u/Fabulous_Letter_885

She teaches at my school (not my teacher). I developed a crush on her during a rough phase in my life. After a fight, we didn’t speak for a few months, but we became very close when her boyfriend married someone else. She started sharing deeply personal secrets with me, and I became her emotional support.

A few months later, she got back together with him even though he was cheating on his wife with her. From then on, she hid our friendship—asking me not to text, deleting my messages, and even deleting my number whenever they were together.

She once tried to end our friendship the night before my chemistry exam, then apologized the next day and we continued talking. Despite several fights where both of us were at fault, we always ended up reconnecting.

Recently, she again texted that she was deleting my number because she’d be with her boyfriend all day. That made me realize how unhealthy the situation had become. I was tired of being a secret and carrying her emotional baggage, so I deleted her number too. We haven’t spoken since.

AITA for ending the friendship? She was genuinely caring, encouraged my studies, and always treated me kindly, but I felt the friendship was no longer good for me.

My school is starting after a long summer break what should I do to avoid any conflict

She teaches at my school (not my teacher). I developed a crush on her during a rough phase in my life. After a fight, we didn’t speak for a few months, but we became very close when her boyfriend married someone else. She started sharing deeply personal secrets with me, and I became her emotional support.

A few months later, she got back together with him even though he was cheating on his wife with her. From then on, she hid our friendship—asking me not to text, deleting my messages, and even deleting my number whenever they were together.

She once tried to end our friendship the night before my chemistry exam, then apologized the next day and we continued talking. Despite several fights where both of us were at fault, we always ended up reconnecting.

Recently, she again texted that she was deleting my number because she’d be with her boyfriend all day. That made me realize how unhealthy the situation had become. I was tired of being a secret and carrying her emotional baggage, so I deleted her number too. We haven’t spoken since.

AITA for ending the friendship? She was genuinely caring, encouraged my studies, and always treated me kindly, but I felt the friendship was no longer good for me.

My school is starting after a long summer break what should I do to avoid any conflict

She teaches at my school (not my teacher). I developed a crush on her during a rough phase in my life. After a fight, we didn’t speak for a few months, but we became very close when her boyfriend married someone else. She started sharing deeply personal secrets with me, and I became her emotional support.

A few months later, she got back together with him even though he was cheating on his wife with her. From then on, she hid our friendship—asking me not to text, deleting my messages, and even deleting my number whenever they were together.

She once tried to end our friendship the night before my chemistry exam, then apologized the next day and we continued talking. Despite several fights where both of us were at fault, we always ended up reconnecting.

Recently, she again texted that she was deleting my number because she’d be with her boyfriend all day. That made me realize how unhealthy the situation had become. I was tired of being a secret and carrying her emotional baggage, so I deleted her number too. We haven’t spoken since.

AITA for ending the friendship? She was genuinely caring, encouraged my studies, and always treated me kindly, but I felt the friendship was no longer good for me.

My school is starting after a long summer break what should I do to avoid any conflict

She teaches at my school (not my teacher). I developed a crush on her during a rough phase in my life. After a fight, we didn’t speak for a few months, but we became very close when her boyfriend married someone else. She started sharing deeply personal secrets with me, and I became her emotional support.

A few months later, she got back together with him even though he was cheating on his wife with her. From then on, she hid our friendship—asking me not to text, deleting my messages, and even deleting my number whenever they were together.

She once tried to end our friendship the night before my chemistry exam, then apologized the next day and we continued talking. Despite several fights where both of us were at fault, we always ended up reconnecting.

Recently, she again texted that she was deleting my number because she’d be with her boyfriend all day. That made me realize how unhealthy the situation had become. I was tired of being a secret and carrying her emotional baggage, so I deleted her number too. We haven’t spoken since.

AITA for ending the friendship? She was genuinely caring, encouraged my studies, and always treated me kindly, but I felt the friendship was no longer good for me.

My school is starting after a long summer break what should I do to avoid any conflict

She teaches at my school (not my teacher). I developed a crush on her during a rough phase in my life. After a fight, we didn’t speak for a few months, but we became very close when her boyfriend married someone else. She started sharing deeply personal secrets with me, and I became her emotional support.

A few months later, she got back together with him even though he was cheating on his wife with her. From then on, she hid our friendship—asking me not to text, deleting my messages, and even deleting my number whenever they were together.

