u/ur_moms_cock

I was thinking to myself yesterday, if I was a girl would I date myself? I thought long and hard and realized that I would genuinely be the absolute bottom of the barrel last option for the most desperate girl. Literally nothing going for me. 5’7 or 5’8, ugly terrible body, terrible face, not big down there iykwim, nerdy about nerd ass topics no one cares about, carpentry/framing job which i like and pays well but isn’t exactly a lady magnet. No game, no experience. No nothing. Genuinely fucking loser it might be over 😭.

I need a subreddit where i can freely talk about my issues with suicide and get support or advice. Ik that there’s r/mental health and suicide watch but they either just agree with me or take down my posts. Need me a real pick me up and some advice. And no, im not gonna ask someone irl. There’s a reason im on a secret reddit account.

19. Used to be a very social outgoing kid.
    Something in me snapped in middle school.
    I started hating myself and how i looked and stuff. I used to be one of the tallest kids in my grade until like 7 th grade when i almost fully stopped growing. Got made fun of because of my looks and height by girls in high school a lot which is crazy cuz im 5’7 so not really that short but still. 11th grade was genuinely hell. Every day i dreaded going to Culinary arts period 3 because i was sat in a group of 3 other girls who would always talk in Russian (im fluent in Russian but they didn't know that) and basically make fun of me. They'd talk about every square inch. Whenever they had nothing to talk about i was basically like a conversation starter. Talked about my height, weight, eyebrows, receding hairline etc. They’d always say how even if I was rich no woman would steep so low as to marry me. I just sat there and took it… Every day for 2 semesters. Never even considered making a move on a girl and I don't even talk to women outside of family even in friendly terms. Im just always assuming other girls would treat me and talk about me like those other girls. (They weren't even the only ones. I once went to a party and some girls told me I looked like shrek)
    Self esteem shattered. Ik its corny and stuff when guys say that they’re scared of women, but I’m scared of women.

19. Used to be a very social outgoing kid.
    Something in me snapped in middle school.
    I started hating myself and how i looked and stuff. I used to be one of the tallest kids in my grade until like 7 th grade when i almost fully stopped growing. Got made fun of because of my looks and height by girls in high school a lot which is crazy cuz im 5’7 so not really that short but still. 11th grade was genuinely hell. Every day i dreaded going to Culinary arts period 3 because i was sat in a group of 3 other girls who would always talk in Russian (im fluent in Russian but they didn't know that) and basically make fun of me. They'd talk about every square inch. Whenever they had nothing to talk about i was basically like a conversation starter. Talked about my height, weight, eyebrows, receding hairline etc. They’d always say how even if I was rich no woman would steep so low as to marry me. I just sat there and took it… Every day for 2 semesters. Never even considered making a move on a girl and I don't even talk to women outside of family even in friendly terms. Im just always assuming other girls would treat me and talk about me like those other girls. (They weren't even the only ones. I once went to a party and some girls told me I looked like shrek)
    Self esteem shattered. Ik its corny and stuff when guys say that they’re scared of women, but I’m scared of women.

19. Used to be a very social outgoing kid.
    Something in me snapped in middle school.
    I started hating myself and how i looked and stuff. I used to be one of the tallest kids in my grade until like 7 th grade when i almost fully stopped growing. Got made fun of because of my looks and height by girls in high school a lot which is crazy cuz im 5’7 so not really that short but still. 11th grade was genuinely hell. Every day i dreaded going to Culinary arts period 3 because i was sat in a group of 3 other girls who would always talk in Russian (im fluent in Russian but they didn't know that) and basically make fun of me. They'd talk about every square inch. Whenever they had nothing to talk about i was basically like a conversation starter. Talked about my height, weight, eyebrows, receding hairline etc. They’d always say how even if I was rich no woman would steep so low as to marry me. I just sat there and took it… Every day for 2 semesters. Never even considered making a move on a girl and I don't even talk to women outside of family even in friendly terms. Im just always assuming other girls would treat me and talk about me like those other girls. (They weren't even the only ones. I once went to a party and some girls told me I looked like shrek)
    Self esteem shattered. Ik its corny and stuff when guys say that they’re scared of women, but I’m scared of women.

19. Used to be a very social outgoing kid.
    Something in me snapped in middle school.
    I started hating myself and how i looked and stuff. I used to be one of the tallest kids in my grade until like 7 th grade when i almost fully stopped growing. Got made fun of because of my looks and height by girls in high school a lot which is crazy cuz im 5’7 so not really that short but still. 11th grade was genuinely hell. Every day i dreaded going to Culinary arts period 3 because i was sat in a group of 3 other girls who would always talk in Russian (im fluent in Russian but they didn't know that) and basically make fun of me. They'd talk about every square inch. Whenever they had nothing to talk about i was basically like a conversation starter. Talked about my height, weight, eyebrows, receding hairline etc. They’d always say how even if I was rich no woman would steep so low as to marry me. I just sat there and took it… Every day for 2 semesters. Never even considered making a move on a girl and I don't even talk to women outside of family even in friendly terms. Im just always assuming other girls would treat me and talk about me like those other girls. (They weren't even the only ones. I once went to a party and some girls told me I looked like shrek)
    Self esteem shattered. Ik its corny and stuff when guys say that they’re scared of women, but I’m scared of women.

