I feel like it does make me more hyper (though not bouncing off walls), more energy, even friendlier. But it also helps me focus.
And while obviously not everyone with adhd symptoms has it, I believe I fit the bill very very well, as does my therapist
There’s a bunch I’ve already thoughts of: cheetah print, grunge, emo, low rise jeans, silly bandz, feather in hair, y2k fashion tops, Velcro wallets, those neon leggings, chains on jeans.
I’d love to hear more ideas for both genders, though I could especially use more for men. Or even a few decor ideas
Sorry just venting. As a DD the line/seam/whatever it’s called is not below them. It kinda cuts across the breasts in an ugly weird looking way.
Seriously, past few years like 90% of cute tops and dresses have them. It sucks!
Wish the curvy option actually was for curvy build, but it’s just another way to say plus sized :/
I’m not ungrateful for having larger breasts, they come with their perks, but it bums me out that fashion is harder:/
For example get hand grip machine thing and do that a couple minutes a day to improve bottle opening.
Kegels to improve those muscles?
Diaphragmatic breathing to improve pelvic floor function.
Practice sitting up straight for posture benefit
I think I’m hypertonic, it’s often clenched. I’m between PTs for now.
I could google it but real people are better.
I guess just wanted to vent and see if anyone can relate? For something allegedly common, I don’t know hardly anyone in person with it, at least not enough to deal with this.
Loose tops make me look fat because they’re loose in back and make me look like I go further back several more inches than I do (boobs also help with this to be fair).
Tight clothes really highlight the stomach sort of bulging out.
I lost a lot of weight for first time in 10 years. Was so excited to wear bodycon. I somehow completely forgot that even at a definitely easily considered ‘skinny’ weight, it still bulges out to some degree. I even tried losing a little more weight than I wanted to, it hardly helped. It’s not belly fat. It’s anterior pelvic tilt.
It’s just a bummer that I worked so hard but still a lot of clothes are unflattering.
Oh and lately most fashion styles I like are cheap polyester, which is even more unflattering. So annoying but different issue.
And I know it’s well intentioned, but please don’t ‘you wear whatever you want you’re beautiful no matter what’; I’m realistic about how clothes actually look to most people (while also acknowledging I’m slightly harsher on myself than others are)
I put soy sauce water and olive oil and stuff and it goes in oven, wrapped in foil on top, for an hour and 10 minutes. Then another 10-20 minutes without foil if I see it’s still wet.
At first the edges are slightly crusty and it’s still yummy. But after one day in food container in fridge they become very hard and feels uncooked.
I tried putting less water and I tried keeping foil on those additional minutes, that’s what ai told me to try. Anyone have any idea what else it could be?
Often its parents or bosses, but could even be friends. Like maybe you’re gonna get the chicken wings and they advise ‘you don’t want the wings here, trust me’. Okay I’m gonna need a little more. Too spicy? Dry? Not prepared well?
Got it taken out a year ago. Female 27.
Maybe 4 months after it was removed I felt very bad in chest and back suddenly while out, like my bra was 10 sizes too small. No anxiety or new bra or anything special at time.
It’s just happened again one year out. It happened for 10 minutes and I went to bathroom took my top and bra off and it helped a small bit but not much. Eased out after five min. Then it came back 10 min later. I don’t think its anxiety.
My gallbladder attack was a lot more pain in back than chest or stomach. I honestly can’t recall it enough or relate the two, but this is a lot more back than cheet too.
Clearly it can’t be gallbladder so please, any thoughts?
You KNOW the smell is disgusting to most people. You know it’s not a subtle smell. You know it’s potentially harmful.
So if you insist on doing this, you should stand off to the side and inconvenience as few people as possible.
I just can’t comprehend why people just don’t care about how much they inconvenience and bother others. It truly just doesn’t compute to me.
This is both in person and on the internet, I’ve seen it plenty in person not just online.
If you’d like, you can then follow up with ‘based on my 5 minutes of scrolling Reddit and a few article summaries I skimmed, my initial reaction is [opinion]. But again that’s just based on the limited information I have’.
Most people don’t spend hours of their time reading news and updates, and from several different sources, not just their favorite source that agrees with them.
You can have an opinion but you should acknowledge that it’s based on very limited information. I think the world would be a much better place.
