Inframe: Inframe: browndaughter and her friends lack basic civic sense

At this point it’s genuinely becoming a pattern. First standing/climbing on a World Heritage Site for content, then putting their shoes on escalator handrails and blocking the escalator to film reels, and now posting a video dancing in a moving car without seatbelts. In most countries, wearing seatbelts for pass is mandatory

Why is basic public etiquette and safety so difficult? Not everything needs to become content. Public spaces aren’t your personal film set, heritage sites deserve respect, and seatbelts exist for a reason.

When you have such a huge young audience, repeatedly showing careless behaviour and presenting it as fun or normal is irresponsible. You can enjoy your trip and make content without ignoring basic civic sense and safety.

u/Fit_Violinist4231 — 18 hours ago

Why do some people refuse to sing the first two stanzas of Vande Mataram or the national anthem?

Genuine question. I understand the objection to the later verses of Vande Mataram because they contain explicit religious references. But I’m specifically talking about the first two stanzas, which are the ones officially recognised as the national song.

And what is the objection to the national anthem?

I’m not saying anybody should be forced to sing either or that singing them somehow “proves” your patriotism. I’m asking why some people personally refuse to sing them.

Why has even asking this question become so controversial?

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u/Fit_Violinist4231 — 1 day ago
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What is going on with r Kashmir?

I asked why some people don’t want to sing even the first two stanzas of Vande Mataram or the national anthem and got downvoted like crazy. People were telling me to “ask your fellow Indians.”

Then I said Kashmir is part of India and somehow THAT got heavily downvoted too.

And from what I’ve seen, the sub seems very quick to ban or shut down people for expressing pro-India or nationalistic views.

I understand Kashmir has a complicated political history and people will have different opinions. But why does simply expressing support for India seem to get treated like some outrageous position there?

Criticising the government is one thing. Being hostile towards the country itself is another. What is actually going on with that sub?

u/Fit_Violinist4231 — 1 day ago

Why do some Indians have a problem with singing vande mataram or the national anthem?

I genuinely don’t get the controversy around singing Vande Mataram. It’s a patriotic song about India, not an endorsement of a political party or government.

You can dislike the government, disagree with policies and criticise politicians. That’s completely different from having basic respect for the country itself.

I just find it strange how even something as simple as Vande Mataram becomes controversial.

Love the country you live in, or live in the country you love.

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u/Fit_Violinist4231 — 1 day ago

Why do some Indians have a problem with singing vande mataram?

I genuinely don’t get the controversy around singing Vande Mataram. It’s a patriotic song about India, not an endorsement of a political party or government.

You can dislike the government, disagree with policies and criticise politicians. That’s completely different from having basic respect for the country itself.

I just find it strange how even something as simple as Vande Mataram becomes controversial.

Love the country you live in, or live in the country you love.

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u/Fit_Violinist4231 — 1 day ago

Why do lots of Indian men not wear Indian clothes during festivals

I genuinely don’t understand why traditional clothing has become so optional for Indian men, even during festivals. Nobody needs to dress extravagantly, but turning up to Diwali, a puja or another cultural celebration in the exact same shirt and trousers you would wear any other day just feels incredibly low effort.

Clothing is not the entirety of culture, but it is still a visible part of it. Traditions survive because people continue practising them. If every generation decides traditional clothes are unnecessary or something “other people” can preserve, then naturally they become less common.

And I’m tired of hearing that a kurta is somehow “too uncomfortable”. Please. You are wearing a loose cotton or linen kurta for a few hours, not being strapped into a corset. If yours is itchy or restrictive, buy one that actually fits. Traditional Indian clothing has been worn for generations in the Indian climate for a reason.

Nobody is forcing anyone to wear anything. I just don’t think expecting a tiny bit of effort for a festival specifically celebrating our culture is unreasonable.

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u/Fit_Violinist4231 — 2 days ago

Inframe: Sarah Sarosh’s personality changes depending on which audience she wants to impress

Sarah Sarosh has said MULTIPLE times that she quit alcohol. After Umrah, she spoke about quitting again and made it seem like this meaningful religious and lifestyle change.

Now she’s openly drinking what looks like a cocktail??

Obviously people can change their minds. That’s not the issue. The issue is making a huge deal about quitting, getting praise for it, and then doing the complete opposite like you never said anything.

This is why influencer culture feels so fake sometimes. Every new phase becomes content and a new personality depending on what gets engagement.

And her comment section is MAD because people actually remember what she says 

u/Fit_Violinist4231 — 6 days ago

Did inframe: Yashasvi Rajput and Ashish Verma fake their fallout for engagement?