She once tried to end our friendship the night before my chemistry exam, then apologized the next day and we continued talking. Despite several fights where both of us were at fault, we always ended up reconnecting.

Recently, she again texted that she was deleting my number because she’d be with her boyfriend all day. That made me realize how unhealthy the situation had become. I was tired of being a secret and carrying her emotional baggage, so I deleted her number too. We haven’t spoken since.

AITA for ending the friendship? She was genuinely caring, encouraged my studies, and always treated me kindly, but I felt the friendship was no longer good for me.

My school is starting after a long summer break what should I do to avoid any conflict

TL;DR: I became very close to a teacher at my school (not my teacher) after she went through a breakup, but when she got back with her boyfriend, she started hiding our friendship by deleting my messages and number whenever they were together. Although she genuinely cared about me, the secrecy and emotional burden became too much, so I ended the friendship. AITA?

She teaches at my school (not my teacher). I developed a crush on her during a rough phase in my life. After a fight, we didn’t speak for a few months, but we became very close when her boyfriend married someone else. She started sharing deeply personal secrets with me, and I became her emotional support.

A few months later, she got back together with him even though he was cheating on his wife with her. From then on, she hid our friendship—asking me not to text, deleting my messages, and even deleting my number whenever they were together.

She once tried to end our friendship the night before my chemistry exam, then apologized the next day and we continued talking. Despite several fights where both of us were at fault, we always ended up reconnecting.

Recently, she again texted that she was deleting my number because she’d be with her boyfriend all day. That made me realize how unhealthy the situation had become. I was tired of being a secret and carrying her emotional baggage, so I deleted her number too. We haven’t spoken since.

AITA for ending the friendship? She was genuinely caring, encouraged my studies, and always treated me kindly, but I felt the friendship was no longer good for me.

My school is starting after a long summer break what should I do to avoid any conflict

She teaches at my school (not my teacher). I developed a crush on her during a rough phase in my life. After a fight, we didn’t speak for a few months, but we became very close when her boyfriend married someone else. She started sharing deeply personal secrets with me, and I became her emotional support.

A few months later, she got back together with him even though he was cheating on his wife with her. From then on, she hid our friendship—asking me not to text, deleting my messages, and even deleting my number whenever they were together.

She once tried to end our friendship the night before my chemistry exam, then apologized the next day and we continued talking. Despite several fights where both of us were at fault, we always ended up reconnecting.

Recently, she again texted that she was deleting my number because she’d be with her boyfriend all day. That made me realize how unhealthy the situation had become. I was tired of being a secret and carrying her emotional baggage, so I deleted her number too. We haven’t spoken since.

AITA for ending the friendship? She was genuinely caring, encouraged my studies, and always treated me kindly, but I felt the friendship was no longer good for me.

She teaches at my school (not my teacher). I developed a crush on her during a rough phase in my life. After a fight, we didn’t speak for a few months, but we became very close when her boyfriend married someone else. She started sharing deeply personal secrets with me, and I became her emotional support.

A few months later, she got back together with him even though he was cheating on his wife with her. From then on, she hid our friendship—asking me not to text, deleting my messages, and even deleting my number whenever they were together.

She once tried to end our friendship the night before my chemistry exam, then apologized the next day and we continued talking. Despite several fights where both of us were at fault, we always ended up reconnecting.

Recently, she again texted that she was deleting my number because she’d be with her boyfriend all day. That made me realize how unhealthy the situation had become. I was tired of being a secret and carrying her emotional baggage, so I deleted her number too. We haven’t spoken since.

AITA for ending the friendship? She was genuinely caring, encouraged my studies, and always treated me kindly, but I felt the friendship was no longer good for me.

She is not my teacher but she teaches at my school(middle school). I would like to confess one thing at first that i had a crush on her from the first week i met her,because of a depressing phase, I just decided i need someone and in 1st week of school i met her and decided yeah it’s gonna be her.

