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Exposing the Deep Hypocrisy of Indians – Why We Ourselves Are Responsible for Corruption & Poor Services (A Long but Honest Post from Someone Who Has Seen It All)

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Read this post fully if you have the patience. It's going to be long, but I promise it's worth it. I'm going to expose the hypocrisy and double standards of us Indians, especially how we act like slaves to the government and then wonder why we get shit service. The government is capable of giving good services, but we the people force corruption and influence-peddling. We don't deserve better until we fix our own mentality.

Yesterday I made a post (while hiding my identity). Actually, that post was on behalf of my friend, but I pretended that I was the one in that situation. My friend had booked 9 tickets on a busy train just one day before travel. Not a single one got confirmed – all in waiting. My friend was quite emotional and said, "Bhai, in this country nothing works without power or influence."

I wanted to test the mentality of average Indians, so I shared that post.

The reactions left me shocked. Instead of criticizing the government or the system, most people started defending it – "This always happens", "You shouldn't book waiting list tickets", "Government can't do miracles", etc. Some people even suggested, "Why don't you book Tatkal?"

Bro, you don't even know how the Tatkal system actually works. I know the Tatkal system from the inside. With my parents having more than 30 years of service in 35 years, I've seen everything. Railway made some reforms and to some extent it reduced the problem, but even now it's rigged. Software like Red Mirchi was banned, but new software has taken its place. On any busy business route, by the time you fill in the details and the passenger makes the payment, the agent sitting there — who is running a multi-crore nexus — will book it instantly in one second. Tatkal opens within a second by using illegal software. No matter how much the railway claims, everyone is involved. All the officers know it. Everyone gets their share of the money. Even the IT department of the railway, CRIS, and the RPF IT team knows it, but no one does anything.

If you think I'm lying, try this challenge: No matter how much you call or try, if I give you 10,000 rupees, book one confirmed ticket on any busy route right now without taking help from any agent. You can't.

Rather than supporting the common man's problem, people started blaming the victim. This clearly showed me how hypocritical we Indians are. Our eyes are blindfolded.

Proof of how the system actually works for people with influence (see attached screenshots):

I'm attaching screenshots showing how on the busiest routes and busiest trains, even 8 hours before chart preparation, our tickets get confirmed with just one phone call. You can clearly see the waiting list turning into confirmed/RAC easily.

In a democracy, nothing improves until citizens criticize the government, question bad policies, and fight for their rights. But here? People treat the government like a god. Whether it's Congress in the past or BJP now – the attitude is the same. We happily accept the loot.

Let me give you the background and reality:

Both my parents are senior government officers in Indian Railways – Gazetted officers at HAG+ level (Higher Administrative Grade). Very senior management. I have seen the system from the inside for years.

The friend whose ticket issue I posted about? I got his ticket confirmed on one of the busiest routes, on a fully packed train, just by making one phone call to my father's secretary. It got confirmed before chart preparation. He didn't even tell me initially because I was in Germany and he didn't want to disturb me.

I have this "power." Even now, on the busiest routes where normal people don't get tickets even a week in advance, I just call my dad's secretary and my waiting list (even 100-200) gets confirmed via HO quota (the VIP/officer quota that is reserved in every train – AC1, AC2, etc., for MPs, officers, and their relatives). I use it for my friends and family all the time. Common man's seat? Snatched for personal benefit.

And it's not just railways — this happens everywhere in the system.

More inside stories:

When my family travels, one phone call and the train gets priority. The Divisional Operations Manager gets a call that a "senior dignitary" is on board. The train runs on time. RPF provides extra security. At stations, junior staff and officers come to receive us.

Officers get saloon coaches – basically a 5-star hotel on wheels meant for official inspections. But many families (including ours) use them for personal trips, birthdays, vacations, with personal cooks and servants. While the common man fights for a seat.

In the past (around 2010-2015), my father managed SCRA (Special Class Railway Apprentice) seats for my sister and me through influence in the UPSC process. I even joined for a year in Jamalpur but dropped out.

Even when we visit any relative's house or railway government facility, the difference is shocking. Group B, Group C, and Group D employees have to stand in long lines, salute, and wait for 4-5 hours to see a doctor. But when powerful people like my parents or I visit, we don't even need an appointment. We go straight to the VIP section. We have taken our entire class or group with us and got full appointments in railway hospitals without any hassle. Lower employees and lower officers can never do this.