I tried fighting against it but recently i’ve accepted that its over. How to cope and be happy knowing i’ll never marry/date?

I tried fighting against it but recently i’ve accepted that its over. How to cope and be happy knowing i’ll never marry/date?

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For context im 5’7 or 5’8 as a guy. Ive dates mostly taller women. I don’t understand a lot of short guys and tall girls on social media having hatred for each other or making fun of each other. The way I see it is, both short guys and tall girls are deemed “unattractive” or, “undesirable” by society. The fact that short guys hate on tall women and vice versa, then 10 minutes later both parties go online and complain about their height is really funny to me. Like bro we’re in the same boat 😭. Instead of hating on someone because of their height like other people have hated on us we should kinda stick together since we are both, “the odd ones out” in society.

Im 5'8 as a man and although I find tall girls attractive i've never pursued them. Not because im insecure about my height. (I really dont care my gf can be 6'4 and wear 6 inch heals) But the reason i've never pursued them is because i feel like tall girls would also want a partner who is taller or at least they're on height? There’s this girl at my work place who is about 6’0 probably closer to 6’1 and i wanna try asking her out. So can the tall girls who are like 5'10 plus answer the question. Would you date a 5'8 man?

Im 19 M. Before the quarantine i was a very social kid. I wouldn’t say i was a popular kid more in between regular and popular yk like 75%. Right after the quarantine started and i stopped going to school i got very heavy into social media and especially looks related spaces (aka looksmax.org, some discord and tt groups etc.) These groups basically tell people (most young teenage men) that if your not 6’2+ chad (chad means very attractive guy) than its over for you. it genuinely ruined my life. Ik that its not a hundred percent true, but hearing people telling me it’s over for 2 years straight because of my height and looks has done a huge number on me. I went from being the normal kid who talked to lots of people and was very outgoing to an insanely insecure guy. I now only have about 5-6 friends and don’t talk to any hew people whatsoever. I always compare myself looks wise to strangers and beat myself ip abt it. Im pretty short standing at 5’8 and nothing much in terms of looks. Ik ik the simple solution is change your mindset stop getting on those social media platforms and change your insecurities but i feel like i spent so much time those two years on these types of platforms that my brain will forever be rotted by insecurity. I genuinely dont know what to do anymore.

Im 19 M. Before the quarantine i was a very social kid. I wouldn’t say i was a popular kid more in between regular and popular yk like 75%. Right after the quarantine started and i stopped going to school i got very heavy into social media and especially looks related spaces (aka looksmax.org, some discord and tt groups etc.) it genuinely ruined my life. I went from being the normal kid who talked to lots of people and was very outgoing to an insanely insecure guy. I now only have about 5-6 friends and don’t talk to any hew people whatsoever. I always compare myself looks wise to strangers and beat myself ip abt it. Im pretty short standing at 5’8 and nothing much in terms of looks. Ik ik the simple solution is change your mindset stop getting on those social media platforms and change your insecurities but i feel like i spent so much time those two years on these types of platforms that my brain will forever be rotted by insecurity

Context. Male 18, just finished HS, never spoken to a woman romantically ever. Pretty short and ugly. Not much of a looker. Very insecure. Ik obviously that the first step people always say is stop being insecure but how can i stop being insecure when there is genuinely nothing about my looks that i like. And ik that looks aren’t wverything and that personality matters, but to get that first little fire or passion or whatever started you need looks because that person doesn’t know who you are. Anyway, im going into the blue collar field so its not like i have girls in my class or anything to talk to anymore. Missed my chance on that. Now i have to somehow go out in the world and start cold asking women out. No dating sites cause those are exclusively for guys that are tall or good looking or both. Where do you even go to meet women? Also, how do you talk to women? I understand that women are people too and not some intergalactic species but even then i still have no idea how. Il its going to sound strange but I’m not good with talking to new people, yet i actually have a bunch of friends. How do you start a convo? How do i make myself seem interesting when my interests and hobbies are really nerdy and not the most exciting? It seems insanely difficult and I just cant imagine how im supposed to do it. Kinda desperate tbh.

Cant ask a fucking question without having it flagged for some bs. None of my questions are even inappropriate offensive race/gender related or weird. Just a very common fucking question but i guess these reddit mods get their dicks wet from taking down questions. If you can, please suggest a reddit with little to no rules. Obviously like racism and sexism restrictions are ok but like specific as rules are bs.

Im 18 and just started dating. Not much of a looker as im 5’8 unattractive and got a 5 incher. Just wanted some advice on how to get girls if you aint good physically speaking

For some context I always watched Football (soccer as we say it) but never had a club. I watched mostly here and there you know some barca games some real madrid games premier league games here and there and always the world cup. This latest world cup got me more into it and I decided to finally just pick a club and stick to it like i have with American Football (GO RAMS!!!). And the way I got to picking Nottingham Forest is pretty weird and stupid. Basically i did a premier league spinner online and it landed on Nottingham and i decided this is it. I’ve seen a couple of videos and you guys look REALLY committed and passionate so I think this is the right club for me. My real question is what should I learn? What are the big games we’ve played recently years/ever? Have we won any major trophies? Who are our biggest players/prospects? Which important games should I watch? Who are our rivals? Any and all information from club fans will be much appreciated! GO NOTTINGHAM!!!!!!!!