Honestly, what was the point of this entire Yashasvi Rajput and Ashish Verma situation?

They randomly unfollowed each other. Then Yashasvi started posting and reposting reels about men not doing the bare minimum, while Ashish posted a reel about not getting married. Obviously people were going to assume something had happened between them. They knew exactly what their audience would think seeing all of that.

And now, out of nowhere, they follow each other again and post a video together like nothing happened?

I obviously don’t know what actually happened between them privately, but the whole thing feels so calculated. If nothing was going on, why post all those indirect reels while everyone was already speculating? And if something genuinely did happen, then suddenly coming back together with a video without acknowledging any of it still feels like they used the speculation to their advantage.

It honestly makes me feel like their audience is just a number to them. People commenting, speculating and constantly checking their accounts means more engagement, more views and ultimately more money.

And the AI slop thumbnail is genuinely giving me the ick too. After all that drama, that being the thumbnail for their comeback video somehow makes the whole thing feel even more like engagement bait.

I’m personally unfollowing both of them. If this was all done for engagement, I don’t want to give them exactly what they wanted.

u/Fit_Violinist4231 — 6 days ago

Inframe: Gopaari made everyone get them to 50k before posting but barely puts effort into the channel

Does anyone else feel like Gopaari is basically just being used to milk couple content at this point?

What makes it annoying is how they launched the channel in the first place. They told everyone they wouldn’t even post their first video until they reached 50k subscribers, so their audience got them to 50k before they had even posted anything. Then they said they would tell their love story at 100k.

But you actually have to give people a reason to get you to 100k.

They’re still only around 64k and I’m honestly not surprised. Most of the videos are just random couple challenges that feel like they could be filmed in an hour. Their most recent video was also basically the same concept Mridul and Aditya had already done.

The weirdest part is that they’ve actually had good content right in front of them. They had their roka, ardas, wedding preparations and so many other things happening in their relationship. Why have a whole couple channel and then not properly vlog the things people are actually interested in seeing?

Instead we get another challenge.

And the bulk filming really makes it obvious to me. Before Gopali left for her girls’ trip, they filmed three long Gopaari videos within a few hours. I know creators batch film and there’s nothing wrong with that, but three long videos in one sitting just makes it feel like they’re trying to get a few weeks of content out of the way as quickly as possible.

It feels like they sit down, film a few easy challenges, add some brand collabs and then they’re sorted for the next few uploads.

That’s what annoys me. Their audience literally gave them 50k subscribers before they had posted a single video because they were excited to see them together. It feels like they’re taking that audience for granted now and just using the interest in their relationship for easy views and sponsorships.

Going from 50k to only around 64k after all this time probably says enough. People were clearly interested in Gopaari. The actual content just hasn’t given them much reason to stay interested.

u/Fit_Violinist4231 — 8 days ago

Inframe: Alfiya khan getting arranged married soon and question about her sister

I saw Alfiya’s recent Instagram story where she mentioned she was choosing photos for her matrimonial profile and said she wants to get married soon. It genuinely made me curious because I don’t really know much about how common arranged marriages still are today.

Are arranged marriages still the norm in many Indian Muslim families, or is it becoming more of a mix between arranged and love marriages? I’d be interested to hear from people who have experience with this.

Also, I’ve seen comments mentioning that the family supposedly cut ties with Alfiya’s older sister because she had a love marriage. Is that actually true, or is it just something people keep repeating online? If it is true, does anyone know what happened?

More generally, why are some families still so strongly against love marriages, even when both people are consenting adults? Is it mainly about family reputation, community expectations, or something else

u/Fit_Violinist4231 — 18 days ago

Inframe: Shukla Sisters: Does anyone else find this a bit uncomfortable?

Previously, they made content around the phrase “saali aadhi gharwali.” I know some people see it as a joke, but personally I find it outdated and misogynistic because it normalises inappropriate jokes about the relationship between a man and his wife’s sister.

In a recent vlog, the youngest sister and her jiju, Punyakar, were half asleep in the car with their heads together. I don’t actually think there was anything wrong with that interaction itself. What I did find weird was the comments saying things like “they look so good together.” He’s literally her jiju, and she’s only around 18.

I feel like when creators normalise jokes like “saali aadhi gharwali,” it can encourage some viewers to see completely innocent family interactions through that lens, which is what I found uncomfortable.

Then later in the vlog, there was another clip where Anu was sitting with another married family member and again people were commenting that they looked cute together. Like what? Why are people shipping married people with their own in-laws?