My family has accumulated massive wealth – way more than what I can earn in 10 lifetimes in Germany with my good salary and peaceful life. Tenders, contracts, all that – you know how it works.

Yet when I see common people struggling, standing in queues, getting waitlisted, I feel bad. But the bigger tragedy is that you people don't even want to change it. You attack anyone who points out government failures. You have BJP blindfolds (or Congress ones earlier). You happily accept this slave mentality.

The common man himself is enabling the system that exploits him. The inequality is everywhere, and the common man's voice is simply not heard. Until we stop defending the powerful and start demanding better services as our right, nothing will change. Government can deliver – but only if we force it through criticism and accountability.

This is the harsh truth from someone who benefits from the system but is tired of seeing the hypocrisy all around.

What do you think? Am I wrong? Or are we all just comfortable in our chains?

TL;DR: Indians defend a broken system instead of fighting for better services. Those with power exploit it daily (VIP quotas, Tatkal agent nexus, saloons, influence, and special treatment everywhere), while the common man suffers. We ourselves are responsible for this corruption and hypocrisy.

u/More_Rain_3628 — 13 hours ago

Booked 9 Tickets Across 3 Trains for ONE Person — Not a Single One Confirmed. Welcome to the Life of a Common Indian

The irony of this country is honestly unbelievable.

Not getting a government job? Fine. I understand. Vacancies are limited and competition is insane.

Not getting into a government college? Fine. Seats are limited there too.

At some point, an ordinary person in this country simply accepts that without connections, influence, jugaad, or recommendations, you are going to struggle for almost everything.

But today, Indian Railways showed me a whole new level of absurdity.

I had to travel urgently from Gorakhpur to Delhi. Just ONE passenger. One person.

I thought, okay, if I don't get a confirmed ticket on one train, surely I'll get it on another.

So I booked multiple classes on Vaishali Express — AC First, AC 2 Tier, AC 3 Tier, even premium options.

I did the same with Gorakhdham Express — AC 1, AC 2, AC 3.

Then I tried Bihar Sampark Kranti — again AC 1, AC 2, AC 3.

Three different trains. Around NINE tickets. For ONE FUCKING PERSON.

And guess what?

NOT A SINGLE TICKET GOT CONFIRMED. NOT ONE.

Just think about the absurdity of this.

A citizen of this country needs to travel urgently from his own city to the national capital, and he has to book tickets across three different trains and multiple AC classes, basically gambling thousands of rupees in the hope that ONE berth might get confirmed.

And even after all that?

Nothing.

This isn't just about a railway ticket anymore.

This is the story of the ordinary Indian everywhere.

Stand in line for a job.

Stand in line for a college seat.

Stand in line at a hospital.

Stand in line at a government office.

And now apparently, stand in a virtual waiting list just to travel inside your own fucking country.

But I can't help wondering—would the same thing happen if an MP, MLA, senior bureaucrat, or some influential VIP urgently needed to travel?

Would they book nine tickets and stare at a waiting list?

Or would one phone call, one recommendation, one quota request magically produce a confirmed berth—even an hour before departure?

Without a source, without sifarish, without connections, where exactly is the ordinary citizen of this country supposed to go?

We talk about becoming a Vishwaguru. We talk about a trillion-dollar economy. We celebrate development, infrastructure and progress in speeches and advertisements.

Meanwhile, an ordinary citizen cannot get ONE confirmed railway berth after trying three trains and almost every AC class available.

If a person has to gamble on nine tickets just to get one seat to travel urgently, then something is fundamentally wrong with the system.

Today, I'm less angry about not getting a ticket.

I'm more angry because I've realised that the status of an ordinary Indian in this country is basically one permanent WAITING LIST.

Waiting for a job.

Waiting for an opportunity.

Waiting for basic services.

Waiting for someone in the system to give a damn.

WL. RAC. Better luck next time.

Maybe that's the real status of the common man in this country.

Absolutely pathetic. Absolutely shameful.

u/More_Rain_3628 — 1 day ago

Best spa parlour in Gorakhpur?

