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Hi everyone.

I am going to join a company A next week, but now i have offer from company B for better package.

Now i want to negotiate with company A so i mailed hr regarding this, they asked me to send offer letter but i politely denied telling this is against the clause, so i can only share the salary breakup and i sent this to them.

Now hr called me regarding this and asked to At least tell company name , i denied saying it is confidential and i can’t share it so hr told ok she will raise request with team and will get back to me. And then he mailed asking for share offer where it Is addressed to you.

I don’t want to share offer as it is confidential documents and i am thinking to politely reply that this is salary breakup and this should be only considered.

Hi everyone.

I am going to join a company A next week, but now i have offer from company B for better package.

Now i want to negotiate with company A so i mailed hr regarding this, they asked me to send offer letter but i politely denied telling this is against the clause, so i can only share the salary breakup and i sent this to them.

Now hr called me regarding this and asked to At least tell company name , i denied saying it is confidential and i can’t share it so hr told ok she will raise request with team and will get back to me. And then he mailed asking for share offer where it Is addressed to you.

I don’t want to share offer as it is confidential documents and i am thinking to politely reply that this is salary breakup and this should be only considered.

Hi everyone.

I am going to join a company A next week, but now i have offer from company B for better package.

Now i want to negotiate with company A so i mailed hr regarding this, they asked me to send offer letter but i politely denied telling this is against the clause, so i can only share the salary breakup and i sent this to them.

Now hr called me regarding this and asked to At least tell company name , i denied saying it is confidential and i can’t share it so hr told ok she will raise request with team and will get back to me. And then he mailed asking for share offer where it Is addressed to you.

I don’t want to share offer as it is confidential documents and i am thinking to politely reply that this is salary breakup and this should be only considered.

My joining is in a week, and I’ll be relocating for the job. I need accommodation and would like to know the process for getting one.
Could anyone please guide me on how to apply for accommodation, whom I should contact, or if there are any official procedures I need to follow?

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I requested a location closer to my home, but HR denied the change request, so now I need to relocate to a much farther city. My offer letter doesn’t mention any joining bonus or relocation assistance, and my joining is just a few weeks away.

Would it be reasonable to ask HR for a joining bonus or relocation support at this stage? If yes, what’s the best way to approach it?

I’ve known this girl for many years, and I’ve loved her for most of that time.

Over the last few weeks, things felt different. We were talking properly every day, having long calls, discussing life, our future, marriage, and what being together could look like. She even spoke to her friends about me. For the first time in years, I genuinely felt like maybe this was finally happening.

I started imagining a future with her and felt happy in a way I hadn’t felt for a long time.

But recently things started feeling off. I felt like I was putting in more effort, initiating more conversations, and trying harder to stay connected. We had a few difficult conversations about communication, expectations, and feeling valued.

Today she told me she needs a break from everything and doesn’t want the responsibility of any kind of relationship right now.

I respected it and wished her well.

The weird part is that I’m not crying, angry, or even shocked anymore. I just feel… numb. Like all the hope, excitement, and future I had built in my head suddenly disappeared especially when you have loved her deeply for many years. It’s kinda weird people make you feel special at one point and suddenly their feelings flip.

Pata hai aaj kya hua?

I’ve known this girl for many years, and I’ve loved her for most of that time.

Over the last few weeks, things felt different. We were talking properly every day, having long calls, discussing life, our future, marriage, and what being together could look like. She even spoke to her friends about me. For the first time in years, I genuinely felt like maybe this was finally happening.

I started imagining a future with her and felt happy in a way I hadn’t felt for a long time.

But recently things started feeling off. I felt like I was putting in more effort, initiating more conversations, and trying harder to stay connected. We had a few difficult conversations about communication, expectations, and feeling valued.

Today she told me she needs a break from everything and doesn’t want the responsibility of any kind of relationship right now.

I respected it and wished her well.

The weird part is that I’m not crying, angry, or even shocked anymore. I just feel… numb. Like all the hope, excitement, and future I had built in my head suddenly disappeared especially when you have loved her deeply for many years. It’s kinda weird people make you feel special at one point and suddenly their feelings flip.

i received offer letter for Pune location, but before interview i was told it is for pan India but my offer letter was released for Pune location.

i sent multiple mails to HR team, but today i received call from HR saying location change is not possible as it is for particular project and location.

what to do now, need NCR location

My friend (let’s call him David) has loved a girl deeply for years. He was always emotionally available for her, supported her through breakdowns, stayed loyal emotionally, and always hoped maybe someday she would choose him. But she never really prioritized him romantically. He was more like the safe person who was always there.

At the same time, she would talk to David about “us” and about giving things time. She even told him that what they had was basically dating. On one occasion, David directly asked her to choose between him and her ex. She clearly said her ex wasn’t even in the picture anymore, that David was the one she wanted to be with, and the one she was talking to seriously.