Just a disclaimer about the title: I wasn’t saying the sleeping position itself was uncomfortable. I meant the comments under the video were uncomfortable. I don’t think there was anything wrong with them sleeping side by side. My issue was people saying they “look good together” when he’s literally her jiju.

u/Fit_Violinist4231 — 18 days ago

Low effort content and childish behaviour Inframe: Aary Vlogs

No hate at all. I actually watch Aary Vlogs for time pass and find them entertaining in the background, but there are a few things I’ve noticed that have started to bother me.

One thing I’ve noticed is that they don’t seem to do much at all. It honestly feels like they spend most of the day sleeping in the living room.

The content also feels very low effort. A lot of the time, they bring Sameeksha and Aayush into the vlogs and keep putting the camera in their faces, and you can tell they’re uncomfortable or awkward. There doesn’t seem to be much planning or structure to the videos either. It’s mostly the same repetitive dad jokes, which I personally find pretty annoying. Parmeet constantly gets fed up by aary and yogis behaviour but they are so oblivious

From what is shown in the vlogs, they appear to rely heavily on Archana Puran Singh and Parmeet Sethi. They live in their house rent free, have household help available, and now even their new house was provided to them. Considering they’re both in their 30s, it’s surprising how dependent they still seem.

Aary also comes across as a bit of a man child and seems to have quite a few anger issues. Yogita, on the other hand, appears very submissive towards him and often behaves in a childlike way. She also acts like a baby whenever she’s hungry, which I find quite immature. It’s also ironic that she talks about how people shouldn’t overeat, yet from what’s shown in the vlogs, she seems to be snacking or binge eating very frequently.

Another thing I found odd was Yogita complaining about living in Madh because it’s about an hour from Mumbai city. I understand commuting can be frustrating, but from what’s shown, they don’t seem to have to worry about rent, food, or many other major expenses, and they get to live in a beautiful bungalow on Madh Island. From an outsider’s perspective, it comes across as a very privileged situation.

I also sometimes get the impression that Parmeet and Archana don’t get much time to themselves because Aary and Yogita are always around. It also feels like they spend most of the day bed rotting while acting as though they’re extremely busy. Parmeet also seems fed up with yogi and aarys immature behaviour

Again, this is just my opinion based on what I’ve seen in the vlogs.

u/Fit_Violinist4231 — 18 days ago

QUESTIONS FOR CJP PROTESTORS

This is directed at CJP supporters.

Before you support any political party, organisation, activist, or public figure, spend at least 20 minutes researching them. Look into their history, past statements, affiliations, actions, and controversies instead of relying solely on social media or headlines.

As a student, I believe India's education system needs major reforms. We need greater accountability, stricter action against corruption, and significant improvements to how competitive exams are conducted. However, believing change is necessary doesn't mean ignoring the progress that has already been made. It is possible to acknowledge both the shortcomings and the improvements at the same time.

Now, before replying, answer each of these questions directly. Please don't deflect, change the subject, or respond with more questions. If you're confident in your position, these should be straightforward to answer. Downvote if you want. It doesn't address any of the points below.

  1. If the BJP is the problem, who is the better alternative? Name the party and explain why.
  2. What are your thoughts on Sonam Wangchuk's past statements, including his participation in Pakistan peace rallies? Also, how do you view the fact that two of his NGOs reportedly lost access to foreign funding under the FCRA regulations?
  3. Didn't the Education Minister already act on the NEET paper leak over a month ago? The minister publicly apologised, action was taken against those involved, and reforms have already been announced, including plans to transition the exam to a computer-based format. If you believe those measures are insufficient, what additional actions should have been taken?
  4. How would forcing one minister to resign prevent future corruption if the officials responsible remain in the system? Wouldn't systemic reforms be more effective than a symbolic resignation?
  5. Are you willing to apply the same standard to figures like Arundhati Roy, or only when it's politically convenient?
  6. This year's NEET admissions included the highest number of MBBS seats due to the expansion of medical colleges. How does that fit your argument that opportunities are decreasing?
  7. Do you believe NEET admissions should prioritise merit over reservation, particularly for general category students? If not, why?
  8. Wasn't CJP meant to be an apolitical organisation? If so, how do you reconcile that with its current activities?

Answer these questions first. After that, you're welcome to ask me anything

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u/Fit_Violinist4231 — 28 days ago
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GENUINE QUESTIONS

This is directed at CJP supporters.

Before you support any political party, organisation, activist, or public figure, spend at least 20 minutes researching them. Look into their history, past statements, affiliations, actions, and controversies instead of relying solely on social media or headlines.

As a student, I believe India's education system needs major reforms. We need greater accountability, stricter action against corruption, and significant improvements to how competitive exams are conducted. However, believing change is necessary doesn't mean ignoring the progress that has already been made. It is possible to acknowledge both the shortcomings and the improvements at the same time.