So long story short, we had a fight and didn’t talk for 2-3 months but suddenly we grew closer in November last year cause her boyfriend got married to someone else due to religion differences, and i believe the timing wasn’t a coincidence and rather she just needed someone to lean onto so she started getting closer to me sharing everything her deepest darkest secrets, and trust me when i say this the secrets are bad enough to end her career and social life

Now in January they reunited like started dating again, Yes that guy had an extramarital affair cheating on his wife with his old girlfriend because his wife is more of a traditional wife, So now she’s hiding me from that guy, she deletes my messages when she’s with him telling me to not text her during that time, She would delete my number if they are gonna be together for a whole day, but she won’t end it with me not like she didn’t try to but she tried at the worst possible time just one night before my chemistry exam which i had 0 preparation for, and she fucked up my mind and when i finally accepted it and said goodbye she just popped out of her mood swings telling me sorry she wasn’t in her right mind and all that and yeah it still ruined my exam cause I thought she did it just so my exam doesn’t get ruined but even after that its been 3 months she didn’t break the friendship at all

We had fights and when I say fight it was an equal fight like I would be the mean guy sometimes but she kept coming back

Now final chapter few days ago she texted me at 9 am i am gonna delete your number i will be with my Bf whole day, text me later and i will save it, so now as i saw it i felt really disgusted cause just last night i was thinking about my life and this shit was a part of it, i felt really disgusted that i have to hide a friendship isn’t it emotional cheating on that guy i know that asshole is cheating on his wife and it’s really messed up, and the main reason i wanted to break away is that she shares every shit with me from worst to best and it really fucks my mind so end of it i also deleted her number and we haven’t met as my summer breaks are going on

AITA for breaking the friendship mind you she’s really nice cares about my marks and praises me in front of others and also is caring

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Finally ended it (16M and 28F teacher)

So the upcoming story is pretty f ed up so I am 16M I have a teacher 28F she doesn't teach me but teaches at my school so now it goes like we somehow grew closer despite her not teaching me I would like to accept I had a crush on her when I first met her then later I got to know she has a boyfriend who's from other religion and he had to get married to his own religion girl because of this religion difference so she started growing closer just after this happened with her and in just 2 months they were again having an affair that guy was having an extramarital affair and all this shit is happening while she texts me calls me everything but just few days ago I realised how shitty and messed up all this is cause her boyfriend once read my chats and told her to block me and never talk to me again but she still did and I consider it emotional cheating to a level not claiming she likes me but that she's hiding it from him so from past few days I have been ignoring her completely but today she texted me don't text me today I will be with my bf today who's also married btw and don't text and I am deleting your number will save it later so after this I saw this as an opportunity to end this shit and I deleted her number too so now both of us don't have each other's number and I won't save hers now this shit has really affected my mental health cause she doesn't know when to stop she gave me some traumatising details so shitty details even about her own friends that I can't see my other teacher her friend the same way ever again and she's really manipulative like she gets all close lovey dovey and all that when she's having a bad time or having a fight with her boyfriend she makes me her anchor and starts acting like we are dating telling me to stay away from some girls and now I am sick of it cause whatever this is is not legitimate coz none of us can openly accspt it and if asked by any outsider it's clearly wrong and shouldn't exist so ending it today just came here to say it please say something so I feel better

Anyone looking for a tldr

TLDR: I got really close to a 28 year old teacher who used me and was cheating on her bf and a lot of messed up stuff and I ended it today

Finally ended it (16M and 28F teacher)

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So, the upcoming story is pretty fucked up. I am a 16-year-old male, and I have a 28-year-old female teacher. She doesn’t teach me directly, but she teaches at my school.

We somehow grew closer despite her not being my teacher. I am willing to admit that I had a crush on her when I first met her. Later on, I found out she has a boyfriend from a different religion. Because of that religious difference, he actually had to marry a girl from his own religion. Right after this happened to her, she started growing closer to me. Within just two months, however, she and her boyfriend started having an affair again—so that guy was having an extramarital affair.

All this shit was happening while she was texting me, calling me, and doing everything else. Just a few days ago, I realized how shitty and messed up all of this truly is. Her boyfriend once read my chats and told her to block me and never talk to me again, but she still did it anyway. I consider it emotional cheating to a certain level. I am not claiming she actually likes me, but she was actively hiding me from him.

Because of this, I have been ignoring her completely for the past few days. Today, she texted me saying, "Don't text me today. I will be with my boyfriend today" (who is also married, by the way) and "Don't text, I am deleting your number and will save it later."

After receiving that, I saw it as the perfect opportunity to end this shit once and for all. I deleted her number too. Now, both of us don't have each other's numbers, and I refuse to save hers ever again.

