Why is cheating so common now?

I’ve posted about this recently. A guy who has been in a long relationship has asked me out for a date. We met on bumble but I’ve already known him even before we got matched since we had mutual friends. He lied to me about his relationship status. He said he broke up with his gf since things got messy. I believed what he said because why should a committed guy even be there on bumble. After that we started talking, went on dates but things escalated so quickly and we got a bit intimate during our dates and after that I found out that he was flirting with my friend simultaneously. She sent me the screenshots of the messages he has been sending her. At the same time he was going on dates with other girls as well. But recently I got to know that he was still in a relationship with his long term gf and he hasn’t actually ended it. He has been cheating on her over last 6 months. I’m sure she doesn’t know all this since she’s living in a different city.

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u/Old-Beautiful-3309 — 11 days ago

How does it feel to get married into a middle class family ?

I’m a 25F. I’ve a relative who’s husband is into astrology but he’s not professional though. It’s just that he knows something about it and has a passion too. Once, this woman told me not to get married into a rich family because money doesn’t matter, it’s the character that matters. But I don’t believe in that because we can’t just generalise that all rich people are evil and middle class people are humble. There will be good and bad people irrespective of the income classes.
I’m not that rich btw but over last 25 years I’ve never seen my parents struggling to make ends meet. I’ve had a very comfortable life growing up like we used to do international vacations more often, buy premium cars and my parents were able to provide me with good education. Also, our monthly expenses go up to 1 lakh or even more so I don’t know how does it feel to live in a middle class family since I’ve not thought about it. Anyways I’m financially stable enough to take care of myself and I don’t expect my partner to take care of my expenses. I got a bit confused when she asked me to get married into a middle class family looking at my chart like will I be able to adjust since I grew up in a slightly different environment. I don’t believe in astrology though but I was just imagining if I’ll be able to adapt.

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u/Old-Beautiful-3309 — 11 days ago

Is physical infidelity as hurtful as emotional infidelity?

If your partner cheats on you with someone else by just getting intimate and if there won’t be any emotional attachment with the person he/she is cheating on, will it be acceptable ?

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u/Old-Beautiful-3309 — 12 days ago
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Has anyone here tried Thai drunch buffet at grand Hyatt?

Does anyone here have tried Thai buffet at Hyatt? If yes, how’s it? And is it worth ₹2600?

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u/Old-Beautiful-3309 — 12 days ago

Got ditched by a guy

I matched with a guy on Bumble around six months ago. He was someone I already knew, which is why I matched with him, although we were never very close and were more like acquaintances.
After we matched, we started talking, and things escalated quickly. He was very flirty and mentioned that he was looking for something casual and fun because he had recently come out of a long-term relationship. We went on three dates, and while they were intense, they were also a lot of fun. We became somewhat intimate during each of our dates.Recently, however, I found out that he had been flirting with one of my friends and repeatedly asking her out. He kept texting her, trying to convince her to go on a date with him, but she wasn't interested, partly because she is much older than him. Through her, I also got to know that he is still in a relationship and havent actually broken up with his girlfriend. Since his girlfriend works in another city, she probably has no idea about what he has been doing here.
Both of us invested a lot of time, effort, and money into our dates. Yesterday, when I added up the bills from our dates, the total came to around ₹15k. Last week, he suddenly texted me and ended things. He also mentioned that he had gone on a date with someone else, although I'm not sure why he felt the need to tell me that. On top of that, he recently created a new Bumble account.
When he ended things so abruptly, I felt hurt and confused. It made me feel as though I had been used and then discarded. Now I'm also feeling guilty because he appears to have been in a relationship the entire time. If I had known that from the beginning, I would never have dated him.

