Genuine question, why do a lot of you allow parents, society, culture to pressure you into marriage?
The other day I saw a post of a woman who said she’s trying to get married and she’s so stressed out. I can tell you she doesn’t even want to get married for herself, she’s having culture telling her that she’s too old and she needs to get married……. Mind you she’s 25……
25 years old and was told she’s “old”….. like you see how this type of ignorant logic really messes with our mental health? Majority of the time logic like this leads to marriages that are not happy, usually it’s neutral or just unhappy, I never see any companionship, partnership, best friend or romance or anything.
And men….. YOU ARE NOT OLD EITHER….
Can you all please relax, get married for yourself, not limit yourself to only one race or have your parents control everything? They need to approve the marriage, they can’t disprove it for an invalid reason.