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Meaning they are never satisfied and nothing is ever good enough for them to the point where it is draining, or they complain about this one day and then it gets handled, then they complain about something else, like the goalposts continue to be changed.

I know sometimes people can reach for signs due to desperation and all that stuff, but I also can see the argument that some people won't show too much if they are already in a relationship, unsure where you stand, etc.

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Meaning what are your ideas/examples of a hard life? One could obviously argue life is hard in general no matter who you are

These things aren't mutually exclusive of course, it would just be you choosing for them to live a life where the parents are wealthy and can go on these vacations and give them extra presents and whatnot while not being sought after by peers because they are shy, socially awkward, etc, or would you rather them be beloved by everyone, make all these connections, and always be invited places, while you and your spouse essentially paycheck to paycheck or might live in an apartment or townhome because of the economy and area you reside in.

Is it just making the playoffs, is it making it and winning a game and losing to a higher seed on the road, is it getting to the NFC Championship game, making the Superbowl, or simply winning the Superbowl and every other outcome would be disappointing in your opinion?

Not that everyone cares, but whether it be an obvious signal that they miss, having low self esteem that clouds judgement, etc.

While it's situation dependent, it means someone who had a decent or worse level of self restraint probably would crack and end up doing/saying it, which likely would lead to regret of course.

I'm not quite sure how the numbers work, but if they wanted a $250,000 house, do you give them 10 percent down let's say?

It would be assuming they both have decent careers and can presumably pay mortgage but maybe they both have bad credit scores, or one wanted it in the others name, etc.

When you have kids if you don't have any rn

Without people outright telling you they think the person is socially awkward or weird.

If you have one kid that is grown, the same logic applies of course