u/carlanepal17

Is it a good sign to involve siblings, cousins and even parents in a relationship (within 6 months). Involve as in staying touch in social media, introducing them. I saw it in one of my distant friend's case and I was wondering if this doesn't work out, a lot of people will get involved in this mess. Also from the boy's side, it felt like a sign of desperation and hurrying it to secure. Also it is an interfaith relationship.

Is it a good sign to involve siblings, cousins and even parents in a relationship of a year. Involve as in staying touch in social media, introducing them. I saw it in one of my distant friend's case and I was wondering if this doesn't work out, a lot of people will get invloved in this mess. Also from the boy's side, it felt like a sign of desperation and hurrying it to secure. Also it is an interfaith relationship.

I bought some dress and casual wears from Being Human back in 2020, they were afffordable, not like other celebrity brand's price tag. I was thinking if anyone else still buy from that brand.

Most questions on the internet seem to ask I have this planet in this rashi, this house what is the result. Those who professionally read charts, in which priority do you keep the degree of the planets.
What does your experience say that being in baal, briddha or mrita degree is challenging opposed to yuwa awastha of the degree?

Is it post lunch hangover, or mid-day tiredness, I get lazy and sleepy at around 2 o'clock. Is it normal? I have been taking B12, vit D supplements, so that might not be the reason. Also, do you stay alert and productive all day? My mind goes on vacation time to time.

Those who drink oat milk or other vegan alternative, how do you make your tea? My oat milk tea either turns watery or gets very thick like litoma pani haleko. Is it normal?

I’m talking dissociation, trembling hands/feet, heavy chest, inability to think clearly, like my body goes straight into survival mode in an instant. I just freeze and want to vanish. Even my speech blurs in the moment. I fear ever facing him in an unwanted encounter.

Why does being around someone who hurt or betrayed you make your whole body react?
How to appear calm and composed if I ever see him again.

I am looking forward to buy a gadget, will spending a lot of money on a full moon day be wise?

I need some outside perspective. Sorry for the grammar, maynot be in flow.

I was in a relationship with someone I loved deeply, when I was quite young in my teenage. One of the biggest issues between us was that whenever I tried to bring up problems in our relationship, he treated it like I was creating unnecessary conflict. It felt like any difficult conversation was seen as me disturbing his peace.

Maybe things were not working between us, I can admit that. But despite everything, all I ever wanted was to love him and feel loved by him. I mostly wanted his time, his presence. I felt quite lonely even when I was in relationship. (he used to take months to meet me despite living in same city)

Instead of feeling heard, I often felt dismissed. Eventually things ended, and he disappeared completely without closure.

Years later, he suddenly reappeared and started sending me friend requests and follow requests after years of no contact. I did not accept them.

Then when I did not accept his requests, he started following back my old school best friend, which made me wonder if he expected information about him to somehow reach me through people connected to me.

Another thing that feels impossible for me to ignore is that his account used to be private before, had now turned to started to become public and fb profile unlocked. I connected some dot then found out he got into new relationship. Even his new girl's account is public. To make things worse, his new girl resembles me a lot and is from my community. (he had given an excuse that we are interfaith and this won't work)

Within 3 months, he put a ring on his new woman. He is publicly head over heels for her in ways I never experienced from him.

After that, I started noticing his reposts online constantly centered around how much peace his new girlfriend gives him, how happy he is, and how much he values what she brings into his life. That hit me hard because during our relationship, I was repeatedly made to feel like my emotional needs and attempts to communicate were exactly what disturbed his peace.

What makes this even harder for me to process is that this same man used to tell me things like he hated women, or that he was gay, and constantly acted emotionally unavailable with me. Now I am watching that same person become completely different.

It feels like he wants me to witness how happy he is, who he chose, and react to seeing him become everything for another woman that he never was for me.

This is not about wanting him back.

What hurts me is that this experience changed me permanently. I loved him deeply, and because of everything that happened, I genuinely feel like I will never see love the same way again.

So what I cannot understand is this: Our separation had given me enough emotional toll, I was just a kid back then. He slept quietly when I was struggling to breathe from anxiety, hugged myself to sleep. Emotional pain that was clearly suffering me physically. Unable to love anyone wholeheartedly till now. He knew I was suffering yet he told me he is loving his new life. He said he gave breakup party to his boys. After all this, I try to think positive of him. Even after leaving me, i was aware that he was going through sadesati. I used to pray for him. And now he thinks that was not enough so he is here trying to hurt me more.

Why does it feel like he wants to make sure I saw that he became the exact man for another woman that he refused to be for me? Why would someone intentionally make a person who once loved them feel this kind of pain? Am I reading too much into this, or has anyone experienced an ex whose behavior genuinely felt calculated years later?

How would you tackle if someone never put an effort to understand you, never had sympathy for what you have been, and when they intentionally try to hurt you?

Tdlr: how do you comprehend that your ex wanted to hurt you intentionally and how would you react.

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Suggest phones under 40k, focus on better camera, no gaming.

Desperately needing a job, any remedies

What character should one embody during sun mahadasha?

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Rahu Mercury vs Rahu Moon, who is the bigger manipulator??

I know that CFA adds value, but does it make drastic change, I still see people earning 30-40k with CFA. Is it worth it that passing it will be a turning point in career?

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Your friends, pets, hobbies, your job, money, recognition, relationship, family.
What gives you fulfillment?

I thought its a slang, but is it really that vulgar ?

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