u/UMaqran101

(This is related to the sub, just read until the end)

So where do i start...

I am 18M, never abused or anything in my life, grew up with few friends and the more I got older the more they become less and the more I realize some people are just "people we know" not friends.

When I was under 14 yo, I used to love my mother and father, death used to scare me, and I was religeous (which is normal where I come from). I had younger brothers, but tbh, I didnt feel smth strong for them.

After 14yo, my feelings for my parents went to neutral, and sometimes even negative, i discovered new ideas and slowly left my religion, i became kind of a "humanist" in the general sens, but the more I grow the more i become a "materialist". When someone dies, i feel nothing, even from our family, i cant cry, when someone get hurt, i also feel nothing and i pretend to care but in the depth of my heart I dont, I dont feel happy when someone succed, not because I am jealous but because I really dont feel anything, even food doesnt seem delicious for me as before, am I depressed? Currently no. I used to be sad but now, not really.

Now where is the problem and how this is related to crushes. I know a girl, I will not talk about the whole story, but say that i confessed to her and she gave a vague response with mixed signals until now. I used to cry because I loved this girl, I used to think of her the whole time, but as the time go, I am afraid i am only attracted to her looks, however if she messaged me, it makes me somehow instantly happy and smiling, but I still feel like my feelings for her are fading

Idk.

Hi. I am trying to grow hair, but my hair keeps puffing and takes the shape of a mushroom. I heard that layering it will fix the problem, however no barber where I live know what is layering and generally are not familiar with long hair lol.

Except me because i am good.

Almost a year here and every single damn they there is wind, not a fresh one even, dry and messy, and my luck is so unfortunate that i decided to grow my hair and now even when i style it "a bit" i go out and I look like a beggar.

Everyone knows dating exist in real life; but at the same time people say "oh no dating is not welcomed here".

Can't you just confess and let's be together 💔

I am in late teenagerhood for context. When I used to be a child I used to cry and want my parents, but as I grew this things went away, not because they were violent or smth, the feelings just faded away. We aren't poor, but not rich either. And my brothers, cousins, uncles etc. I am really feeling neutral about them, if not bad sometimes because of some behaviours. But I love a girl very much, but even with her, I used to be excutely loving her, now I get excited to talk to her sometimes, but it is not as I used to a year ago, maybe because she is unclear with me for a long time (yarbi matchoufhach, rah kanbghiki wakha hkk 😔)...

I think I am just losing my emotions. Unrelated, but death used to make me cry as a baby, but now I barely feel anything, for example my grandpa died and I really felt nothing, not sad at all, and when someone else die, rah wellah makn7ss b chi 7aja, fach kaygulu chi wahed flan mat, rah kanmtl bli i feel that w kangulu lah yr7mu, but it is not really from my heart

So I am also a young Moroccan who is agnostic. So there is that girl, I wont talk too much about the type of relation between the two us, she is a feminist girl who dont wear hijab and talks in english the whole time, so you can call her westerminded. But, at the same time, she from time to time repost some ayat from quran, and yesterday I saw her liking a reel about the "type of man" and it showed a man praying, but he didnt look like the religeous stereotype, just a normal man praying...

So what I want to know, if you knew a guy who was 100% your type and he is on the good path but he is not muslim, will you accept him despite being muslim, and marry him despite islam banning women from marrying non muslim?