Player suddenly showing up drunk
My group has been together for three years and we play every week with very few exceptions. We're at the end of the Hexblade's major story arc and he's showed up drunk to two out of the last three sessions. Both time he kept insisting he was fine. I eventually booted him off the Discord and we just cancelled the session because he can't really have a big showdown with his evil father if he's not here and everything I had prepped revolved around that.
How should I handle this? He apologized the first time but this week he still insists he was okay and we're all over reacting. His speech and text were unintelligible. He's a close friend to all of us but there's got to be a limit somewhere.