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GUESS WHO HAS NEW TOYZ

I'm very appreciative of the person who ordered these for Tommy

Also Tommy won't stop not looking so My brother ordered a cone for him that will be here in a few days

u/Go_Inevitable_1269 — 13 days ago

More tommy saga

He's soing fineish.

Eating, moving around the only issue is he avoids going in the box and oops for a bed or couch I think its due to anxiety and negative memories to the Box. Called the vet and they said its a wait it out kinda thing and to keep giving his Meds. Hes also licking his nuts still so I ask my mom about a cone and she get it when she goes to walmart. I'm also waiting for the items the much appreciated babyvirtute ordered to my home like a tent, toys and scratching post.

I'm still paranoid but guess ill have to let time do its thing

u/Go_Inevitable_1269 — 13 days ago
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Another Tommy Update!

He peed in Thursday night in the morning yesterday I saw in his box and also on the floor then got scared when he couldn't be in front of me that I called the vet and they said inconsistency is a part of the process and peeing at all in the first 8 to 12 hours of discharge is a good sign

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So things have been going fine lately.

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I'm making sure to get his meds in him

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I'm still paranoid that the block will come back when he licks himself in front of me but I seen him eat a lot and no vomiting has happened and no cries either

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his wreaking of pee made us give him a bath which went pretty horribly as you would expect with me locking the door him jumping out the tub and my brother having to hold him in the basement sink for me to finish rinsing the soap out while I was scared we were stressing him out

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I thought he peed today as I saw red in his litter box and was told blood in his piss will happen turned out it was just his cat food lol and when I got close to him he still smelled a little like pee at least I think it was pee I still can't tell the difference and smell between cat piss and s*** he still is looking himself sometimes but again but I still have hope he's doing better though as still no screaming or vomiting

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Special thanks to Crabby4Lyfe and Spiralasis for paying for the treatment and babyvirtute For getting me the Uber to and from the vet

u/Go_Inevitable_1269 — 16 days ago
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HAPPY UPDATE: Tommy's Safe

Ill post a big one tomorrow but just know we're currently in an uber going Home

u/Go_Inevitable_1269 — 17 days ago
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I think its done

If you didn't se my previous post, My cat tommy cant pee and I watched him try then cry in pain.

Tommy's life will most likely end soon as I don't have a job and my family doesn't care

I called the vet and they said to surrender him which I tried but no one answered the call.

He is the love of my life and I should probably spend more time with him but its hard to see him while he's in so much Pain

ETA: idk if this helps but I live in Philly and am 18m

OK I have an Update there an ER thats 44 mins away ill go to when my phone charges and luckly there are people in my DM's that are willing to Pay for us

Everyone that offered Ride was busy at this moment anyone willing whos available Now?

UPDATE IM IN AN UBER WERE GOING TO THE ER

After a lot of help tommy is being treated as I'm on the ER couch

Tommy is Ok. im typing this on Friday and hes doing better

u/Go_Inevitable_1269 — 18 days ago
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My cats might die and I can't do shut about it

Tommy Cant pee and my only option is too surrender him as I don't have money and no one any family cares.

As in typing this my mom is berating me and saying its my fault for not having a job at 18, which yeah I should have a job but her apathy and looking down on me isn't helping.

Just wanted to vent and get support i guess.

OK I have an Update there an ER thats 44 mins away ill go to when my phone charges and luckly there are people in my DM's that are willing to Pay for us

Everyone that offered Ride was busy at this moment anyone willing whos available Now?

Oh yeah I forgot to update this post everything's good kind people from the cat help sub paid for the Uber ride and treatment on Thursday and we're in recovery mode right now

u/Go_Inevitable_1269 — 18 days ago

Biggest Fandom Misconception that Pisses you off?

im really over people theorizing that Things change was a ploy for season 6 originally TT03 was gonna end at Season 4 but they got S5 and knew that was it. Cyborg's VA confirmed Years ago that the cliffhanger Ending was intentional to Teach Teen at the time that sometimes you don't get Closure https://youtu.be/7w20OxD1-5U?si=Jp9fBTJPfkIaWBxz

Now I still don't Like The episode but stop with the Narrative that we were Left Hanging for years only to get Teen Titans Go and bitching about the comedic spinoff when if you look at TTG in its own lens its still not good but also n ot the worst thing ever.