Tell me the best spa parlour in Gorakhpur with a beautiful therapist

Please don't judge me as I'm asking for a friend

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u/More_Rain_3628 — 4 days ago

Noor Chahal's Rise: Small-Town Girl from Punjab to International Stages – Is There More Growth Left or Has She Hit a Plateau? Honest Opinions Wanted

Hey everyone, I wanted to start an open discussion about Noor Chahal.

She's a girl from Mohali, Punjab who started during the lockdown by posting acoustic covers of Bollywood and Punjabi songs on Instagram and YouTube. From there, she's blown up – international concerts in Canada, London, America, Dubai, Singapore, PTC Music Rising Star award, original tracks like Jhalleya Dila, collab with The PropheC on Malang, acting + singing in Bajre Da Sitta, and solid fan following + wealth accumulation. It's a crazy inspiring journey for a small-town girl.

So tell me, guys:

Do you think her growth is still there or has she hit a plateau? What's her future looking like?

As a small creator myself, I am a little bit jealous also 😂 But honestly, she totally deserves the success. Hard work, perfect timing, and audience connection paid off.

Her cuteness, beauty, and charming personality have definitely played a big role in the massive attention and quick fame she got. The visual appeal helped a lot. Her voice is good and melodious, creates emotional connect – indeed she sings really well. But personally, I find her voice is average, not that top-tier powerhouse level. She's professional, but I feel there's sometimes a little lack in sur-tal and overall singing precision.

What do you all think?

Does she have more growth ahead?

Can she successfully shift into cinema, movies (Pollywood/Bollywood), web series etc.? She has already shown acting potential.

Long-term, how big of an artist do you see her becoming?

Drop your honest opinions – positive or critical, no hate please. Just a real discussion. What’s your take?

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u/More_Rain_3628 — 6 days ago

Noor Chahal's Rise: Small-Town Girl from Punjab to International Stages – Is There More Growth Left or Has She Hit a Plateau? Honest Opinions Wanted

Hey everyone, I wanted to start an open discussion about Noor Chahal.

She's a girl from Mohali, Punjab who started during the lockdown by posting acoustic covers of Bollywood and Punjabi songs on Instagram and YouTube. From there, she's blown up – international concerts in Canada, London, America, Dubai, Singapore, PTC Music Rising Star award, original tracks like Jhalleya Dila, collab with The PropheC on Malang, acting + singing in Bajre Da Sitta, and solid fan following + wealth accumulation. It's a crazy inspiring journey for a small-town girl.

So tell me, guys:

Do you think her growth is still there or has she hit a plateau? What's her future looking like?

As a small creator myself, I am a little bit jealous also 😂 But honestly, she totally deserves the success. Hard work, perfect timing, and audience connection paid off.

Her cuteness, beauty, and charming personality have definitely played a big role in the massive attention and quick fame she got. The visual appeal helped a lot. Her voice is good and melodious, creates emotional connect – indeed she sings really well. But personally, I find her voice is average, not that top-tier powerhouse level. She's professional, but I feel there's sometimes a little lack in sur-tal and overall singing precision.

What do you all think?

Does she have more growth ahead?

Can she successfully shift into cinema, movies (Pollywood/Bollywood), web series etc.? She has already shown acting potential.

Long-term, how big of an artist do you see her becoming?

Drop your honest opinions – positive or critical, no hate please. Just a real discussion. What’s your take?

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u/More_Rain_3628 — 6 days ago

Noor Chahal's Rise: Small-Town Girl from Punjab to International Stages – Is There More Growth Left or Has She Hit a Plateau? Honest Opinions Wanted

Hey everyone, I wanted to start an open discussion about Noor Chahal.

She's a girl from Mohali, Punjab who started during the lockdown by posting acoustic covers of Bollywood and Punjabi songs on Instagram and YouTube. From there, she's blown up – international concerts in Canada, London, America, Dubai, Singapore, PTC Music Rising Star award, original tracks like Jhalleya Dila, collab with The PropheC on Malang, acting + singing in Bajre Da Sitta, and solid fan following + wealth accumulation. It's a crazy inspiring journey for a small-town girl.

So tell me, guys:

Do you think her growth is still there or has she hit a plateau? What's her future looking like?

As a small creator myself, I am a little bit jealous also 😂 But honestly, she totally deserves the success. Hard work, perfect timing, and audience connection paid off.

