i have D cups and trying to lose weight so i can get them to be smaller because my body looks so weird with these flesh sacks in the way, will losing weight actually help or the shape will be worse? im also thinking about getting a reduction if this doesn’t work, my ideal will be A cups or even B if i can’t achieve my dream body i feel like i will shut down any future relationship and self sabotage
so after sex im not always satisfied and always want to touch myself to orgasm, now basically we are both tired and in bed and can’t really ask them to get out of the room so i can finish the job? is it better to tell them it’s okay to stay in the room or? i don’t mind if they were in the room doing their own thing but i don’t like being looked at while o touch myself, 20f. i need help to communicate this since i’m afraid they would be sad or insecure about it.
guess we will never know
why do i have to be the one who sends the first text, the first “how are you” why can’t you for once ask how i’m doing!
do you think sending a dumb useless reel will peek my interest? why can’t you actually act according to the way you claim you feel towards me.
i just miss you. our chats, our calls, watching movies…the way you looked at me from your camera. as if i meant something…i was someone to you.
i know you’re over me though…i will stop embarrassing myself. i guess we could’ve never worked out as friends. ily always.
i am a femme and i don’t like someone else touching my vulva even with fingering and clit stimulating (i can tolerate it), i wouldn’t say I’m a top or stone, i like a dominant and giving partner but not this part, so sex is me giving oral and anything the other person wants, me using a dildo with lube for a short while and then getting strapped by the person or tribbing, i like to be submissive in both acts
friendship or intimate relationships feel like a scam, an easy way to get traumatized and disrespected and it’s the same experience every time so i genuinely gave up on humans, i work, i have a cat that means the world to me, as long as i have my financial stability and my own company i will be happy until i depart from this hell, i think overall that’s my plan.
i just feel like having this autism automatically makes people think you consent to being treated as inhuman and they get genuinely shocked when you tell them you don’t like how they’re treating you….people are just so weird i give up, anyone else experiencing this realization or am i just a cynical doomer?
questions for fellow women
e.g., traditional practices, religion, peer pressure to get married or have kids or live a certain way
im 20f and always wanted to live my life free of any stress, how is life looking for fellow women who are living my dream life in their 25 and up, im a little worried about not having friends (it’s already hard enough to make friends) but just imagining everyone in my circle just parenting and only talking about kids makes me worried i won’t have relationships to hang on to, i love pets and feel fulfilled with them but i hate going out alone and not having friendships dates
i ask this because a lot of my female mutuals on social media talk about this and idk if we are the minority or not but it seems more genz especially women are choosing this lifestyle, some might change their mind and some not, but i always wanted to live free forever since i was a kid and im happy i get to not have kids and not have the government involved in my intimate relationships, i’m just saving up money to travel every year and buy a small cute apartment in my dream city!!
as much as i want to pretend they do but…this is not it, i desire so much more
hey, mainly a question for fellow women because celibacy is kicking my ass and other than a few makeouts sessions i have not experience anything else with anyone, i have been watching some great cunnilingus videos and i’m so freaking envious and in need to experience how it feels lol, now I’m wondering if there’s a toy i can buy that can give me the same feeling or close to it, sorry if this is a dumb question since i don’t really know anything about toys and never owned one, any help would be nice
20f, looking for tips from women who have more experience than me, i’m semi conservative when i’m horny because i have roommates. but i want to get to know my body’s pleasure points more. i am pretty kinky so i’m open to try anything that will make a session memorable and fun, i do watch porn here and there and i try to edge myself until release but i feel like it doesn’t lead to a strong orgasm anymore, i’m in big need of help lol.
it’s so lonely but i’m sick of getting invalidated, fuck this. i hate the fake acceptance and empathy the lgbt community performs. community my ass.
in the process of losing more weight and taking supplements and eating less processed food, i’m a bit overweight but getting that under control, thing is even when i looked the most attractive and fit i always felt like i was ugly and didn’t deserve to put myself out there, i pushed away people who wanted to date me seriously, i feel like i can’t call myself a lesbian if im not physically perfect because girls want feminine femmes that just have charismatic personalities and slim figures and i just look 16 still and i have a baby face even tho im 20, the loneliness is getting too much but i might go my whole life not dating ever, i look disgusting when im naked too, i feel like i’m catfishing people
it’s hard to wanna continue life when i remember i spent the “best years” being depressed and isolated, nothing to show for, no good memories and no friends, nothing.
i remember when i was a kid every guys had a full head of hair including my cousins and uncles in their 20s and 30s now it’s just…so bad, so why aren’t people doing research about this, it can’t all be genetics?
i really don’t get it, why am i different? why do i actually CARE about children and animals. why others don’t?? why is abuse towards kids is normal. no one actually cares and most humans only do things that benefits them and put others down. i am so weirded out by society that i feel like i’m the odd one out. the world scares me.
my brother rather call me to do a task with helping while im busy where it would’ve taken less time to do the task. i’m so tired of boy moms and their parenting, when i was his age id help and actually do something useful but today gen of boys raised to queen out and they won’t even take the trash out. ITS CRAZY.