Beside if you really think about it, the Trouble in Tokyo Movie is a great ending if you count it which I do. and speaking of movies the TTG movie is Unironically good lol

u/Go_Inevitable_1269 — 24 days ago
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You shouldn't comment on a political issue if you don't understand it

A lot of the time, people say that every person needs to have an opinion on the hottest political matters. And if you don't have an opinion, you're judged for that.

But if i have no understanding of the political/controversial subject in question, i will not comment on it because my uninformed input can end up causing more harm than good, even if my intentions are good. Parroting what everyone else says can end up causing tons of damage.

Learning a little bit of biased information is not good enough either: you need to thoroughly understand the talking points of both sides in order to be properly informed.

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u/Go_Inevitable_1269 — 1 month ago

When Death Battle does Better than the Actual Show.

No. idc that he went out Wimping thats in character, but im annoyed that the 1st thing he said had to be a dumb sex joke. like he should know butcher doesn't want head from him

also the Fight with Nolan was Just cooler and the destroyed city and Heart eating was way closer to the Scorched earth we were Promised than the scorched Carpet in the show

it also helps that Homie wasn't Nerfed right after getting a Power Up

u/Go_Inevitable_1269 — 1 month ago
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Ben once said Misandry isn't Real but I think he's wrong

Now don't get me wrong, I know this term is mostly used by dipshits who ether can't of refuse to comprehend how and why many women are afraid. fuck those Incel losers. but I still think its real.

I'm aware that in past and present Misogyny is worse but that doesn't negate Misandry's existence

Misandry just means hating many men right? and ben refers to himself as a "manhater" which means it exist by default right?

in our current world i Kinda get it, but its getting to the Point where I see some have discussions of if men are needed to begin with(like that one segment on the View), as well as studies on "Parthenogenesis" being used as a part of their argument (i know its not all of it is in spite of men)

and to me that's strange. I just hate the Gender War in general. SOME Men do bad shit, so do SOME Women, we're all Human why can't we just try and find the good and Have Hope for better?

also in that same vid Sarby said "Reverse Racism" isn't real cuz whites are never keep down. but ilke is that not an overvSimpfycation of Racism?

I would like to share some comments on the video that echo my stance in better worded ways

u/consumerism

Let's be clear: misandry and racism towards white people are both issues that shouldn't be encouraged (and are very real, because violence and hatred comes in ALL shapes and sizes), however, men and white people are not nearly as oppressed as others races and genders, and it's not on a systemic level. They are issues that exist, yes, and there are cases where people have been killed or bullied for being white or male, but they are extremely outweighed by instances of violence and discrimination towards POC and women. I think it's kinda shitty to write misandry and racism towards white folks off as "not real" just because they happen less often.

u/Geraldine-ny5zk

11 months ago

i do think misandry is real in some very specific circumstances. Like, the idea that a man who got sa'd must have wanted it is definite some sort of -ist. Especially since i've seen it applied to 13yo children... (it's also applied to women and girls but for different reasons imo)
That's waht's so frustrating about mra folks. There are real changes that would improve men's lives (even little things like being more accepting of men crying) but it always escalates sooner or later into men decrying feminists wanting to own a credit card or w/e

u/sweet.rescue

Im with you 99% of the time apparently but I don't believe racism should neglect one race. Thats racist by definition lol I get where youre coming from but to say thay just doesn't progress anything. Just makes it okay to be mad at something we all have power to change. An eye for an eye...will leave the world blind.

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u/Sparkitto

46:38 WOAH. Misandrism and “reverse racism” are real issues…just obviously not in the same way? (“reverse racism” in quotes since it doesn’t really fit the definition)
It’s all still people judging people by their gender and racial identity…which is sexism and racism…but it’s also different because it’s not prejudicial? It didn’t originate from irrationality?
Someone who specializes in this stuff would know.

u/Go_Inevitable_1269 — 2 months ago
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Lets have some fun.

For me it's "I gave you everything I I have" after the 2nd chorus. ending with "Now I got Amnesia" was kind of cool but I hated the dragging on after such peak verses and that what was otherwise the best chorus of From Zero

u/Go_Inevitable_1269 — 2 months ago