u/PersimmonAgitated864

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Whenever he’s hungry i give him food.
No matter how hungry he is, he will just stare at his food from anywhere from a couple seconds to a couple of minutes before eating it.

Why does he do this I’m genuinely confused, he’s never done this before until around 2-3 weeks ago

If it helps he is an outdoor cats and goes outside away from our house. I don’t know if something happened to him or someone did something to him I really hope not, I’m just curious as to why he recently started this behavioural change.

Any suspicion?

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Im ugly, im an ugly dude, people have treated me shit.

Everyone says its personality what matters but ive tried so many personalities and its just not working.
And then i just see people who are good looking have the worst personality, or theyre extremely boring or whatever just succeed.

Im truly convinced, atleast from my personal experience that looks genuinely do matter.
I truly guarantee if i was good looking i wouldnt have this issue.

I have a decent physique, its just im ugly in the face. I dont really get looks or compliments from women.
I dont have much friends, i have maybe 1 or 2 that talk to me.
People who used to be my friend are socially distant without any explanation theyre just gone like that
I cant even take photos of myself without just looking with disgust

I just hate that atleast my life is like this.
Everyday im just self conscious about my looks, fixing my hair doing skin care doing everything and nothing fucking works.

I just need some advice on proving my mindset otherwise.

I truly cannot be the only one who thinks this.

Im ugly, im an ugly dude, people have treated me shit.

Everyone says its personality what matters but ive tried so many personalities and its just not working.
And then i just see people who are good looking have the worst personality, or theyre extremely boring or whatever just succeed.

Im truly convinced, atleast from my personal experience that looks genuinely do matter.
I truly guarantee if i was good looking i wouldnt have this issue.

I have a decent physique, its just im ugly in the face. I dont really get looks or compliments from women.
I dont have much friends, i have maybe 1 or 2 that talk to me.
People who used to be my friend are socially distant without any explanation theyre just gone like that
I cant even take photos of myself without just looking with disgust

I just hate that atleast my life is like this.
Everyday im just self conscious about my looks, fixing my hair doing skin care doing everything and nothing fucking works.

I just need some advice on proving my mindset otherwise.

I truly cannot be the only one who thinks this.

Im ugly, im an ugly dude, people have treated me shit.

Everyone says its personality what matters but ive tried so many personalities and its just not working.
And then i just see people who are good looking have the worst personality, or theyre extremely boring or whatever just succeed.

Im truly convinced, atleast from my personal experience that looks genuinely do matter.
I truly guarantee if i was good looking i wouldnt have this issue.

I have a decent physique, its just im ugly in the face. I dont really get looks or compliments from women.
I dont have much friends, i have maybe 1 or 2 that talk to me.
People who used to be my friend are socially distant without any explanation theyre just gone like that
I cant even take photos of myself without just looking with disgust

I just hate that atleast my life is like this.
Everyday im just self conscious about my looks, fixing my hair doing skin care doing everything and nothing fucking works.

I just need some advice on proving my mindset otherwise.

I truly cannot be the only one who thinks this.

Ive been recently struggling the past few months with body dysmorphia. In my lifting journey i started really skinny.
I got bigger and was fine, but now ive gotten a little bit more bigger im starting to hate my physique.

I wear hoodies or sweaters with layers underneath to look bigger, and I haven’t worn a shirt just by its own outside.
Even indoors I wear shirts but im constantly changing shirts once i feel or think that the current shirt i was wearing doesn’t suit my body anymore.

I just want this fixed. And even more terribly I never took progress pictures so whenever i look back at my old physique its just terrible videos and photos of me outside or whatever.

Please help me. I just want to be normal and wear shirts and not worry about how I look, like a normal person.

Hi, I’m a male, and I’ve been growing my hair out, currently my hair is just above my nostrils.

Whenever my hair is around nostril/nose bridge length I usually go to a barbershop for a maintenance cut to clean the sides and back up and not look as scruffy.

Almost every time this ends up horrible:
They either cut too much of the sides or back
A lot of the time they cut it short up to my eyebrows and I have to restart
Or they flat out just do random undercuts, not touch any of the hair besides add a fade on the sides

Ive been talking with my sister and she recommends me to go to a salon

Should i?

Im a guy and i just feel like it would be awkward

All i want is to keep my hair length so I don’t have to restart, and get a maintenance cut. Nothing fancy.

almost every single limited he owns is traded maybe 4-5 times between him and the same person (presumably) in a short manner and ends back with him.

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pretty pretty princess

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blue bubblegum

I swear, every child has to have gone through this.

Every time my mom or dad calls me and i am 1 second too late to answer, suddenly their phone doesn’t work anymore and I have to recall maybe 6
more times before they answer. Why?

I was told to forgive people and i think make excuses before i even judge? I cant remember

But genuinely, as a Muslim, how does one forgive like the worst of the worst people such as rapists or pedophiles?

Im really curious, im sorry if this comes off as rude or insensitive, but im new to Islam, and this has been stuck in my head