Can’t locate great grandparents marriage documents

I’m having trouble finding proof of my great grandparents getting married, I’ve been researching on my own for about a year now and have had virtually no luck, I’m close to given up on it altogether lol. I’ve been told by family members that they got married around April 1938 in Cincinnati OH.

It’s Raybourne Gallagher b. 1914 in Knox County KY. He moved around to various nearby counties like Newport KY, and Rita Kistner b. 1917 in Cincinnati OH. They lived with my great grandmothers sister and her husband for a while in Cincinnati until they eventually moved and settled in Barbourville KY

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u/Expensive-Shift3510 — 13 hours ago

This is the chart of an abuser, does anything stand out?

I can’t go too much into detail about this person as I don’t want to break guideline rules, but this is someone who I personally know and is a family member, who I am a victim of.

u/Expensive-Shift3510 — 2 days ago

Will he ever reach back out?

We’re not in no contact, we just haven’t talked in a while and I’m curious. I did find out from a mutual friend that he holds some kind of resentment against me over the relationship itself and how it ended.

u/Expensive-Shift3510 — 10 days ago
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Got these cards when asking about a new guy I’m talking to..

I’m kinda confused honestly, I just started talking to this guy last week and ngl my own intuition may be influencing this reading as he’s been lovebombing like crazyyy. I don’t know what three of swords would mean in this context. Could the magician, wheel of fortune and the tower mean he’s a player?? The back of the deck shows the world

u/Expensive-Shift3510 — 28 days ago

Any Virgos here attracting Gemini moons?

The guy I’m talking to now has a Gemini moon, my ex had a Gemini moon, and a few other talking stages I’ve had were also Gemini moons. I don’t know what it is about them that draws me in, I’ll usually notice they’re feeding off my banter extremely well (I’m an Aries moon) and the conversation is fantastic, only for me to check and yup, Gemini moon.

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u/Expensive-Shift3510 — 1 month ago

Was I his worst/most difficult ex?

I’m feeling like the tower immediately showing up as soon as I started shuffling isn’t a great sign. Eight of pentacles May mean that he sees this relationship as wasted potential? at least on his end. I’m confused about the Queen of cups, he did way more for his previous exes than he did for me, and he let me go easily. He even told me how he fought and cried over one of them. But I guess this relationship stressed him out so much that he was happy to leave. It’s been three months since we broke up and he said we could be friends, but even now he keeps me at a arms length

u/Expensive-Shift3510 — 1 month ago
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Was I his worst/most difficult ex?

I’m feeling like the tower immediately showing up as soon as I started shuffling isn’t a great sign. Eight of pentacles May mean that he sees this relationship as wasted potential? at least on his end. I’m confused about the Queen of cups, he did way more for his previous exes than he did for me, and he let me go easily. He even told me how he fought and cried over one of them. But I guess this relationship stressed him out so much that he was happy to leave. It’s been three months since we broke up and he said we could be friends, but even now he keeps me at a arms length

u/Expensive-Shift3510 — 1 month ago

Do you all think moon sign “changes” the type of Virgo you deal with?

I’m wondering if the moon sign influences what a Virgo is like. For example, I’m a Virgo sun/Aries moon; I’m one of the most unstable people you’ll probably encounter, nothing like the stereotypical Virgo. My ex is a Virgo sun, Gemini moon and at some point it felt like continuing the relationship was self harming lol. mood swings 24/7, flaky, and even to this day I don’t even believe he ever really liked me the way he up and left without a second thought. I don’t know, what do you all think?

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u/Expensive-Shift3510 — 1 month ago
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Why is it so easy for people to leave/forget me?

A genuine question. I’ve never been truly Considered or chosen, always an afterthought or second option. Which is interesting because I have my moon in the 11th house; aka the house of Social connections and friendship

u/Expensive-Shift3510 — 1 month ago

How to maintain manifestation if you have mental health issues?

So I know with law of assumption you don’t necessarily have to be positive and think about your sp every living moment, but can things like mental health mess that up? I have severe anxiety/depression as a result of past events and my internal dialogue tends to be very negative and brutal. (Things like being worthless/unvalued etc) no matter how hard I try and stay calm and persistent with my assumptions, I always slip back into my self hatred fueled mindset. Will this destroy my manifestation?

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u/Expensive-Shift3510 — 1 month ago

Will he come back? Why can’t I let him go

He left three months ago but we still keep close contact and talk every week. He hasn’t came back even though he said he’d give it a second chance. I’ve been trying to move on but it’s like I can’t let him go.

u/Expensive-Shift3510 — 2 months ago

Will I ever get married?

I’m in my early twenties and have had a few short lived talking stages and one relationship, but nothing really serious. However, I cannot see myself ever getting married; or having any children for that matter. I can’t envision it actually. Is there any indications showing or solidifying my belief?

u/Expensive-Shift3510 — 2 months ago
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I’m practically invisible

I’m chronically solo; I’m in my early twenties and I’ve never been the type to have a bunch of friends as I’m not that social, but there’s not a single person that I could consider myself friends with currently lol. I was the “loser” all throughout school, bullied at some point; I hardly ever get compliments from anyone irl or online, I’ve only been in one relationship and I feel like he only dated me out of convenience for the moment. I just never feel appreciated by anyone or valued and the lack of interaction and etc makes my feelings of worthlessness even worse.

u/Expensive-Shift3510 — 2 months ago

Why do we always have to be “strong”?

Something I’ve noticed is when it comes to black women, we tend to be deemed independent, sassy, strong, domineering etc. so when nonblack people come across black women who are otherwise soft-spoken, emotional, submissive and the like, it’s almost like it’s met by dismay. I came across a video of a black girl disappointed over how her makeup turned out, and nearly all the comments were talking about how her features are “loud and strong” and that she needed to embrace said features. It’s just so funny how never see this same rhetoric for other races of women; always black women. Not every black woman wants to be loud or strong or courageous.

I’m that kind of person. I’ve never been the type to stand up for myself or be like confident or anything, however my mom is, she’s like the ultimate example of what the average person would assume a black woman to be like. So I get a lot of flack from her and others in the family.

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u/Expensive-Shift3510 — 2 months ago

What are common indicators that someone will not (or shouldn’t) be in a relationship?

Just wondering, the only relationship I’ve been in ended up becoming very one sided and was so pathetic you could barely even consider it a relationship. Other than that I’ve never really been in a committed serious relationship with anyone and I’m almost 23 years old. I’m able to attract people but they almost always never stay around, or use me to get over past relationships. Are there any signs of such in a chart?

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u/Expensive-Shift3510 — 2 months ago