a truck to transport a lot of the bigger things like my bed. My family keeps telling me that it won’t be good to move in with my friend because most friendships fall apart if like one person doesnt clean up after themselves or something. Me and her spoke about maybe dividing chores, like I do basically any kitchen stuff, and she does trash and vacuuming. It’s nice that we have separate bathrooms so we are responsible for our own. But just curious about how to not be at each others throats during this 😂 we are both not dirty people or messy, maybe a little bit with like clutter but we plan to keep the shared spaces clean.

Any tips would be appreciated! For what I said but for apartment stuff in general too!! Thank u!

Sometimes this will happen and my jaw will be kinda sore but will stop a bit after I put them back in..
i also got my wisdom teeth out like a year ago so maybe its phantom pain 😭

At first he was fine and kinda funny and most of the time we get along or I just don’t even pay attention to him. But now he is such a know it all and even the sound of his voice annoys me. He’s the type to just disagree with someone just to disagree. Like those annoying kids in school that would overly explain something that everyone already knows about using complicated words that sound so unnatural coming out of their mouth.

Like when my uncle was talking about a political thing and he basically interrupted just to explain the origins of the topic as if my uncle doesnt know about it… it’s just so irritating to listen to and you can tell the conversation gets so awkward when he chimes in.

And not only that but sometimes it feels like he doesnt like me either. Like very subtly he will say or do things that really annoy me and I feel like he does it on purpose. Like my sister and him said they were going to go inside after swimming and I said oh okay me too. And I look over and he threw my shoes in the pool. They are sandals at least but it’s still annoying because I wanted to go inside with dry feet and so I had to dry them off outside for a while.

One other thing I hate (among the huge list) is that he talks bad about my family right in front of me and sounds so high and mighty as if he doesn’t have anything wrong with him. I dont care if they gossip with each other, just keep me out of earshot please… anyways, my sister will tell me a lot of different stuff about his family and I would never say anything bad about them (not in front of him anyways) but he always brings up my dad or mom and how they need to do this and this and this and how he wants to just stop talking to them entirely. It just annoys me hearing that especially because I grew up knowing how important family is, even if my dad is nuts sometimes he’s still my dad and I wouldn’t cut him off. Maybe I’m wrong for this but it’s like, I may say something/gossip about my parents with my sister but hearing it from this man who I still view as a stranger is annoying. Especially when he says my sister should cut off my parents.

Just wanted to vent as I feel like this pent up annoyance with this man has only gotten worse as the years go on.

TLDR venting about my bro in law and how he annoys me.

Its so annoying when I do anything like brush my teeth and they fall out when I put my head down to the sink.. I know there are some that wrap around your ear but do those work well?