Her cuteness, beauty, and charming personality have definitely played a big role in the massive attention and quick fame she got. The visual appeal helped a lot. Her voice is good and melodious, creates emotional connect – indeed she sings really well. But personally, I find her voice is average, not that top-tier powerhouse level. She's professional, but I feel there's sometimes a little lack in sur-tal and overall singing precision.

What do you all think?

Does she have more growth ahead?

Can she successfully shift into cinema, movies (Pollywood/Bollywood), web series etc.? She has already shown acting potential.

Long-term, how big of an artist do you see her becoming?

Drop your honest opinions – positive or critical, no hate please. Just a real discussion. What’s your take?

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u/More_Rain_3628 — 6 days ago

Anyone else 26+ with no job and still dependent on family?

Hey everyone,

Please don't assume I'm a failure. You're free to judge me if you want, but that's not why I'm posting.

I'm 26, currently unemployed, have no income yet, and I'm still financially dependent on my family. I'm working towards building a career and hoping that one day things will finally work out.

I just wanted to know...

Is anyone else here in a similar situation?

If yes, how do you deal with the uncertainty, self-doubt, and the feeling of being behind in life? What keeps you going every day?

I'm not looking for sympathy—just wondering if I'm the only one, or if there are others walking a similar path.

Thanks.

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u/More_Rain_3628 — 6 days ago
▲ 90 r/mumbai

An Open Letter to r/mumbai – Thank You for Restoring My Faith in Humanity

Hi r/mumbai,

Today I just wanted to say one thing...

Thank you.

I don't live in Mumbai.

I've never visited Mumbai.

I have no relatives there, no job there, no college there, and honestly, I don't even know if I'll ever get the opportunity to visit your beautiful city.

Yet somehow...

This subreddit has become one of the few places on the internet where I genuinely feel heard.

I'm active in many Indian subreddits, especially those related to Uttar Pradesh, Delhi, and a few others. Like many people, I've shared my struggles—my loneliness, career problems, family issues, health concerns, and sometimes even the emotional battles I fight every single day.

Sadly, my experience in many communities hasn't always been positive.

Sometimes people laughed at me.

Sometimes they replied with sarcasm.

Sometimes they abused me.

Sometimes they judged me without knowing anything about my life.

And in several subreddits, I couldn't even share what I was going through because of karma restrictions or posting rules.

When someone is already emotionally exhausted, even getting your post removed can make you feel like you don't belong anywhere.

But then I found r/mumbai.

Everything felt different here.

People didn't just reply...

They actually cared.

Some gave practical advice.

Some encouraged me.

Some simply told me not to lose hope.

Many of you took your own personal time just to help a complete stranger you'll probably never meet.

When I posted about my health, several people even reached out through personal messages to ask how I was doing, suggest doctors, share their own experiences, and genuinely make sure I was okay.

I honestly wasn't expecting that.

As someone who has no close friends, who has spent years feeling lonely, and who often has no one to share his thoughts with...

Receiving messages from complete strangers asking,

"Are you okay?"

"How are you feeling now?"

Those simple words meant far more than you can imagine.

Sometimes they made my entire day.

Sometimes they gave me hope.

Sometimes they reminded me that kindness still exists.

And I also want to sincerely appreciate the moderators of r/mumbai.

Managing a community of this size is never easy.

Yet despite all the rules that every subreddit needs, I always felt that my genuine posts were given a chance. Instead of making me feel unwelcome, I felt supported.

Thank you to the moderation team for creating a community where people can actually feel safe enough to share what they're going through.

A community isn't defined only by its rules.

It's defined by the people who make others feel welcome.

And you all have done exactly that.

Mumbai is called the "City of Dreams."

After spending time here, I think it's also a city of incredibly kind hearts.

I may never be able to repay the kindness I've received here.

Right now, I don't have the money, influence, or status to give anything back to this community.

But I wanted to give something that I can give...

My heartfelt gratitude.

Today I found myself getting emotional while reading so many thoughtful comments and messages from people here.

You may not remember helping me.

But I'll remember your kindness for a very long time.

Thank you to every member.

Thank you to everyone who commented.

Thank you to everyone who sent me a message.

And thank you to the moderators for making this community what it is.

From one grateful stranger...

Thank you, r/mumbai.

Much love and respect

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u/More_Rain_3628 — 6 days ago
▲ 10 r/punjabi

A promise I made to my Sikh grandmother… that I still haven't been able to fulfill.

