u/WintoreGargamoil

my boyfriend of years and i had the biggest fight we’ve had. i left all the family / friend groupchats i was in where he was. we were on the verge of breaking up. but he said he was sorry and after weeks of not speaking we are okay. not totally but getting there hopefully.

his sister messaged me if there was anything she needed me to talk to my boyfriend about i should feel free to talk to her. and i replied ready to talk about it but when i opened up she left me on read. it’s so clear she just said to clearly tick the box on her big sister check list.

i also told her auntie who’s our age that he had broken up. and every story i post she constantly replies with “are you with him?” “are you still broken up?” “how are you guys?” and when i reply, she just leaves me on seen like no follow up whatsoever. feels like she’s just after the tea.

i dont know it all feels so fake to me. fake compassion. fake empathy. fake concern.

is there an indicator for stories that have been spotlight-ed?

is there an indicator for stories that have been spotlight-ed?

i had the settings of my profile hide my like count but it still shows. is this a glitch? am i the only one experiencing this? i want my number of likes to be hidden again.

and yes i still call it twitter

i mean at this rate it baffles me why no establishments thought of putting up hotels within distance from the ph arena. like go hotels, hop inn, etc… probably some have thought and i just didnt know haha but still, missed business opportunity especially during concerts. but then again maybe if there are no concerts in the philippine arena wala din mag check in dun. i dont know im talking to myself na haha

kanang klaro gani na ganahan sila pero magpa dili dili. like example naa mi planned trip sa among barkada one that everyone is super excited about next year pa. nya one friend kay ga pa dili dili. di nalang daw kay di siya sugtan mu leave blah blah pero klaro kaayo she wants to go. now normally i wouldnt care if mu kuyog siya or dili but i already paid for the 4 of us and if she doesnt go we’re going to have to find a replacement who is willing to pay the amount niya. kapoy pugos. kapoy deal sa batasan. ugh

“ Kung maaari lang po paki sabihan po sya tungkol kanyang loan na mag o-overdue na. Isa po kayu sa ginawa nyang contact reference sa kanyang loan. Kung Hindi po sya maka pag bayad ay marereklamo po sya BARANGAY. “

— he said he didnt make me his reference. is he lying? did he really make me a reference? or was lucky peso able to hack his contact list.”?

hope someone could answer me.

this may be long, i’ll try to do it in bullet form so it’s easier for me and people who are bored enough to read it.

i met this friend at work, she was funny, comedic and years old than me. she always had this over the top, exagerrated stories about her life but we enjoyed it so we let her be. eventually we became close and she became sort of like an older sister or mom figure to me at work and outside of it. the closer we got, the more i realized that she is very toxic.

• she constantly gossips about people, it was enjoyable at first then i realized it’s only funny when the jokes not on you. i found out she loves to make up stories or exagerrates them and she gossips about me too!

• she’s a social climber, she loves to make friends with everyone since she’s a people pleaser she wants people to like her but she specifically makes nice with richer people and people who have a name for themselves. she constantly name drops her famous friends, yes she has famous friends who she met through acquaintances, like i said she loves to make friends with the rich.

• speaking of rich, she has this one friend who she constantly talks about. mind you i havent even met this friend of hers but she talks about her so much i could tell you this friend’s favorite color down to the size of mole she has hidden in her body. clearly she’s very insecure of this friend, she constantly includes her in every conversation like “my friend owns a house in…” “she did this…” “she did that” like girl, if youre gonna gloat, gloat about your own life not other people’s. she backbites this friend to me but also praises her.

• she wants to be needed.

• she gets mad if you dont invite her mind you, im in my 20’s who want to go to bars with friends and drinks while she’s married and in her mid 40’s. she doesnt even drink!

• she creates fake drama in her head and has imaginary haters when in reality no one gives two cents about her

• she borrows money, doesnt pay you back, if you ask her when she’ll pay back she gets mad and back bites you to other people saying youre fake rich.

basically i stopped being friends with her cause i got tired of her shit. she created some false narrative in her head that my one friend and i talked shit about her over dinner hahaha which never happened. she just got paranoid cause she backbites this friend to me. and she thought i would tell this friend everything she said which i didnt of course i dont play like that.

so yeah, i dont speak to her now. and life is so much better except everytime she enters my mind i get so triggered cause despite through this all she still doesnt know she is the problem.

im also not the only person she did this to by the way. if we all joined forces i think we could form an entire basketball team with cheerleaders

so simple plan’s bigger than you think tour in manila just had it’s generale ticket sale today, i tried buying tickets and was left disappointed.

i couldn’t choose the seat i wanted, the options are either “best available for the price” or i just choose the section i prefer and from there it’s automated. i was eyeing vip seated in the first few rows in front, but i couldnt even get the section i wanted. and when i did, it was in a row that was far, i didnt want to check out yet cause what if i’ll be able to get a nearer row. eventually the 15 minutes were up and i just gave up. is it just ticketnet that’s like this? i remember sm tickets you get to choose what seats you prefer and you get to see which seats are available and unavailable.

i haven’t purchased tickets in a quite some time so i forgot how it goes… anyway i was really sad i wasnt able to get the tickets i wanted i mean i could get the non vips one but im not from manila and it would make no sense to spend for traveling just for the concert if my airfare is more expensive that the concert tickets.

is it really legit? or is it a scam? i just saw an add of a dress on pinterest. wanted more details on the shop before i buy.

this will be my first time buying (fingers crossed) please help a girl out 🥺

i just woke up, currently healing from a break up from my 15 year relationship that ended a couple of days ago, the mornings are the hardest, waking up with a broken heart, knowing life isnt the same as before on top of that stuff at work is hella crazy, my boss is throwing the craziest tantrum and everyone around the office just triggers him more. there’s so much going on, it’s too much.

my brother’s wife is the sole breadwinner of her family, she has 3 small kids and a my brother who has no job. in all fairness to my brother though, he’s the one who looks after the kids, so you can say the roles are reverse. they agreed to this set up since she earns more money and he doesnt earn that much in his day job. but oh my goodness is she the laziest woman ever. she works online so she’s always home. the kids are out whole day cause theyre in school and my brother looks after them. she cant even wash her own dishes. she waits till my brother comes home at the end of the day and he does the dishes