u/Miznova97

So I’ve been dealing with IBS for a year now it was soon after I got Covid, I started experiencing a pulling sensation in my testicles it wasn’t painful, I went doctors they told me I had a UTI after I did a urine sample, I took a short course of antibiotics and the pain went away. But since all this my IBS has been acting up, some days I have to go toilet 5-10 times an hour other days it’s not as bad. Recently in the last few weeks I have started noticing that this pulling sensation type pain in my balls has come back - it doesn’t last long or hurt much it just feels like pressure. I feel pain in my lower back and also started noticing I have leakage. I have a feeling it’s pelvic floor dysfunction but could it be prostatitis. Did anyone else take a while to get treated?

I’ve gone through the whole application process and when I select the two options to confirm my identity the next page comes up with an error message I couldn’t submit anything.. has this happened to anyone before is it a temporary glitch?

I’m confused this has never happened before, is this a new feature? I can’t see who viewed my page when go on the notification only option I have is to turn on the profile views, can anyone see I’ve seen their page?

So I was going through my chats and was reading messages from 4 years ago and now it’s on top of my latest chats but I haven’t sent anything to this person… it shows the current time I opened it even though message was from 4 years ago also will they be notified?

I was told that the profile photo I have at the time I block someone will still be visible to the blocked person, is this true or does it eventually disappear?

Anyone own a pair of 1906a should I buy TTS or size up? I’m 9.5 for most shoes eg Nike and adidas should I get the same size for these? I have slightly wide feet. I have a pair of 990v5 in size 9.5 but I was told the made in America ones run bigger, what size would you recommend?

My ex and I were together for over a year but the relationship had become extremely toxic. She would constantly give me the silent treatment, be verbally abusive and make passive-aggressive comments about my friends / family.
I knew it needed to end when I told her that my little sister occasionally gives me back massages after I come home from work or the gym. She told me how it was “creepy” and that nobody she knew would do something like that.

I was genuinely confused, so I asked her what was wrong with me getting a back massage from my sister. She said it was “super inappropriate” because we were both past “the age of puberty” and that my sister shouldn’t be doing that for me.
I was baffled. I hated the fact I had to even tell her this… but I explained how we’re both fully clothed and that she’s literally just standing or pressing on my back. For context, I’m 25 and my sister is 16.
What really disturbed me was the way she framed something I saw as completely innocent. It made me feel like she was sexualizing something that I had never viewed sexually in any way, and I knew I couldn’t look at her the same afterwards.

We were actually away together at an Airbnb when this happened. She noticed I had become distant and came over and sat on my lap, asking what was wrong. When I confronted her about what she had said, she became extremely defensive.
I told her that she had portrayed me like some kind of creep and had introduced a sexual implication into something completely innocent. She vehemently denied it. I told her when you use words like “inappropriate” “creepy” and specifically bring up puberty, what exactly do you expect me to assume?”
She then started crying denied ever saying it like that and completely changed the subject to an argument we’d had four months earlier.

At that point, I was done. After everything else that had happened in the relationship, this was the final straw for me. It wasn’t simply that she found the interaction unusual, it was the way she framed it, and then denied the implications of the words she had used when I confronted her about it. I initiated the break up once we came home and she did not react well to it blocked me on everything and told me to never contact her and if I do she’ll contact the police ( like wtf?!!) anyways it’s been close to a year since we broke up and she been trying to contact me for the last 2-3 months by email / text / calls I’ve ignored every single attempt

Was I wrong for feeling that way?

About a year ago my ex and I ended things and it ended very badly. I was the one who initiated the breakup because of her behaviour during the relationship. There were constant silent treatments, verbal abuse & making weird comments about my family, I felt like I was walking on eggshells all the time. I still loved her but I knew ending it was the right decision because it was affecting my mental health. She didn’t take it well. She said some awful things, blocked me and when I tried reaching out to apologise and make peace, she threatened to involve the police, so I respected that and never contacted her again.

About six months ago, she called me like 5 times at 2 in the morning, then emailed and texted asking if we could talk. I ignored every attempt. She later sent another message saying that if I didn’t reply, she’d take the hint and “leave it” A few weeks ago on my birthday, she sent me a long “closure” message. To me, it felt manipulative. She completely changed the narrative, claiming I was the toxic one and that she ended the relationship, even though I was the one who initiated the breakup. She said she forgave me, hoped I’d move on and find peace, and ended with “goodbye” and how she was “really counting on us” I thought that would finally be the end of it, but she’s since called me again.

I’ve genuinely moved on and don’t want to undo all the healing I’ve done by speaking to her. What I struggle with is that when I wanted closure a year ago, she threatened to call the police if I contacted her. Now, she’s the one repeatedly trying to reopen the door.

Around nine months ago I had Covid and ever since then I’ve been dealing with long covid it’s affected my health both physically and mentally. I’ve been under a lot of stress, developed health anxiety and also started experiencing ongoing gastrointestinal issues.