Hey everyone,

Today my heart feels heavy yet full, and I wanted to share a story that’s deeply personal, emotional, and inspirational for me.

My Grandfather was a railway officer. Back when India was not yet independent, at just 24 years old, he got posted to Jalandhar. There, he fell deeply in love with a Sikh girl from Ludhiana. My Dada was Muslim, my Dadi came from a traditional Sikh family. Both families were strongly against the marriage. There was huge opposition, pressure, and pain. But their love and courage won in the end. Somehow, they got married.

Fast forward to my childhood — some of my most precious memories are still fresh. Whenever I was with Dadi, she would lovingly teach me the beautiful teachings of Guru Nanak Dev Ji and Sikhism — Oneness, Seva (selfless service), truth, humanity, and strength in the face of adversity. In a small town in Uttar Pradesh where the Sikh population was almost zero, she would make fresh lassi and warm pinni laddoos with her own hands for me. That taste, that love, and those values still live in me.

Her teachings didn’t just make me a better person — they completely changed the way I see the world. I’m proud to say that the values Dadi gave me shaped my character and my perspective on life.

It’s been more than 30 years since Dadi left us, but her words and love still guide me every single day.

As a child, I once promised my Dada that when I grow up and earn my own money, I would build a Gurudwara in Dadi’s memory. Our family is still Muslim, and there is already a Gurudwara in our city, but that childhood promise still lives strongly in my heart. I haven’t been able to fulfill it yet. Sometimes I wish I had the resources or could become successful enough to turn that promise into reality — a beautiful Gurudwara built with love, in her honor.

Dadi, your teachings made me who I am.

Thank you for the love, the values, and the strength.

If you’ve ever had a grandparent whose love and wisdom shaped your life across religious or cultural lines, please share your story in the comments. Would love to read them.

Jai Guru Nanak

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u/More_Rain_3628 — 6 days ago
▲ 3 r/Sikh

A promise I made to my Sikh grandmother… that I still haven't been able to fulfill.

Hey everyone,

Today my heart feels heavy yet full, and I wanted to share a story that’s deeply personal, emotional, and inspirational for me.

My Grandfather was a railway officer. Back when India was not yet independent, at just 24 years old, he got posted to Jalandhar. There, he fell deeply in love with a Sikh girl from Ludhiana. My Dada was Muslim, my Dadi came from a traditional Sikh family. Both families were strongly against the marriage. There was huge opposition, pressure, and pain. But their love and courage won in the end. Somehow, they got married.

Fast forward to my childhood — some of my most precious memories are still fresh. Whenever I was with Dadi, she would lovingly teach me the beautiful teachings of Guru Nanak Dev Ji and Sikhism — Oneness, Seva (selfless service), truth, humanity, and strength in the face of adversity. In a small town in Uttar Pradesh where the Sikh population was almost zero, she would make fresh lassi and warm pinni laddoos with her own hands for me. That taste, that love, and those values still live in me.

Her teachings didn’t just make me a better person — they completely changed the way I see the world. I’m proud to say that the values Dadi gave me shaped my character and my perspective on life.

It’s been more than 30 years since Dadi left us, but her words and love still guide me every single day.

As a child, I once promised my Dada that when I grow up and earn my own money, I would build a Gurudwara in Dadi’s memory. Our family is still Muslim, and there is already a Gurudwara in our city, but that childhood promise still lives strongly in my heart. I haven’t been able to fulfill it yet. Sometimes I wish I had the resources or could become successful enough to turn that promise into reality — a beautiful Gurudwara built with love, in her honor.

Dadi, your teachings made me who I am.

Thank you for the love, the values, and the strength.

If you’ve ever had a grandparent whose love and wisdom shaped your life across religious or cultural lines, please share your story in the comments. Would love to read them.

Jai Guru Nanak

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u/More_Rain_3628 — 6 days ago

Allah, Forgive Me – I Have No Other Way Left

A Heavy Heart and a Difficult Choice

Assalamualaikum to my close ones, or perhaps just a silent cry into the void...

We are an Indian Muslim family — me, my parents, and my three sisters. Born and raised in this faith, with the Quran in our home and the love of Allah in our hearts. But today, I am forced to write something that is breaking me from inside.

