Overwhelmed!
Full disclosure, ESO is my first MMO so I'm aware some of this might seem like basic stuff - but I've found myself struggling a bit to lose myself in ESO as I hoped.
Part of it is the sheer volume of mechanics and systems; I don't have ESO+ (I will certainbly get it if I stick with the game) but what drew me to ESO was the middle-ground it found between TES games and typical MMOs. I feel like I mostly get simple stuff, like:
-Ah yes, armour and how good it is
-Attributes and what they do
-Standard mmo stuff like questing and exploring
But I sadly feel very overwhelmed and intimidated. I'm still new (level 16, messing around in the stonefalls as a DK Nord) and the main story has grabbed me-but it feels like for every new thing I understand there are 10 systems I don't get.
Levelling and skills feels like a guessing game; I read the skills and basically pick the ones I think would work best, but so much of that tends to be how much DPS they do or if they fill a gap I've noticed in combat (aka, if I find myself regularly lacking health I'll seek out a way to heal).
I am trying to just immerse myself as a Nord in the Pact following the main story and helping locals out as he might do, but feel very strongly like I'm doing things "wrong."
I find myself totally unable to shake this feeling that ESO is this enormous beautiful manor full of fascinating people and things, but that I'm sort of awkwardly stumbling around on the street outside. I am sure the solution is either
-just play and work it out, dummy
or
-watch hours of tutorials
But I figured I'd just put the way I feel into words to see if anyone has any reassuring words that all of this will begin to "click" or if by level 16 still feeling lost is probably a sign I haven't been paying enough attention.