This entire situation has severely affected my mental health because she simply doesn’t know when to stop. She shared traumatizing, shitty details with me—even about her own friends—to the point where I can't even look at my other teacher (her friend) the same way ever again. She is incredibly manipulative. She gets all close, lovey-dovey, and affectionate whenever she is having a bad time or fighting with her boyfriend. She turned me into her emotional anchor and started acting like we were actively dating, even telling me to stay away from certain girls.

Now, I am completely sick of it. Whatever this is, it is completely illegitimate because neither of us can openly accept it. If asked by any outsider, it is clearly wrong and shouldn't exist. I am ending it today. I just came here to say it. Please say something so I feel better.

TLDR: I got really close to a 28-year-old teacher who used me, manipulated me, and cheated on her boyfriend while sharing messed-up, traumatizing adult drama. I finally cut her off and ended it today.

Finally ended it (16M and 28F teacher)

So the upcoming story is pretty f ed up so I am 16M I have a teacher 28F she doesn't teach me but teaches at my school so now it goes like we somehow grew closer despite her not teaching me I would like to accept I had a crush on her when I first met her then later I got to know she has a boyfriend who's from other religion and he had to get married to his own religion girl because of this religion difference so she started growing closer just after this happened with her and in just 2 months they were again having an affair that guy was having an extramarital affair and all this shit is happening while she texts me calls me everything but just few days ago I realised how shitty and messed up all this is cause her boyfriend once read my chats and told her to block me and never talk to me again but she still did and I consider it emotional cheating to a level not claiming she likes me but that she's hiding it from him so from past few days I have been ignoring her completely but today she texted me don't text me today I will be with my bf today who's also married btw and don't text and I am deleting your number will save it later so after this I saw this as an opportunity to end this shit and I deleted her number too so now both of us don't have each other's number and I won't save hers now this shit has really affected my mental health cause she doesn't know when to stop she gave me some traumatising details so shitty details even about her own friends that I can't see my other teacher her friend the same way ever again and she's really manipulative like she gets all close lovey dovey and all that when she's having a bad time or having a fight with her boyfriend she makes me her anchor and starts acting like we are dating telling me to stay away from some girls and now I am sick of it cause whatever this is is not legitimate coz none of us can openly accspt it and if asked by any outsider it's clearly wrong and shouldn't exist so ending it today just came here to say it please say something so I feel better

Anyone looking for a tldr

TLDR: I got really close to a 28 year old teacher who used me and was cheating on her bf and a lot of messed up stuff and I ended it today

So the upcoming story is pretty f ed up so I am 16M I have a teacher 28F she doesn't teach me but teaches at my school so now it goes like we somehow grew closer despite her not teaching me I would like to accept I had a crush on her when I first met her then later I got to know she has a boyfriend who's from other religion and he had to get married to his own religion girl because of this religion difference so she started growing closer just after this happened with her and in just 2 months they were again having an affair that guy was having an extramarital affair and all this shit is happening while she texts me calls me everything but just few days ago I realised how shitty and messed up all this is cause her boyfriend once read my chats and told her to block me and never talk to me again but she still did and I consider it emotional cheating to a level not claiming she likes me but that she's hiding it from him so from past few days I have been ignoring her completely but today she texted me don't text me today I will be with my bf today who's also married btw and don't text and I am deleting your number will save it later so after this I saw this as an opportunity to end this shit and I deleted her number too so now both of us don't have each other's number and I won't save hers now this shit has really affected my mental health cause she doesn't know when to stop she gave me some traumatising details so shitty details even about her own friends that I can't see my other teacher her friend the same way ever again and she's really manipulative like she gets all close lovey dovey and all that when she's having a bad time or having a fight with her boyfriend she makes me her anchor and starts acting like we are dating telling me to stay away from some girls and now I am sick of it cause whatever this is is not legitimate coz none of us can openly accspt it and if asked by any outsider it's clearly wrong and shouldn't exist so ending it today just came here to say it please say something so I feel better

Anyone looking for a tldr TLDR: I got really close to a 28 year old teacher who used me and was cheating on her bf and a lot of messed up stuff and I ended it today

Was it worth the money

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Or just a cashgrab by cbse

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Do we have to buy our real marks?

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Does everyone's scores get increased after revaluation