My father's business has completely collapsed. He took loans to keep it running, and now we are drowning in debt — around $105,000–106,000 USD. The lenders and creditors are harassing us day and night. Our house is at risk of being seized, and there is even the fear of jail. We have tried everything, but nothing is working. The situation has gone from bad to worse.

In this darkness, some people from Hindu organizations and individuals have approached us. They are offering financial help, support to clear our debts, jobs, and stability — but only on one condition: that our entire family converts to Hinduism. They also want my sister to marry into a Hindu family.

I am not writing this with any hatred or anger. I am writing with extreme pain and helplessness.

We never wanted this. Our hearts still belong to Islam. We grew up with its teachings, its values, and its peace. Leaving it feels like tearing apart our identity. But when your family is starving, when there is a real threat of losing everything — even your freedom — what choice does a person have?

We are doing this only out of extreme compulsion and helplessness. Not by choice. Not from the heart. If Allah gives us a way in the future, we hope to return to our faith with dignity. But right now, I feel completely broken. I may have to leave my imaan on the surface, and I may have to let my sisters go into a different life.

This is not what I wanted. This is not what any of us wanted. But when there is no other door open, a person is forced to walk on the path that appears, even if his heart is crying with every step.

I don’t know who will read this or understand it. I just needed to pour my heart out. May Allah forgive us for our weaknesses and ease our sufferings. Ameen. Taken help of AI to write as I'm not that much educated and my writing skill is very bad ...just to convey my inner pain and feeling

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u/More_Rain_3628 — 6 days ago

Allah, Forgive Me – I Have No Other Way Left

Assalamualaikum to my close ones, or perhaps just a silent cry into the void...

We are an Indian Muslim family — me, my parents, and my three sisters. Born and raised in this faith, with the Quran in our home and the love of Allah in our hearts. But today, I am forced to write something that is breaking me from inside.

My father's business has completely collapsed. He took loans to keep it running, and now we are drowning in debt — around $105,000–106,000 USD. The lenders and creditors are harassing us day and night. Our house is at risk of being seized, and there is even the fear of jail. We have tried everything, but nothing is working. The situation has gone from bad to worse.

In this darkness, some people from Hindu organizations and individuals have approached us. They are offering financial help, support to clear our debts, jobs, and stability — but only on one condition: that our entire family converts to Hinduism. They also want my sister to marry into a Hindu family.

I am not writing this with any hatred or anger. I am writing with extreme pain and helplessness.

We never wanted this. Our hearts still belong to Islam. We grew up with its teachings, its values, and its peace. Leaving it feels like tearing apart our identity. But when your family is starving, when there is a real threat of losing everything — even your freedom — what choice does a person have?

We are doing this only out of extreme compulsion and helplessness. Not by choice. Not from the heart. If Allah gives us a way in the future, we hope to return to our faith with dignity. But right now, I feel completely broken. I may have to leave my imaan on the surface, and I may have to let my sisters go into a different life.

This is not what I wanted. This is not what any of us wanted. But when there is no other door open, a person is forced to walk on the path that appears, even if his heart is crying with every step.

I don’t know who will read this or understand it. I just needed to pour my heart out. May Allah forgive us for our weaknesses and ease our sufferings. Ameen.

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u/More_Rain_3628 — 6 days ago

Is there any legitimate way for a civilian to experience an Army/Air Force/CRPF/NDRF mess just once?

I know this is probably a weird and unrealistic question. I also know these messes are meant for serving personnel and aren't open to civilians, so I'm not asking for any loophole or rule-breaking method.

Ever since I was a kid, I've been strangely fascinated by military messes. Whether it's the Army, Air Force, CRPF, or NDRF, I've spent hours watching videos and photos of the food served there. It's not just about the food—it's the discipline, the atmosphere, the tradition, and the whole experience that fascinates me.

I have no military background, and I'm just an ordinary civilian. But I've always had this one small wish: to experience having a meal in one of these messes just once in my life.

So I'm curious—has there ever been any legitimate occasion where civilians are allowed? For example, open days, public events, official invitations by serving personnel, veterans' events, or any other authorized program.

Again, I'm not looking for any illegal or unethical way to get access. I completely respect the rules. I'm just wondering if there's ever a genuine opportunity to experience it once.