I put this as political cause majority of it is, but it’s not just politics
Not even any chatgbts are getting it.
I understand that technically I am the one who clicked ‘okay’ and ‘I agree’ but you basically can’t not; lots of places put it in tiny writing and make it a requirement.
Again I know I could just not use anything on the internet, they can do whatever I want since I technically clicked that I agreed. Or maybe the companies should just not be allowed to do this
It’s a preference. The crust has a different taste. I enjoy the taste of the rest of bread, I do no enjoy the taste of the crust. I prefer to eat what I like and not eat what I don’t like.
That’s just a taste preference, I see absolutely nothing about it that is childish.
I often judge people for their beliefs, as everyone does. Yet I think to myself…if I grew up with parents that I respected and trusted all my life. And I suddenly learn something as a teenager that directly contradicts what these people I love say, how hard would it be to go against them, both in my head and out loud?
I’d like to think I could do it of course, but I have a feeling it’s easier said than done.
Yes, everyone has the obligation to think for themselves. But if these people I love and trust and generally respect told me something, I feel like it might be hard to negate. I don’t blindly believe everything my parents say of course, but I think you get what I mean.
And then people whose parents are religious and have to go against that, and have their parents tell them they’re going to h*ll and (at the least) look at them with huge judgement, I can’t imagine how hard that would be.
Props to though who do it
Some people complain that they can’t find partners because they don’t look good enough or are very short. I think that problem is worse than my own. But I’m still complaining about mine.
I’m a decent looking woman, above average but nothing really special. And I feel for guys who are so great on the inside but not that attractive. But I can’t make myself be attracted to them. I truly wish that I could, for their sake and mine, but I can’t.
There are amazing guys who I think would make great husbands, and I can’t force myself to feel chemistry with them, to be attracted to them enough to be with them. I’m not looking for Chris hemsworth or anything, but I can’t make myself be attracted to those that I’m not attracted to.
I see plenty of women with men less attractive to them. I’m sure some of them just have different taste, but I assume some were able to see what was within and get past a somewhat unattractive exterior. How???? How can I make myself do that???
Brought to you by I was watching sex and the city and charlotte finally found her Prince Charming in a short bald guy
Or like one where parents have 16 kids and they’re abused and poor.
Sure these things are kind of interesting. But they’re horribly, horribly depressing. Disgusting. Creepy. Makes you lose faith in people.
I get it it’s kind of interesting but there’s plenty of not horrible movies. Even regular thrillers I don’t truly understand why people watch them, but they’re much less bad than the movies I described.
What’s going on in your brain that you want to spend two hours watching a father r*pe his daughter and raise a family with her in a locked room for ten years??? How does that not stick in your brain later when you’re trying to sleep?
Why can’t it just be a normal top with actual sparkles on it? They look a million times better and less childish yet still sparkle.
I honestly can’t comprehend the logic of so many fashion decision now a days. Usually i’d assume it’s cheaper but that can’t possibly be the case here??
For whatever reason it’s sometimes helpful to the season to make it clear they’re chewing, and they often really overdo the noise and it’s very annoying.
Sometimes it’s overly loud crunching and sometimes it’s obnoxious chewing with mouth open noise. I feel like a decent amount of sitcoms do this sometimes.
First one that comes to mind is Phil and Claire in the episode of their anniversary in season one
Or ‘why do you care what others think?’
First of all, it’s human nature and often even beneficial to care what others think. In some cases it even goes as far as just being considerate of other people. It’s not inherently bad to care.
I want to impress and want to look nice, that is not wrong of me, it is very natural. Maybe i’d be happier if I didn’t, idk, but majority of people do to some degree. If your roommate is mad at you for something, it’s normal to care. If you’re worried about upsetting someone, it’s normal to worry about their reaction. *yes, it shouldnt stop you from living your life, you shouldnt care only about them and let them walk all over you. That’s not really the kind of situations I’m talking about.
Furthermore, this is not really a feeling people can just magically lose. You can’t just turn off the part of you that cares what others think, or many people would do it.
Even the few people I’ve talked to, everytime they describe how they stopped caring, they never give a real answer. It’s just something that happened to them, or something generic like ‘i realized I can’t please everyone, so I’m just doing me’ or something