u/kuromiwlove

hey I'll be joining GU, i need a female roommate and wanna hunt pg near gu together, any other college also works, hmu

yeah, nothing much to say, the title says it all.

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he said it on my face directly yesterday (he had been giving hints, i was pretty blind to not connect the dots) according to him, his parents won't agree for the marriage and that he'd like to marry by his parent's choice in his own caste as he can't say no to them or can't make them agree for marrying him to me. (diff castes or some underlying reason idk)

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i thought this relationship was going to be my end game, we were friends for a long time and were talking a lot before coming into the relationship eventually so it's a lot for me to move on, any tips?

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i always went back to him/accepted him even though i was always feeling like that he wasn't giving me enough time, he wouldn't call me for many days until i argue about it, maybe the honeymoon phase weared off after 6 months idk, also i wasn't feeling prioritised for over 6 months, a major breakup happened during sep-oct 2025 due to a reason I can't specify here but it was a lot for me to process and tbh my mental health regarding this relationship was fucked pretty much since then only, still I chose to go back to him yeah I'm very stupid because i genuinely loved him.

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he promised me a lot of stuff (even gave me a promise ring), after coming out of a toxic relationship, he felt like my safe space, my home which has now abandoned me. i shared literally everything about my life to him, my deepest fears/traumas or whatever I liked the most. he promised he’d protect my inner child, how stupid of me to feel emotional over that, I've bad attachment issues. i struggle to make friends, so he was all i had to share about everything or to make plans with, I always saw a future with him, all of my future plans revolved around him, i asked God for us to end up together whenever I had the chance.

i don't have any friends to count on or to rant about this so i thought of posting this here. ​

woh kehte hai na “when you aren't fed love with silver spoons in early phases of life, you’re ready to even lick it off sharp knives when you grow up” sahi kehte h.

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TLDR : bf of 1.5yr gave up on the idea of marrying me because he doesn't wanna say no to his parents’choice in the future (we’re both from diff castes)

hey I'll be visiting GN for my college admissions soon and I'm new to this area can anybody help me out with the route and mode of transportation from ndls to gn??

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hey I'll be joining du soon for bsc hons, wanted to take advice!

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hey I'm a fresher and will be visiting the college soon for admission purposes can anybody lmk the time and route taken to reach from ndls railway station to GU

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I'll be done with my exams by the end of May and will be free for the next 3 months,

please tell me how I can upskill myself for college and what habits I should adapt to?

(pls don't tell me to take rest as I've nothing to do at home and can't sit still absolutely 😭🙏🏻)

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anybody choosing the same major, hmu

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same as title, starting college soon, need suggestions on what to buy from these two mentioned above.

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myquals

hey so I've (18f) been in a relationship for the past year and 2 months (14 months in total) with a guy (20m) i talked 3 years ago and instantly fell for him but wasn't in contact for some reasons and when we started talking last year again, it all came back again and I was so in love with him

we came into a relationship and oh man it was the most beautiful time I've ever had in my life until 6 months in, then he joined college and we were already in ldr but he never made me feel like it even existed, he used to be so eager to talk to me just like me and we were too involved and in love.

then a major breakup happened but eventually we patched up in a month or so, but he never returned the same way he left, i tried to take my mind off of it but it never felt the same amount of butterflies and all, he didn't seem interested like before.

we met quite a few times after that and now we can't meet for the next 4 months due to our reasons.

as for me, I'm a very talkative person and crave for somebody to share every minute details of my day with, he used to perfectly fit in what i needed so it was going pretty well but after that breakup he never showed that much interest like he used to while talking to me.

he doesn't call much now, says he's not a call person, i cried to him a lot about how i love talking to him and calling me once a day and keeping me updated throughout the day would do. (from princess treatment to begging for bare minimum, yes.)

still he got busy and i understand that, it's his first year in college and how it gets

but, he was happy while talking and spending time with his college friends and that bothered me a lot, he didn't text me, didn't keep me updated like i asked him to and just like everyday he'd talk to me after 10pm or so, almost everyday and it started feeling like a formality rather than out of Love.

me being an overly sensitive and emotional person, all of this bothers me so much i talked to him about this so many times like numerous times, he says every time that he's sorry, that he'll change but he never does

last day we didn't talk much the whole day as i had my exam and today because he slept through half of the day and couldn't text me much because he's at home. and after 11 i asked him to talk to me for 5 minutes then he can go back to his studies and his exams are approaching, i never wanted him to skip his studying to talk to me but unluckily the time never went to his studying but to spend time with his friends and i used to be left alone.

he replied with “i just realised today that this relationship is holding me back” and that I've no

patience and keep nagging him to talk to me,

i felt so bad by his response like i can't even describe, i didn't even take much of his time just asked for 5 minutes just to talk.

I've no friends at all, i suck at socialising so he's all i had and this bothers me so much that i was replaced here very easily too.

after that i told him I won't be disturbing him further and have blocked him currently and he didn't try to reach out to me by any other means that he usually did whenever i blocked him.

just wanted this off of my chest and did i do the right thing?