Would love to hear from serving personnel, veterans, or anyone who's familiar with how these things work. Thanks!

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u/More_Rain_3628 — 8 days ago
▲ 32 r/punjabi

Muslim thinking of converting to Sikhism. I need honest advice from Sikh brothers.

Sat Sri Akal everyone.

I am a 27-year-old Muslim from India.

I want to be completely honest because I don't want to mislead anyone.

I genuinely admire Sikhism. The values of equality, seva, courage, discipline, and the history of the Sikh community have given me a lot of respect for this faith.

However, I also have another reason. I have been struggling with severe male pattern baldness for years, and it has badly affected my confidence and mental health. One part of me feels that wearing a turban would help me hide my baldness and feel more confident.

So my feelings are mixed. I genuinely feel attracted to Sikhism, but I also can't deny that hiding my baldness is one of my major motivations.

I know conversion is a lifelong commitment, and I don't want to disrespect Sikhism by making the wrong decision.

So I want to ask Sikh brothers and sisters:

Is it wrong if baldness is one of my motivations?

How would you honestly view someone like me?

What should I do before making such a big decision?

Should I spend more time learning about Sikhism first?

Please be completely honest, even if your answer is critical. I would rather hear the truth than false encouragement.

Thank you. Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.

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u/More_Rain_3628 — 8 days ago

Desperately looking for a Work From Home customer support job (₹20k–30k/month). Please help.

Hi everyone,

I'm 26 years old from a tier-3 city in Uttar Pradesh, and I'm in a very difficult phase of my life.

I completed my B.Sc. in 2022, but soon after graduation my family went through a serious financial crisis. Because of that, I couldn't continue with my plans or build my career the way I had hoped. Since then, I've been trying to get back on my feet, but things just haven't worked out.

Right now, I urgently need a job. Even a genuine Work From Home customer support job paying around ₹20,000–30,000 per month would make a huge difference for my family and me.

I've been applying on LinkedIn, Naukri and other job portals, but either I don't get any response or I come across fake listings. It's becoming mentally exhausting.

If anyone here knows:

Companies that are genuinely hiring for remote customer support,

A referral,

Or any trusted place where I should apply,

I would be extremely grateful.

I'm willing to work hard, learn quickly, and start immediately. I'm not looking for sympathy—just an honest opportunity to earn and support my family.

Thank you for reading, and thank you in advance to anyone who can point me in the right direction. It would genuinely mean a lot to me.

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u/More_Rain_3628 — 9 days ago

Is there any legitimate way for a civilian to experience an Army/Air Force/CRPF/NDRF mess just once?

I know this is probably a weird and unrealistic question. I also know these messes are meant for serving personnel and aren't open to civilians, so I'm not asking for any loophole or rule-breaking method.

Ever since I was a kid, I've been strangely fascinated by military messes. Whether it's the Army, Air Force, CRPF, or NDRF, I've spent hours watching videos and photos of the food served there. It's not just about the food—it's the discipline, the atmosphere, the tradition, and the whole experience that fascinates me.

I have no military background, and I'm just an ordinary civilian. But I've always had this one small wish: to experience having a meal in one of these messes just once in my life.

So I'm curious—has there ever been any legitimate occasion where civilians are allowed? For example, open days, public events, official invitations by serving personnel, veterans' events, or any other authorized program.

Again, I'm not looking for any illegal or unethical way to get access. I completely respect the rules. I'm just wondering if there's ever a genuine opportunity to experience it once.

Would love to hear from serving personnel, veterans, or anyone who's familiar with how these things work. Thanks!

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u/More_Rain_3628 — 9 days ago

Is there any legitimate way for a civilian to experience an Army/Air Force/CRPF/NDRF mess just once?

I know this is probably a weird and unrealistic question. I also know these messes are meant for serving personnel and aren't open to civilians, so I'm not asking for any loophole or rule-breaking method.

Ever since I was a kid, I've been strangely fascinated by military messes. Whether it's the Army, Air Force, CRPF, or NDRF, I've spent hours watching videos and photos of the food served there. It's not just about the food—it's the discipline, the atmosphere, the tradition, and the whole experience that fascinates me.

I have no military background, and I'm just an ordinary civilian. But I've always had this one small wish: to experience having a meal in one of these messes just once in my life.