Now, before replying, answer each of these questions directly. Please don't deflect, change the subject, or respond with more questions. If you're confident in your position, these should be straightforward to answer. Downvote if you want. It doesn't address any of the points below.

  1. If the BJP is the problem, who is the better alternative? Name the party and explain why.
  2. What are your thoughts on Sonam Wangchuk's past statements, including his participation in Pakistan peace rallies? Also, how do you view the fact that two of his NGOs reportedly lost access to foreign funding under the FCRA regulations?
  3. Didn't the Education Minister already act on the NEET paper leak over a month ago? The minister publicly apologised, action was taken against those involved, and reforms have already been announced, including plans to transition the exam to a computer-based format. If you believe those measures are insufficient, what additional actions should have been taken?
  4. How would forcing one minister to resign prevent future corruption if the officials responsible remain in the system? Wouldn't systemic reforms be more effective than a symbolic resignation?
  5. Are you willing to apply the same standard to figures like Arundhati Roy, or only when it's politically convenient?
  6. This year's NEET admissions included the highest number of MBBS seats due to the expansion of medical colleges. How does that fit your argument that opportunities are decreasing?
  7. Do you believe NEET admissions should prioritise merit over reservation, particularly for general category students? If not, why?
  8. Wasn't CJP meant to be an apolitical organisation? If so, how do you reconcile that with its current activities?

Answer these questions first. After that, you're welcome to ask me anything.

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u/Fit_Violinist4231 — 29 days ago

QUESTIONS FOR CJP PROTESTORS

This is directed at CJP supporters.

Before you support any political party, organisation, activist, or public figure, spend at least 20 minutes researching them. Look into their history, past statements, affiliations, actions, and controversies instead of relying solely on social media or headlines.

As a student, I believe India's education system needs major reforms. We need greater accountability, stricter action against corruption, and significant improvements to how competitive exams are conducted. However, believing change is necessary doesn't mean ignoring the progress that has already been made. It is possible to acknowledge both the shortcomings and the improvements at the same time.

Now, before replying, answer each of these questions directly. Please don't deflect, change the subject, or respond with more questions. If you're confident in your position, these should be straightforward to answer. Downvote if you want. It doesn't address any of the points below.

  1. If the BJP is the problem, who is the better alternative? Name the party and explain why.
  2. What are your thoughts on Sonam Wangchuk's past statements, including his participation in Pakistan peace rallies? Also, how do you view the fact that two of his NGOs reportedly lost access to foreign funding under the FCRA regulations?
  3. Didn't the Education Minister already act on the NEET paper leak over a month ago? The minister publicly apologised, action was taken against those involved, and reforms have already been announced, including plans to transition the exam to a computer-based format. If you believe those measures are insufficient, what additional actions should have been taken?
  4. How would forcing one minister to resign prevent future corruption if the officials responsible remain in the system? Wouldn't systemic reforms be more effective than a symbolic resignation?
  5. Are you willing to apply the same standard to figures like Arundhati Roy, or only when it's politically convenient?
  6. This year's NEET admissions included the highest number of MBBS seats due to the expansion of medical colleges. How does that fit your argument that opportunities are decreasing?
  7. Do you believe NEET admissions should prioritise merit over reservation, particularly for general category students? If not, why?
  8. Wasn't CJP meant to be an apolitical organisation? If so, how do you reconcile that with its current activities?

Answer these questions first. After that, you're welcome to ask me anything

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u/Fit_Violinist4231 — 29 days ago

Has the original purpose of the protest been overshadowed by political agendas?

A protest can begin with a genuine issue, and people have every right to raise concerns about education, governance, or reforms. But at what point does a movement’s original purpose get overshadowed by larger political agendas?

My concern is that when groups, political figures, or controversial voices become involved, the focus can shift away from the actual issue people came to support. If a movement claims to be apolitical, people naturally have questions about who is supporting it, what organisations are involved, and whether the original demands are still the main priority.

India’s history shows that internal divisions have often weakened society. During colonial rule, divisions among communities and political groups were exploited by the British to strengthen their control. That is why unity, informed discussion, and focusing on solutions are important.

Supporting education reform, reducing corruption, or demanding accountability should not require people to blindly follow any organisation or political ideology. Citizens should evaluate every movement critically: Who is leading it? What are the goals? Are the actions helping solve the problem, or creating more division?

A democracy needs protests and criticism, but it also needs responsibility. The focus should remain on constructive change for the country.

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u/Fit_Violinist4231 — 1 month ago