u/This-Influence-7422

Hi, im not asking if this is abuse, because i know it isn't, but more what happens if you add it to the full picture.

"Can you drive me at 9?"

"Im on the toilet"

"Well, can you dirve me in an hour?"

"I just told you im on the toilet, am i not allowed to piss?"

Conversations like that will occur all the time. Along with the:

"Hey can we get this next week?"

"Not now"

"Could we get it next week?"

"I told you we cant get this right now"(by right now she means this exact moment)

It gets super annoying and it riles up a very similiar feeling to the times they do that thing where they just ignore you, and make you look around the room waiting for an answer.

I also think they forget that i as a minor need plans set in stone and theres a difference in if i take the bus or they drive me. Because its always "maybe" and dont let me know until the last minute. Stuff like that ends with me only really leaving the house every 2 weeks. (Im a minor and cant get a license here until 18)

These are just few examples and i could probably drop more if any of you dont understand me. I just really want to know if anyone else is experiencing or vas experienced this and where it plays a part.

Sorry for any bad English its not my first language

Hi i dont know if this is the right subreddit for this but you guys must be the pros.

Together my parents make roughly 8k a month before taxes.

I(17f) just found out my mom blew 600$ on her hobby while screaming at me how we cant afford grocerys.

School starts again soon so i will be looking for a part time job. My general plan is to just save every single penny and in a year be able to buy a car and get my drivers license.

But is that a good plan? Only getting really the necessities and saving everything else until i graduate and can get out of here. Id love your guys advice.

Sorry for any bad English its not my first language!

My mom told me just today that we can barely afford grocerys and that they cant buy me fucking almond milk. I get shit so often for my parents financial issues. My dad makes 5k each month and my mom makes around 3k. We do not live in poverty, well they dont live in poverty. All my underwear is worn out and too small, so are my clothes. We barely have food at home and thats apparently my fault too.

My mom left her accounting book she got off temu on the kitchen table and i just saw that she spent 600$ on her hobby, which is making jewlery. It sucks even more because its my birthday august 31st and itll suck so hard. Im sorry for just coming on here to rant im just so tired of their financial irresponsibility. Theyre both smokers and dad drinks about 5 beers a day btw, which is not cheap where i live.

Im just so tired off this, i also found put theyre using my savings account for things they want. It also sucks even more since the work market is sucked dry here so you cant get a job when youre underaged, but im going to start trying again. Im sorry for any bad English its not my first language, thank you for reading.

EDIT: alot of people here seems to think im an adult, im not, im a minor.

Hi, i ordered something with amazon. Checked my bank account today and noticed i got my money back the day after i ordered(this was a couple days ago)

I check to see if the amazon order got cancelled but its still on its way and i cant withdraw the order since its already left the warehouse. Has this happened to someone else? What should i do? Do i just kwep it if it arrives?

Edit: I didnt cancel the order myself, so dont know what happened

Okay so I want to do a story where my mom sim is married to the bio dad Sim and they find out they're pregnant, bio dad Sim dies and mom Sim marries his best friend. Their daughter grows up thinking that's her real dad and then she finds out he's not and it's this big drama.

I know that it's a pretty basic storyline and that im not gonna find anything that can help this play out exactly. But if there's any mods for strained parent relationship etc. Im okay with having to just play with my imagination and cheats but if any of you have any recommendations I would love that!! Thank you beforehand.

I got the copper coil march this year, and it was the worst thing that has ever happened to me(the fact that it hurt so much and was so invasive and that this is something that we have normalized for women to go thru while if men were the ones to take contracaptives... yeah thats a completely other conversation) I have a panic attack whenever I think about taking it out just because of how much it hurt to put in.

But since I am 17 I don't have alot of life experiences so I don't have anything to compare it with. Since it's not a super popular contraceptive where I'm from either, not alot of people understand how bad it was for me personally either.

That's why I'm wondering if there's any wiser women in here that can help me with some examples. I feel ridiculous to say that I got traumatised from it because I don't know if it's valid but it was so invasive and I experienced such pain the 2 weeks after that, so i don't really know if I'm just sensitive.Atlast my prayers go out to anyone who has gotten it lol.

Sorry for any bad English its not my first language

I got the copper coil march this year, and it was the worst thing that has ever happened to me(the fact that it hurt so much and was so invasive and that this is something that we have normalized for women to go thru while if men were the ones to take contracaptives... yeah thats a completely other conversatio) I have a panic attack whenever I think about taking it out just because of how much it hurt to put in.

But since I am 17 I don't have alot of life experiences so I don't have anything to compare it with. Since it's not a super popular contraceptive where I'm from either, not alot of people understand how bad it was for me personally either.

That's why I'm wondering if there's any wiser women in here that can help me with some examples. I feel ridiculous to say that I got traumatised from it because I don't know if it's valid but it was so invasive and I experienced such pain the 2 weeks after that, so i don't really know if I'm just sensitive. Atlast my prayers go out to anyone who has gotten it lol.

Sorry for any bad English its not my first language

I really hope someone else can relate to this because I've never been able to relate to the entire "oh I'm so close with their family"

I will never forget being 8 and planning a play date with my friends and then finding out when I arrive at their house that were going to their grandma's house, or that it's a family game night. Because I'd never get informed of this before, and I, a very socially anxious kid would have to spend my entire day on the floor in an old house with your deaf grandpa and some toys that are there for your 3 year old cousin.

Like I've planned my day to spend time with YOU. I remember cleary one day I had as a kid when me and my best friend woke up and made waffles for her mom to ask if she could drive us to the pool. We then find out after we are going to her grandma's for dinner. And in the car with the grandma(after said old lady has spewed out a bunch of racist and homophobic things, that yes, kids do pick up on) she starts yelling at us how we manipulated friends mom to drive us to the pool. WE ARE 8 YEARS OLD.

My two best friends were cousins so I had to meet this grandma way to fucking much btw.

And this is still continuing into our teens(17f), like sure we understand that you're finally maturing a bit and find your parents funny and that you have a great relationship with them, but Noone else does. Yes we want to go back to talking shit and vape like we did a minute ago. Everyone else in this group setting just finds it awkward with your mom in this conversation.

I really hope this dosent continue into your adult life because oh my i hate it.

Sorry for any broken English it isnt my first language!!!