u/Confident-Stress-732

i know it's imperative that i'm organized but does anyone have any niche advice to succeed at uni (get a first) whilst also balancing social aspects

please give brutally honest opinions especially if you're a person of colour

and i lied i am proud of it 😁

chat i'm so confused and a lil annoyed rn 😭 I've finished my a- levels and me and my friends were hyping up summer so much. at the start of year 13, we said we would plan a girl's holiday. we scrapped that in like feb and accepted the fact that we will just do cool/fun things in the uk.

what's bothering me is that no communication happens on the gc unless i initiate and they individually haven't even reached out to me to hang out. i've come to the conclusion that i may not acc speak to them once i go to uni and they weren't my actual friends.

i still wanna do fun things but i don't wanna do them alone 😭 ( for example, i wanna go to paris for the day and i most certainly could but it would be my first solo trip abroad and it would hella spontaneous.... i would have to PLANNNNNN to reinforce my safety). i could just go to ireland, wales, isle of man etc (start low stakes before i properly solo travel) but again i would be by myself and i feel like that less fun. i rlly don't wanna waste this time especially since i put in so much work for a-levels and i wanna reward myself

anyways, if anyone is in birmingham or near birmingham and wants to hang out msg me. i'm 18f btw.

that's it

hi i'm 18f looking for a serious exchange partner who can help me become fluent in french

i would also appreciate anyone francophones who wants to be friends as i wanna visit france this year and i know no one who i can meet over there

i would love to find friends who i can practise the language with and just vibe with.

also, i rlly want to travel to france in the near future and would be down to go with anyone who is interested. i'm on summer break.

bisous

ask me anything i wanna be bombarded with questions. no question is too crazy.

context

- christian

- gay

- on summer break

- very left wing

- into philosophy and sociology

- i like reading

a how to lesbian 101 essentially. give advice to those who have never dated a woman before or are in relationships rn

i would love to find friends who i can practise the language with and just vibe with.

also, i rlly want to travel to france in the near future and would be down to go with anyone who is interested. i'm on summer break.

bisous

i would love to find friends who i can practise the language with and just have a good time with.

also, i rlly want to travel to france in the near future and would be down to go with anyone who is interested. i'm on summer break.

bisous

genuinely confused and bored AMA

from life to politics to relationships. genuinely idc i'm quite bored rn

ask me anything at all. very bored and yh. i'm not a lesbian.

me and my straight friends were discussing the differences between homosexual relationships and heterosexual relationships and then they asked the question title.

it acc did get me thinking cos oral sex is not considered sex in heterosexual relationships nor is fingering. i’ve seen so many lesbians say a pro to being a lesbian is they get to decide what their body count is cos they view sex to be different with every person

what do you class as sex?

EDIT: title is supposed to say what do you class as sex with a woman

yesterday, i messaged my crush and asked her if she wanted to go on a walk with me. honestly, my intentions were for this to just be a walk where we chatted as friends. she said yes and i said "cool i can do monday and tuesday".

she LEFT ME ON DELIVERED for a whole 24 hrs on tiktok but was the first to like my insta story and she was still reposting on tiktok. she messaged a reply this morning saying she can do tuesday but i've left her on delivered for 6 hrs.

should i even still go on the walk bcos i feel as though she acc doesn't wanna go and when should i send her a message back? i was thinking i should leave her on delivered for longer than she left me on delivered.

HELP i don't want things to be awkward

i want to ask her to hang out during summer break and i'm tryna gain the confidence to do so