u/LL_Stars

I work at a gym, and a Pisces man was immediately drawn to me. He was shy, but he finally mustered the courage to ask for my number and ask me out a month later. It was the holidays (December), but we agreed to go out when I got back.

1. Date one: four hours and was wonderful

2. Date two: eight hours. He wanted to get physical, but I thought it was too soon

He went silent. I checked in, and he said he didn't think it was a good time. I backed off, but I couldn't fully hide that I still had interest for him at the gym. He still made it a point to say hello, but I knew it was out of politeness. Eventually, I moved on emotionally and can chat with him like every other gym member.

We both love NYC. Last week, I asked if he has plans to go. He said end of July. I honestly wasn't fishing, but I told him I wanted to go around that time, too for my birthday. The next day, he comes into the gym, and says, "I already have plans on your actual birthday, but I want to take you out the night after."

The last time we spent time together outside of the gym was January.

Is he interested again?

I just want to share an observation:

I follow a lot of other zodiac subs: Libra for my ascending, Cancer for my moon, and Sag since all my besties are Sags. Because I follow a lot, a lot of other subs creep into my feed.

Regardless, every sub is filled with: how can I tell if (zodiac sign) likes me????

I notice no one really asks about Leo women. There's no guessing with us, and I love that. It means we're real, honest. We either love with our whole heart or none. There's no in between, and I wouldn't want to be any other way. 🦁

I've worn fake, strip lashes every day of my life for the past six years. Needless to say, I'm a pro and can get them on my face perfectly in under a minute.

Today, I could tell half of the strip of one of my lashes was dropping, and therefore, not efficiently glued on.

It just goes to show you that you can do something perfectly a thousand times and still mess up. Look at the larger pattern. Focus on the times you have succeeded and remind yourself you've succeeded way more than you've failed. ❤️

....but Mercury will be retrograde for the next 3 weeks in Cancer of all signs.

And Chiron entered Taurus which will start squaring Leos over the next seven years.

And Pluto is opposing Leo's for the next 20 years.

And Saturn will enter Taurus in 2028, squaring Leo.

Obviously we won't all be affected for the next 20 years. It depends if you have planets in early, middle, or later degrees of Leo, but honestly. When is our luck going to legitimately turn around?

Take me back to 2023 😭

Capricorn - dad

Cancer - mom

Aquarius - quirky uncle

Virgo - eldest brother

Leo - eldest sister

Sagittarius - wild child that changes their hair color every month and wears orange lipstick

Aries - always hurting themselves and getting into accidents

Taurus - middle child

Gemini - the one you have to buy a leash for, because they talk to strangers, no matter how many times you told them not to

Libra - the sister that hogs the bathroom

Scorpio - the emo, no one gets me child

Pisces - the one sitting there, studying and looking at all the chaos (to be honest. I'm not sure. I'm the least familiar with Pisces people. Open to suggestions)

I wish I didn't, but I seem to be the only person who thinks they're shady/untrustworthy.

They've all been man stealers, and I wonder if that's due to Taurus ruling my 8H shared possessions.

I wish I didn't, but I seem to be the only person who thinks they're shady/untrustworthy.

Since the lion is courageous, I don't think Leos shy away from taking the harder path if it means a more rewarding life. And I find I lose respect for people who consistently choose the path of excuses and self indulgence. And especially if they whine about their circumstances.

Even if it has nothing to do with me. If it's a dream someone has for themselves, I still tire of it.

I didn't tolerate this well on my younger years, but age has definitely made me more grumpy about it.

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Do you filter by height?

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Story time since apparently this sub requires it. There was a period of time I experimented and gave EVERY man on the apps a chance. Every single one that swiped right for me. I responded to every man regardless of his looks, height, income, education, even if his profile was totally blank. Even if he only had group photos. Even if he sent me a lazy opener like "hey".

I thought: I'm a conventionally attractive, sweet woman with interesting hobbies. Many men say no woman gives them a chance so I'm going to and see what happens.

- 95% made it overly sexual within the first 1-3 messages

- 4% were clearly not emotionally available because of their inconsistency with messaging and planning dates

- 1% seemed nice enough, but I got tired of carrying the conversation so it fizzled out.

There was one man I had more than one date with, and we went on to date for a short while.

As someone who is in the happiest, healthiest relationship of my life, I have been off the apps for three years.

They make you miserable.

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results.

Get out there. Look cute. Dress nice. Join a gym. Pick up a hobby. Learn something new every once in a while. Create a schedule. Be at the same place at the same time daily, weekly. Smile.

I believe in all of you.

You prioritize beauty, aesthetics, design, etc.

Any preference towards women heavy makeup? Makeup that only enhances certain features? Natural beauty?

My crush is Libra dominant. I'm naturally beautiful and only wear mascara, but it seems like he talks to me more on the days I don't wear lipstick.

I'm really not trying to be snarky. I'm genuinely curious, because whenever I see or hear this, it is always towards a woman, and the woman is usually attractive, fit, smart, accomplished, talented, sweet, has her own bag, and so on so I think she deserves to have high standards.

And how do you feel that impact, if any?

For me:

• 1st outside of South node (Libra, flipped zodiac)
• 5th
• 6th
• 7th outside of North node
• 8th
• 9th except Chiron
• 11th
• 12th

I think I was meant to make money and be in the public spotlight by yapping away? Not sure.

I'm curious about other Libra risings, too.

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With Chiron, Saturn, and Neptune in Aries, house of relationships for risings, and all of these planets opposing our ascendant/sun, it challenges and destroys some of our people pleasing tendencies. I think relationships with others is front and center for us.

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Did you have a discussion with them? Did you ghost?