Around February I began having pain in my testicles. It wasn’t severe, but I also noticed my urine was cloudy and had a strong, unpleasant smell. I saw my GP, who prescribed a week’s course of antibiotics, and the pain went away. However since then I’ve noticed that my semen hasn’t been the same. Over the last few days I’ve also been dealing with upset stomach and the same testicular pain has returned. I’ve noticed my urine is cloudy again as well.
I’m wondering whether I’ve had a persistent or chronic UTI all this time that was never fully cleared, and whether that could explain these ongoing symptoms. Has anyone noticed a link between stress anxiety and getting UTIs?

I’ve been experiencing dull pain in my balls for the last few days. I woke up and realised I slept in a funny position and squashed my balls during sleep . The pain is intermittent and not that painful. I have checked I can’t feel any lumps, it feels like the pain is coming more from the veins/tubes than the actual testicles but I could be wrong. I spoke to my friend he told me if it was testicle torsion I would know as the pain is severe as he’d had it in the past.

This debt is from 2024 and I started getting emails from them end of last year that taken over this debt I owe roughly £400 and around June I got email saying they’re offering 40% reduction on this amount, around a week ago they sent me another email saying they’re offering a substantial discount offer but I have to contact them. I’m currently out of work due to illness this is why I’ve found myself in this position, I was told that if I respond I’m acknowledging it’s my debt… what should I do? And how much is a substantial amount?

This has never happened to me before but it was so funny. I’d already knocked the bounty out but he woke up after I got knocked off my horse. He was fully awake and on his feet so I couldn’t stow him, so I started punching to knock him out again. It just turned into a kicking contest because his hands were tied, has this happened to anyone else before? After 900 hrs of playing this is my first time lol

Whenever I do bounties in Rhodes I always go and pet that brown dog outside the sheriffs office but today some player sniped me and to make things worse after I respawned I found the dog dead as well. We play amongst some truly sadistic people, I couldn’t even avenge him because the asshole most likely fast travelled to different location

I’ve started experiencing this pain in the last few days it’s like a throbbing deep pain but I’m not sure if it’s nerve pain something I’ve been dealing with since suffering from long Covid. It’s in my thigh and leg area and its intermittent happens during the evening. For the last 8 months I’ve had paresthesia in random parts of my body so I’m wondering if it’s linked to that? My bones don’t actually hurt or anything but the pain feels like it’s deep if that makes sense

So I’m in the UK and I was infected back in June last year and after 2 weeks I went back to work after testing negative but it was a huge mistake, it made all my symptoms worse. 12 months on I’m still dealing with it eg body pain, muscle pain, paresthesia, extreme fatigue, brain fog as well just feeling depressed 24/7. I’ve applied for benefits 2 weeks ago and I have a call tomorrow to discuss my situation. I’m just scared how I’ll be treated I have proof of all the doc appointments and sick notes but ultimately they’ve not been helpful to get me treated all my blood tests come back normal so nothing ever happens. Anyone else in a similar spot?

I’ve been struggling with LC for a year now I literally got infected back in June had a pretty severe case I went on sick leave for two weeks once I tested negative I came back to work which was a huge mistake made things 100 times worse so yeah haven’t worked since then. I’ve applied for benefits for the first time in my life and I feel embarrassed like will they think I’m lying or won’t believe me, has anyone else struggled with same thing?

So I’m level 32 online I’ve only been playing for a month so I’m fairly new. This player online started attacking me out of nowhere as soon as I arrived in blackwater and he did it a few times. First thing I noticed was he took no damage whatsoever like I used a bolt action rifle close up he still had full bar same with cut off shot gun he took no impact. Then eventually when I realised I couldn’t defeat him I then managed to lasso him and I tied him up and used the cut off shotgun to finish him he didn’t die and instead got out of the knot and killed me… also one other thing I noticed was my gun kept jamming as he was shooting me I couldn’t even attack back.

Bought something from Vinted on the app it shows the full tracking journey and says it’s been delivered on Saturday. I went post office today and I gave them my name and they said they have no evri parcel under that name. Not sure what to do i contacted seller he told me he didn’t put down any name as it’s an auto label provided by Vinted that they scan at parcel shop. I’ve checked my details on Vinted and I’ve provided my full legal name which matches my ID. I tried tracking parcel via evri but it doesn’t recognise the tracking number even though Vinted shows the full tracking details… anyone else had to deal with this before? I tried contacting evri but I can’t connect with a human being

I’m so baffled my parcel says it arrived on Saturday so I decided to go and collect it today it says it’s been delivered on the Vinted app. I didn’t receive an email or text message to confirm but what I found odd was the exact tracking number provided on Vinted which shows the full journey of my parcel isn’t recognised on the Evri website. I went today to the post office and gave my name and they said there’s no parcel under that name I showed them the Vinted app which confirms it’s been delivered to their post office. I checked my account details and my full name is provided so whatever the label Vinted gave the seller surely would have my full name? Or is it my username?

I’m kinda new to playing online and I’ve recently got the bounty hunter license but whenever there’s a job with two targets I struggle to bring both alive. I’ll tie up both of them, either one of them escapes or dies because I was busy chasing the other target. I even stole a horse and had one of them on that horse whilst my main horse follows me but they escape. I’ve been able to bring both targets dead by dragging one with the lasso but I’d prefer to bring both alive for the full payment. I’m sure there’s a better way?