Recently, during a deep conversation, she opened up about her past and told David not to judge her. Apparently, even after her breakup, her ex would keep calling her for parties or meetups, they would end up hooking up, and then he would emotionally disappear again. This cycle continued for a long time because she was still attached to him and couldn’t fully move on.

She later found out that during much of this time, her ex had actually been seriously involved with another girl, going on trips with her and building a relationship, while continuing to tell her that the other girl was “just a friend.”

Now she feels like she was emotionally and physically used while he was building a future elsewhere.

What makes this harder for David is that she recently admitted that during the same period she was still hooking up with her ex because she was into him, she always saw David as a potential life partner.

After realizing everything about her ex, she says something changed in her and she now sees David differently and much more seriously.

Honestly, I understand both sides.

On one hand, she genuinely seems emotionally damaged and manipulated by a toxic attachment.

On the other hand, David spent years emotionally investing in someone who was telling him he was the one she wanted while still being emotionally and physically involved with her ex.

If you were in David’s position:

• Would you move forward?

• Would you feel like a second choice or safe option?

• Or would you see this as someone finally waking up after a toxic attachment?

My friend (let’s call him David) has loved a girl deeply for years. He was always emotionally available for her, supported her through breakdowns, stayed loyal emotionally, and always hoped maybe someday she would choose him. But she never really prioritized him romantically. He was more like the safe person who was always there.

At the same time, she would talk to David about “us” and about giving things time. She even told him that what they had was basically dating. On one occasion, David directly asked her to choose between him and her ex. She clearly said her ex wasn’t even in the picture anymore, that David was the one she wanted to be with, and the one she was talking to seriously.

Recently, during a deep conversation, she opened up about her past and told David not to judge her. Apparently, even after her breakup, her ex would keep calling her for parties or meetups, they would end up hooking up, and then he would emotionally disappear again. This cycle continued for a long time because she was still attached to him and couldn’t fully move on.

She later found out that during much of this time, her ex had actually been seriously involved with another girl, going on trips with her and building a relationship, while continuing to tell her that the other girl was “just a friend.”

Now she feels like she was emotionally and physically used while he was building a future elsewhere.

What makes this harder for David is that she recently admitted that during the same period she was still hooking up with her ex because she was into him, she always saw David as a potential life partner.

After realizing everything about her ex, she says something changed in her and she now sees David differently and much more seriously.

Honestly, I understand both sides.

On one hand, she genuinely seems emotionally damaged and manipulated by a toxic attachment.

On the other hand, David spent years emotionally investing in someone who was telling him he was the one she wanted while still being emotionally and physically involved with her ex.

If you were in David’s position:

• Would you move forward?

• Would you feel like a second choice or safe option?

• Or would you see this as someone finally waking up after a toxic attachment?

My friend John (26M) has loved a girl (25F) deeply for years. He was always emotionally available for her, supported her through breakdowns, stayed loyal emotionally, and always hoped maybe someday she would choose him. But she never really prioritized him romantically. He was more like the safe person who was always there.
Now suddenly she asked him if he sees marriage with her because her parents are pressuring her to settle down.
During a deep conversation, she opened up about her ex and told John not to judge her. Apparently even after their breakup, her ex would keep calling her for parties or meetups, they would end up having sex, and then he would emotionally disappear again. This cycle kept happening for a long time, which she says is why she couldn’t move on.
Recently she found out her ex has actually been seriously involved with another girl( 25F) for around a year, going on trips with her, staying at her place, etc. But whenever she confronted him, he kept lying and saying “she’s just a friend.”
Now she feels like she was emotionally and physically used while he was building a future elsewhere.
After realizing all this, she says something changed in her and now she suddenly sees John seriously and wants to involve parents.
John’s response was:
“I need time. I need to know this is real and not emotional confusion.”
Honestly, I understand both sides.
On one hand, she genuinely seems emotionally damaged and manipulated by her ex.
On the other hand, John spent years emotionally investing in someone who was still emotionally and physically attached elsewhere.
If you were in John’s position:
would you move forward?
would you feel like second choice/safe option?
or would you see this as someone finally waking up after a toxic attachment?

TL;DR: 26M stayed emotionally loyal to 25F for years while she remained stuck in a toxic cycle with her ex. After finding out the ex was lying and building a future elsewhere, she suddenly wants marriage with him. He now wonders if he’s truly being chosen or just the safe option.

