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Need a female to join me for vaishnodevi trip

hey , i know it's a little weird to ask here for a random stranger , but i was planning to go to vaishnodevi this 14 oct with my bf and need a female friend to join us so i can show at home iykuk 🥹 anyone interested to join us ? maybe a couple or female friends?

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u/TopEase153 — 11 days ago
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My college bestfriend started talking very bitter to me ( She is normal with everyone else)

I am an ambivert person—extroverted when I feel comfortable but naturally independent and reserved otherwise. Since childhood, I have struggled with keeping friendships and often feel misunderstood or not respected properly. I am not a people pleaser and usually follow my own thinking rather than trying to fit in, which may be one reason I feel different from others. Whenever someone behaves rudely or disrespectfully towards me, I stand up for myself, but people often make me feel like I am “always fighting,” even when I believe I am simply protecting my dignity. Over time, I have improved socially and been part of different friend groups—in school, high school, coaching, college, and now with my current best friend—but many connections either faded or became difficult. My current best friend was once extremely caring and affectionate, and she brought warmth into my life when I had chosen peace and distance from fake people. However, for the past two months, we have been arguing repeatedly because I feel she speaks bitterly, insults me, or treats me badly, especially around others, and when I point it out, she does not truly listen. I am comfortable being alone and value peace, but I also know we cannot completely avoid people or society. I am tired of feeling left behind or disrespected and want to understand why these patterns repeat and how to earn respect and maintain relationships without having to fight for it every time.

TL;DR: I am an independent ambivert who has struggled with friendships and feeling disrespected since childhood. I stand up for myself against rude behavior, but people often see me as argumentative. My current best friend, who was once very caring, has become bitter and disrespectful, leading to repeated fights. I value peace and solitude but want to understand why these social patterns keep repeating and how to gain respect without constant conflict.

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u/TopEase153 — 5 months ago
▲ 1 r/problems+1 crossposts

My college bestfriend started talking very bitter to me ( She is normal with everyone else)

I am an ambivert person—extroverted when I feel comfortable but naturally independent and reserved otherwise. Since childhood, I have struggled with keeping friendships and often feel misunderstood or not respected properly. I am not a people pleaser and usually follow my own thinking rather than trying to fit in, which may be one reason I feel different from others. Whenever someone behaves rudely or disrespectfully towards me, I stand up for myself, but people often make me feel like I am “always fighting,” even when I believe I am simply protecting my dignity. Over time, I have improved socially and been part of different friend groups—in school, high school, coaching, college, and now with my current best friend—but many connections either faded or became difficult. My current best friend was once extremely caring and affectionate, and she brought warmth into my life when I had chosen peace and distance from fake people. However, for the past two months, we have been arguing repeatedly because I feel she speaks bitterly, insults me, or treats me badly, especially around others, and when I point it out, she does not truly listen. I am comfortable being alone and value peace, but I also know we cannot completely avoid people or society. I am tired of feeling left behind or disrespected and want to understand why these patterns repeat and how to earn respect and maintain relationships without having to fight for it every time.

TL;DR: I am an independent ambivert who has struggled with friendships and feeling disrespected since childhood. I stand up for myself against rude behavior, but people often see me as argumentative. My current best friend, who was once very caring, has become bitter and disrespectful, leading to repeated fights. I value peace and solitude but want to understand why these social patterns keep repeating and how to gain respect without constant conflict.

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u/TopEase153 — 5 months ago

My college bestfriend started talking very bitter to me ( She is normal with everyone else)

I am an ambivert person—extroverted when I feel comfortable but naturally independent and reserved otherwise. Since childhood, I have struggled with keeping friendships and often feel misunderstood or not respected properly. I am not a people pleaser and usually follow my own thinking rather than trying to fit in, which may be one reason I feel different from others. Whenever someone behaves rudely or disrespectfully towards me, I stand up for myself, but people often make me feel like I am “always fighting,” even when I believe I am simply protecting my dignity. Over time, I have improved socially and been part of different friend groups—in school, high school, coaching, college, and now with my current best friend—but many connections either faded or became difficult. My current best friend was once extremely caring and affectionate, and she brought warmth into my life when I had chosen peace and distance from fake people. However, for the past two months, we have been arguing repeatedly because I feel she speaks bitterly, insults me, or treats me badly, especially around others, and when I point it out, she does not truly listen. I am comfortable being alone and value peace, but I also know we cannot completely avoid people or society. I am tired of feeling left behind or disrespected and want to understand why these patterns repeat and how to earn respect and maintain relationships without having to fight for it every time.

TL;DR: I am an independent ambivert who has struggled with friendships and feeling disrespected since childhood. I stand up for myself against rude behavior, but people often see me as argumentative. My current best friend, who was once very caring, has become bitter and disrespectful, leading to repeated fights. I value peace and solitude but want to understand why these social patterns keep repeating and how to gain respect without constant conflict.

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u/TopEase153 — 5 months ago
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Society look for beauty in women , what about average looking ones?

I know people will come and say looks doesn't matter , personality does , but still , i am an average looking girl, when i get ready in morning, i look good but with sun tan and energy drain , i end up looking average or a bit non attractive within 3-4 hours ... also skin tone matters yr , men like fair skinned women they want a fair girl... this thought kills my confidence most of times. also very low on budget, being a college student i get only 500 monthly . so my dressing and other things are also very average

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u/TopEase153 — 5 months ago

Looking for a weight loss buddy(a women )💪🏻

hey, i am 22 female, currently at 64 kg at 5.2 feet, goal - 52 kg by this September. I have tried multiple times to loose this weight but this time i am serious yrr, but I can't be consistent doing this alone, i want a weight loss partner ... together we will reach our goal. plz someone accompany me.

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u/TopEase153 — 5 months ago

Looking for a weight loss buddy(a women )💪🏻

hey , i am 22 female , currently at 64 kg at 5.2 feet , goal - 52 kg by this September . I have tried multiple times to loose this weight but this time i am serious yrr , but I can't be consistent doing this alone , i want a weight loss partner ... together we will reach our goal . plz someone accompany me .

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u/TopEase153 — 5 months ago

we 4 girls booked travel package to manali sissu kullu kasol, it was all good we enjoyed a lot, last day we decided to try this hash brownie... I had a good trip and slept after 1 hr, but my firsnds experienced a lot of crying, laughter, vommiting and self harm also ...

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u/TopEase153 — 5 months ago

we 4 girls booked travel package to manali sissu kullu kasol, it was all good we enjoyed a lot, last day we decided to try this hash brownie... I had a good trip and slept after 1 hr, but my firsnds experienced a lot of crying, laughter, vommiting and self harm also ...

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u/TopEase153 — 5 months ago