u/Healthy_Poppy

(I am Canadian, phone and internet pricing is standard.) Boyfriend left, and said it was too expensive to live in an apartment, and moved back to his moms, so he can live rent free and save up to buy a house instead... Now I am alone, and left behind. I have 5k saved up, I am 26f, feeling anxious. I have been looking for a second job for about two years now, and my job is realistically unreliable since I work in manufacturing, and we've had a big layoff recently. Factories love to close on a short notice. I have no debt or anything, and I am good at managing money. I have no subscriptions, or unexpected costs like a vehicle. I walk 1hr to work at 5AM to save money, there is no transit. Feeling exhausted and so abandoned, I feel terrible, and my own father obviously isn't fond of the idea of me moving back to him to save money, since I am a whole ass adult LOL

Thanks!

Landlord will only treat the apartments who complain rather than treating the whole building. Is there a reason this is normal? I regret ever moving!! Constantly paranoid. I get my landlords to spray my apartment twice a year as a precaution, but this does not seem like the solution. If a building is infested, why not treat the whole place?

I could usually push through the pain, and just endure it until sex was over, but after getting UTIs and yeast infections from the antibiotics, I feel like I cannot have sex anymore... It stings and hurts, and feel so insecure now. I cried last night when we were trying, but just the tip felt like being stabbed and burned so severely... I was shaking from the pain. I love my boyfriend, and I fear he will leave me or find another way to enjoy himself. For the past 4 months ive been doing anal daily instead to keep him happy, but I am so sore and can't keep doing that... :( He said he doesn't mind waiting, but I don't beleive him. I want sex so badly and I love him more than anything. I also have endometriosis, unsure if that makes the pain worse.

My old neighbours were a sweet old couple. Very quiet and respectable. I go to bed at 830PM and their child is awake until 12AM. Crying and screaming starts around 930PM and doesn't stop until she is asleep. I get up for work at 430AM and the parents are banging on the ceiling for me to be quieter, yelling that I woke their toddler up... I do not know what to do. It's only been a week. The parents are always fighting, or the toddler is screaming. Tantrums and crying every night. I wear ear plugs but I missed my alarm Monday. Thankfully made it to work on time, but there must be a way to keep that child quiet??? Melatonin??? Something? This is a seniors building, I do not know how they snuck a toddler in...

I think all of the UTIs, followed by yeast infections from antibiotics has caused my pelvic floor to get all weird... How can I find relief? Sex is extremely uncomfortable now, since I am expecting it to hurt every time, and I cannot relax my pelvic floor. :(

I can't live like this, it's horrible! I got off of visanne three weeks ago because of side effects, and it's the only thing I could think of that has caused the last two months of stinging and pain. :(

Any advice? This has only started the past three weeks, but it just doesn't stop. My mind is immediately wide awake when I wake up at 3AM, but when I am further into the work day, I hit a slump, and feel exhausted!

Please tell me I am not alone LOL

I wish side effects were appropriately talked about before doctors put you onto a medication. I have been in so much pain for months! Intimacy always led to a UTI the next day, and I have been taking a daily antibiotic as a preventitive, but it still wasn't enough. :(