My friend John (26M) has loved a girl (25F) deeply for years. He was always emotionally available for her, supported her through breakdowns, stayed loyal emotionally, and always hoped maybe someday she would choose him. But she never really prioritized him romantically. He was more like the safe person who was always there.
Now suddenly she asked him if he sees marriage with her because her parents are pressuring her to settle down.
During a deep conversation, she opened up about her ex and told John not to judge her. Apparently even after their breakup, her ex would keep calling her for parties or meetups, they would end up having sex, and then he would emotionally disappear again. This cycle kept happening for a long time, which she says is why she couldn’t move on.
Recently she found out her ex has actually been seriously involved with another girl( 25F) for around a year, going on trips with her, staying at her place, etc. But whenever she confronted him, he kept lying and saying “she’s just a friend.”
Now she feels like she was emotionally and physically used while he was building a future elsewhere.
After realizing all this, she says something changed in her and now she suddenly sees John seriously and wants to involve parents.
John’s response was:
“I need time. I need to know this is real and not emotional confusion.”
Honestly, I understand both sides.
On one hand, she genuinely seems emotionally damaged and manipulated by her ex.
On the other hand, John spent years emotionally investing in someone who was still emotionally and physically attached elsewhere.
If you were in John’s position:
would you move forward?
would you feel like second choice/safe option?
or would you see this as someone finally waking up after a toxic attachment?

TL;DR: 26M stayed emotionally loyal to 25F for years while she remained stuck in a toxic cycle with her ex. After finding out the ex was lying and building a future elsewhere, she suddenly wants marriage with him. He now wonders if he’s truly being chosen or just the safe option.

My friend John (26M) has loved a girl (25F) deeply for years. He was always emotionally available for her, supported her through breakdowns, stayed loyal emotionally, and always hoped maybe someday she would choose him. But she never really prioritized him romantically. He was more like the safe person who was always there.
Now suddenly she asked him if he sees marriage with her because her parents are pressuring her to settle down.
During a deep conversation, she opened up about her ex and told John not to judge her. Apparently even after their breakup, her ex would keep calling her for parties or meetups, they would end up having sex, and then he would emotionally disappear again. This cycle kept happening for a long time, which she says is why she couldn’t move on.
Recently she found out her ex has actually been seriously involved with another girl( 25F) for around a year, going on trips with her, staying at her place, etc. But whenever she confronted him, he kept lying and saying “she’s just a friend.”
Now she feels like she was emotionally and physically used while he was building a future elsewhere.
After realizing all this, she says something changed in her and now she suddenly sees John seriously and wants to involve parents.
John’s response was:
“I need time. I need to know this is real and not emotional confusion.”
Honestly, I understand both sides.
On one hand, she genuinely seems emotionally damaged and manipulated by her ex.
On the other hand, John spent years emotionally investing in someone who was still emotionally and physically attached elsewhere.
If you were in John’s position:
would you move forward?
would you feel like second choice/safe option?
or would you see this as someone finally waking up after a toxic attachment?

TL;DR: 26M stayed emotionally loyal to 25F for years while she remained stuck in a toxic cycle with her ex. After finding out the ex was lying and building a future elsewhere, she suddenly wants marriage with him. He now wonders if he’s truly being chosen or just the safe option.

My friend (let’s call him John) has loved a girl deeply for years. He was always emotionally available for her, supported her through breakdowns, stayed loyal emotionally, and always hoped maybe someday she would choose him. But she never really prioritized him romantically. He was more like the safe person who was always there.
Now suddenly she asked him if he sees marriage with her because her parents are pressuring her to settle down.
During a deep conversation, she opened up about her ex and told John not to judge her. Apparently even after their breakup, her ex would keep calling her for parties or meetups, they would end up having sex, and then he would emotionally disappear again. This cycle kept happening for a long time, which she says is why she couldn’t move on.
Recently she found out her ex has actually been seriously involved with another girl for around a year, going on trips with her, staying at her place, etc. But whenever she confronted him, he kept lying and saying “she’s just a friend.”
Now she feels like she was emotionally and physically used while he was building a future elsewhere.
After realizing all this, she says something changed in her and now she suddenly sees John seriously and wants to involve parents.
John’s response was:
“I need time. I need to know this is real and not emotional confusion.”
Honestly, I understand both sides.
On one hand, she genuinely seems emotionally damaged and manipulated by her ex.
On the other hand, John spent years emotionally investing in someone who was still emotionally and physically attached elsewhere.
If you were in John’s position:
would you move forward?
would you feel like second choice/safe option?
or would you see this as someone finally waking up after a toxic attachment?

I had an interview scheduled for tomorrrow and requested a reschedule through email. I sent the mail to the email ID mentioned for rescheduling with HR in CC

After some time, I received an email from EYsupport saying thatt

“this is your ref number” and “We will be in contact with you shortly.”

Does this mean my reschedule request has been accepted and they’ll get back to me with a new interview slot? Has anyone received a similar mail before

I got an interview mail, which is scheduled tomorrow but in mail it is mentioned as

Below mentioned Mandatory Documents to be uploaded into TCS ibegin portal before the interview.

So do we need to submit documents before interview or can be done afterwards?