u/noprivilegeofbeing

I really want my boyfriend to hit me and call me names because it makes me feel more loved. he used to do it because I asked, and it made my heart sink but it also made me feel so in love and attached to him. when he hurt me I felt the most loved ever (ps, this is in both sexual and non sexual contexts.) is this normal

hi guys! my parents are moving continents, and im going with, but i have a partner and we’re really in love. i’m moving against my will, but whatever, I can’t control it. how do I deal with being away from them? theyve been my everything, and an escape from my school and parents (if you couldn’t tell, I dislike my parents quite a bit. now I’ll be in a whole new continent with just them, and nobody else in my life.) i’ve been crying for the past few months because life without my partner is the hardest thing I can even imagine. I love them with everything. we have both agreed that breaking up is the best we can do, but we still have a month left together where we will try to make our most, but i’m still in shambles. what do I do? apologies if my typing is poor, i’ve been crying so hard for literal days. I don’t want to move to this country, I don’t want to be with my parents, and i’m leaving my best friend.

tldr: i’m leaving my best friend, and partner to a country against my will because my parents want to. I love them so much, how can I cope with moving to a new environment AND loving my best friend?

hi guys! i made a post a few days back (around 5,) expressing my concern about starting birth control, tri-jordyna specifically. anyway, i’ve started and i’ve just been so short-tempered and sad these past few days. it’s completely out of the norm, and i’m even medicated for depression. i’m pretty certain it’s from the bc, is this normal?

i looove the effect (and price!) of the green/pink lash princess (the reason i say green/pink is because my mascara has the pink detailing, but it’s labelled false lash effect probably because it’s the brown version) but it crumbles like crazy, especially on my lower lashes. i specifically love the brown tint, but i’m desperate for other affordable products like it! are there any other essence mascaras that don’t crumble like this? thank you!!

i just feel so gross for having one, and it really weighs on me because there’s nothing I can do about it besides surgery. my boyfriend assures me it’s totally fine, and he likes it, but i can’t help but feel gross and disgusted to undress infront of him. whenever we have sex I cover myself and I move his face away from looking down there because i’m so ashamed of it, and when he eats me i tell him to close his eyes. anyone else like this?

any reason why hanl isn’t doing a toronto show for this tour? last time they came, it was for some random festival around 3 years back and it seemed pretty strange. maybe there isn’t a specific reason, but they’re going to vancouver

bit of a late post, but i went to the toronto greep show as a younger woman, and truly had the worst experience. i was up at front, and as much as i understand there’s mosh pits or people slamming around, the man behind me continued to grope me and rub against me the entire show even as i threw him away from me, and a few people tried to get him away. he never ended up apologizing, and just said “this is how concerts are.” the person infront of me before i moved directly to the front was also jumping and swinging their arms around, hitting everyone in their proximity. another dude approached me and recognized me from tiktok lol and was just so weird. finally, lots of screaming and unnecessary attempts at gaining greep and the other musician’s attention.
anyway, plz be nice to people at greep shows and especially women because i assume many of the odd men who attended related to greep’s lyricism

ps if any of you were the person with the friends house records shirt at the show you are very cool

In r/roastme, every man gets comments like “oh haha your hair sucks,” or “oh lol you’re fat.” Whenever women post, it’s always about their sexuality or lack thereof. Every. Single. Time. It’s always about them being a butterface, them being an OF model, or them being a pornstar. It’s sickening.

My boyfriend went to the bookstore on Valentines, and asked the worker for Bukowski. They began chatting and my boyfriend told the worker that it was for me, that Bukowski was my favourite author. Bookstore guy started saying things like“Aw man Bukowski? That’s your girls favourite author? Damn bro” and “Bro youre getting your girl Bukowski??”What does that mean?

Not sure if this is the right subreddit.

Whenever people try to buy my items (i’m based in Canada, PayPal is the only option,) it says they’re unable to because something about my PayPal is wrong. My PayPal is a new account, but my card, bank, ID, and face are all confirmed. Not to mention the money sent to me is on hold.

Any tips???

Sometimes when i’m dissociated and I look into a mirror, I see a beautiful lady. When I finally process it, I see myself and nothing but ugliness. Does anyone else get this?

Crossposted from r/women ( =

Hi there! Sorry, this thread might be a bit tmi. Whenever I either touch myself or have sex with my boyfriend, usually towards the beginning when i’m quite wet, I notice I have some white (cervical mucus?) sticky bits coming out alongside my wetness. Google says it might be a UTI or just normal mucus, but there’s absolutely no other sign that it could have a UTI (I am also extremely hygienic, and take my vaginal health very seriously) no pain, no smell, no strange discharge, no abnormalities during sex or anything. I’ve always suspected I have endometriosis (if that does anything).

I’m just a bit worried that maybe something is wrong and i’m not taking it seriously, hopefully someone can report back!

Anyway, thank you!