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u/Old-Beautiful-3309 — 13 days ago

Got ditched by a guy

I matched with a guy on Bumble around six months ago. He was someone I already knew, which is why I matched with him, although we were never very close and were more like acquaintances.
After we matched, we started talking, and things escalated quickly. He was very flirty and mentioned that he was looking for something casual and fun because he had recently come out of a long-term relationship. We went on three dates, and while they were intense, they were also a lot of fun. We became somewhat intimate during each of our dates.Recently, however, I found out that he had been flirting with one of my friends and repeatedly asking her out. He kept texting her, trying to convince her to go on a date with him, but she wasn't interested, partly because she is much older than him. Through her, I also got to know that he is still in a relationship and havent actually broken up with his girlfriend. Since his girlfriend works in another city, she probably has no idea about what he has been doing here.
Both of us invested a lot of time, effort, and money into our dates. Yesterday, when I added up the bills from our dates, the total came to around ₹15k. Last week, he suddenly texted me and ended things. He also mentioned that he had gone on a date with someone else, although I'm not sure why he felt the need to tell me that. On top of that, he recently created a new Bumble account.
When he ended things so abruptly, I felt hurt and confused. It made me feel as though I had been used and then discarded. Now I'm also feeling guilty because he appears to have been in a relationship the entire time. If I had known that from the beginning, I would never have dated him.

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u/Old-Beautiful-3309 — 13 days ago

Got ditched by a guy

I matched with a guy on Bumble around six months ago. He was someone I already knew, which is why I matched with him, although we were never very close and were more like acquaintances.
After we matched, we started talking, and things escalated quickly. He was very flirty and mentioned that he was looking for something casual and fun because he had recently come out of a long-term relationship. We went on three dates, and while they were intense, they were also a lot of fun. We became somewhat intimate during each of our dates.Recently, however, I found out that he had been flirting with one of my friends and repeatedly asking her out. He kept texting her, trying to convince her to go on a date with him, but she wasn't interested, partly because she is much older than him. Through her, I also got to know that he is still in a relationship and havent actually broken up with his girlfriend. Since his girlfriend works in another city, she probably has no idea about what he has been doing here.
Both of us invested a lot of time, effort, and money into our dates. Yesterday, when I added up the bills from our dates, the total came to around ₹15k. Last week, he suddenly texted me and ended things. He also mentioned that he had gone on a date with someone else, although I'm not sure why he felt the need to tell me that. On top of that, he recently created a new Bumble account.
When he ended things so abruptly, I felt hurt and confused. It made me feel as though I had been used and then discarded. Now I'm also feeling guilty because he appears to have been in a relationship the entire time. If I had known that from the beginning, I would never have dated him.

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u/Old-Beautiful-3309 — 13 days ago

What does it feel like to live with your husband's family after marriage?

So my question is to women living in husband’s house with in laws after marriage. How is life and have you ever felt like moving into a new place with your husband? I assume it won’t be the same as living in our own house in terms of freedom and comfort. Btw I’m not married and I just wanted to know how things will be.

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u/Old-Beautiful-3309 — 19 days ago

3D renders for my new project

These are few of the 3D renders for my new project in Kochi which is a 5000 sqft residence. Client wanted a white theme.

u/Old-Beautiful-3309 — 20 days ago

Completed full home interiors for ₹20 lakhs

This is my first project as an interior designer. It’s a 1500 sqft apartment and the project was completed in exactly one month.

u/Old-Beautiful-3309 — 20 days ago

Got matched with an Arab guy on bumble

I’m a 25F. Recently I got matched with a guy based in Dubai who is 26 years old. We got matched when he was in Kochi for some work trip. We started texting on snap and he seems to be very sweet but a bit flirty though. He is pretty rich as well since his family is into some real estate business in dubai. From what I’ve observed from his pics, he casually wears Gucci and LV outfits. He looks very fit and he mentioned that he never skip working out. But I’m not sure how it’s gonna turn out. My main concern is the nationality. If he was someone from India, I would have been a bit more comfortable. We’re able to communicate well since we can use English and both of us are pretty comfortable with it. Has anyone here dated someone who’s not an Indian? If yes, pls share your story.

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u/Old-Beautiful-3309 — 25 days ago

Should I go on a date with him? I’m confused

I’m a 25F. Recently a 24 year old guy asked me out for a coffee date. Last time when we met, we talked for about half an hour and he seemed to be very sweet and chill. I’m only concerned about the fact that he is younger than me.

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u/Old-Beautiful-3309 — 28 days ago