u/Flower_princess12345

Im losing hopes with welcome week so I shall try here again. I’m first year, hospitality major. I like photobooth, cafe hopping, dressing up and taking flicks, will be down for any spontaneous trips and side quests if I’m not working. Love my girlies. This is my version of the class of 2030 sorry. I’d love to connect with you. Please reach out so can buddy buddy up this welcome week. Also W wingwoman if you plan to huzz scouting on campus.

Okay. Misleading title. Don’t sue me. But my friend who has bpd has always attracted the best type of guys. All of them would be heads over heels for her right off the bat, super patient with her splits and mood swings, spends money and time on her, all that jazz. Emphasis on PATIENT because the things she’d put them through is genuinely ill. Then badmouthing them after and playing the victim. Just for them to beg for her back. Even after she cheated. Or after they find out she has other guys on the side and they’re just a rebound. I don’t get it????? Like do I have to start acting like a mentally ill person to get a good man LMAO. This is extra frustrating because I have to hear her play victims every other day complaining about how men are hoes and they’re all trash. While I don’t disagree, she isn’t really in a place to be speaking of that. If I had acted the way she does with her current boyfriend or even with her exes with any of the guys I used to date, they would have not been nearly as patient as the guys that put up with her.

To preface, I love this girl. She been here with me through one of the worst time periods of my life. And I relate to her a lot. That’s why she’s still my friends. But that does not mean I can stay blind to the kind of partner she is. She is a serial cheater. As much as she likes to deny it. She is abusive. Emotionally, mentally, physically. Especially with her current boyfriend. I’ve seen their relationship from when they first started hooking up until now. And she truly is the issue. She beats him physically. She constantly needs attention. Threatens to self harm over the smallest thing. That she proceeds to exaggerate to everyone to make him look bad. How do I know? Because she admits to it. He has been nothing but patient with her. Buying everything she wants, going out of his way to beg for her back every time she gets mad over something and blocks him, etc. But when she loves, it genuinely feels like their soulmates. The way she talks about him, the things she say to him. I just feel so bad for the guy. She is genuinely so toxic. And I’ve talked about this with her. I’ve recommended therapy. She literally been to a mental facility before. She doesn’t want to seek help. She doesn’t want to change. Any promise of change, it’s gone as soon as another guy who chase after her appears. She constantly plays victim. She admits to it too by the way. She cannot live without male attention. She is constantly hopping from one guy to another. To the point I honestly feel like she would get with my ex if he gave her the right attention. Being friends with her genuinely ruin my perception of love and relationship. I don’t understand how you can claim to love somebody so much then cheats on them and hurts them in so many ways. You hear about crazy girlfriends, but I can’t imagine the shithole her boyfriends live or have lived through. And for some reasons, she attracts the best type of men. They literally change their hoe ways for her. Go out of their ways for her. Every single one of them. And she knows it too. She told me she loves the chase. She loves being wanted. She loves being spoiled by them. Then once they don’t give her enough attention for one millisecond, she turns around and say all men are whores and trash. Is the key to finding a good man is to fuck and love bomb the shit out of him, micro and macro cheat on him, be insanely jealousy and threatens self harm, and rinse and repeat?

Wouod love to make friends with any girls going into unlv this fall. So many events we could attend together (esp rebel ready week) if you’re down. I love a good photoshoot for the IG too if you’re into that.

I need somebody who’s down to actually go to all the events offered during rebel ready week please.

Please come to my job and glaze the hell out of me or leave a fake positive yelp (or google) review for me specifically. In return you shall get: me glazing you at your job and/or leaving yelp (or google) reviews for you. Or maybe my free employee drink.

My psychiatrist is hinting at me trying meds but I hear so many side effects and it’s making me super hesitant. Are the results worth the side effects in your opinion? Honestly I’m kind of in denial a bit. Like I’ve gone my whole life fine, in a way, without meds. I think. Like sure a few depressive episodes but when I’m not actively suicidal it’s fine(debatable). Or maybe I’m just used to this quality of life and the average person lives significantly better and getting on meds would help me get there.

Is there truly nothing we can do to fight back? I have a friend at school that gets harassed in and outside of class by a group of girls. We also get super unfair treatments by some of the instructors because they are friends with those girls. We have tried to bring attention to some of it to the owner but it was just brushed to the side. The instructor would trash talk my friend to her face with the other girls. Today some of the girls followed my friend to her car screaming that she was going to fuck her up and how she been to jail before so she’s not scared. Is this just one of the downside of being adult? You just have to suck up the harassment and hope for the best? I was thinking we could report one of them who we know works without a license but we don’t know her workplace. But that’s pretty much it. We don’t know what else to do about the bullying and the unfairness especially from the instructor

What is it like at UNLV? Considering we’re a commuter school. Is the recruitment process as harsh. Is it worth joining?

Trying to get back to therapy. Drop your recommendations.

I’m planning to use an object and gift it to someone as a way to siphon energy and bring it towards me.

I tried out cotton pads recently and it is so much more comfortable than regular pads. But I find that most of them are pretty thin even if they’re supposed to be for heavy flow. Most of them are also more pricey when you add the costs up compare to regular schmegular pads. I tried the Inertia ones and the brand from Dollar Tree. Obvious dollar tree if cost effective but the absorbency is disappointing a little bit (the overnight pads have the same absorbency as a regular mid flow pads). Any recs?

It smells so so good but it’s a bit plastic-y to me idk why. Kind of has an ants notes. Looking for something a bit sweeter?

Does the golden apricot & honey scent smells similar to the pure seduction brûlée to anyone else? I bought the pure seduction brûlée because I am a fein for gourmands and it was the last of the brûlée collection but its honestly smell so similar to the golden apricot & honey I might return one.

Like do you get a few cents raise after a certain amount of hours you worked? Or do you get paid extra for working graveyard? Just got out of an interview but it was so rushed I didn’t really get an answer.

I prefer fragrances that are gourmand but in a fresh, floral way if that makes sense. So far most of the scents I’ve seen are more like edible sweetness so I’m curious to see if there’s anything like a floral gourmand.