So I'm curious—has there ever been any legitimate occasion where civilians are allowed? For example, open days, public events, official invitations by serving personnel, veterans' events, or any other authorized program.

Again, I'm not looking for any illegal or unethical way to get access. I completely respect the rules. I'm just wondering if there's ever a genuine opportunity to experience it once.

Would love to hear from serving personnel, veterans, or anyone who's familiar with how these things work. Thanks!

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u/More_Rain_3628 — 9 days ago

I don't want a bodybuilder physique. I want a lean, athletic, police/NDA-style body. How should I train?

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Hi everyone,

I'm a 26-year-old from a tier-3 city in Uttar Pradesh, currently weighing 94 kg. I've been overweight since childhood and have always had a soft, chubby body type.

I recently joined a gym but quit in less than a month. I was quite weak, and everyone around me was already very muscular, so I honestly felt out of place.

This made me realize something about my fitness goals.

Most gym-goers I see have very bulky physiques. I respect that because it's their goal, but it's not what I'm aiming for. To me, many of them also seem to have less mobility and look "gym strong" rather than athletic.

On the other hand, whenever I see Army officers, NDA cadets, or police officers, they usually have a completely different physique—lean, muscular, athletic, functional, with great stamina and endurance. They look energetic, move well, and overall appear much fitter. That's exactly the kind of body I want. I also feel many of them have a healthier overall appearance.

I don't want to become a bodybuilder. My goal is to:

- Lose fat.

- Build a lean, athletic physique.

- Improve stamina and endurance.

- Increase functional strength and mobility.

- Become genuinely fit rather than just muscular.

Unfortunately, I don't have the budget for an expensive personal trainer.

So I wanted to ask:

- Should I train in a regular gym or would ground-based training be better for my goals?

- What kind of workout routine should I follow to build a police/NDA-style physique?

- Should I focus more on running, sprinting, calisthenics, push-ups, pull-ups, bodyweight exercises, and conditioning instead of bodybuilding-style workouts?

- Has anyone here made a similar transformation from being overweight to a lean, athletic body?

- If you had a limited budget, how would you approach this?

I'd really appreciate practical advice from people with experience in functional fitness, police/armed forces preparation, or anyone who has achieved this type of physique.

Thanks in advance!

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u/More_Rain_3628 — 10 days ago

Looking for a police-style fitness coach or ground training in Gorakhpur

Hi everyone,

I'm a 26-year-old from Gorakhpur, currently weighing 94 kg. I've been overweight since childhood and have always had a soft, chubby body type.

I recently joined a gym, but I quit within a month. I felt very weak, and almost everyone there was already huge and muscular, which honestly made me feel a bit out of place.

One thing I've noticed is that many people in gyms have a very bulky physique. That's great if it's their goal, but it's not what I'm looking for.

Whenever I see police personnel or army personnel in Gorakhpur, they usually have a different kind of physique—lean, athletic, active, strong, and functional. That's exactly the kind of body I want. I don't want to become a bodybuilder. My goal is to lose fat, improve my stamina, strength, mobility, and build a lean, fit body like police or army personnel.

So I wanted to ask:

Is there any ground or academy in Gorakhpur where police aspirants train together?

Are there any coaches who provide police/army-style functional fitness training?

Would it be better for me to train on a ground instead of a regular gym?

If anyone has transformed from being overweight to a lean, athletic physique, I'd really appreciate your advice.

Any recommendations for coaches, grounds, or training groups in Gorakhpur would be really helpful.

Thank you!

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u/More_Rain_3628 — 10 days ago

Looking for a daily bike rider/driver for gym commute in Gorakhpur

Hi everyone,

I live in Gorakhpur, near padri bazar area. My gym is around 6 km from my home. The problem is that traffic has become extremely heavy these days, especially in the evening. I usually go to the gym between 6 PM and 7 PM, work out for about an hour, and then return home.

When I take my car, I often get stuck in traffic for a long time, which makes the whole trip very time-consuming. Unfortunately, I don't know how to ride a bike myself.

So I wanted to ask if there is anyone who could help with a daily commute arrangement. I would need someone to:

Pick me up from home in the evening.

Drop me at the gym.

Come back after about an hour.

Pick me up from the gym and drop me back home.

If anyone is interested or knows someone who provides this kind of service, please let me know. Also, what would be a reasonable monthly or per-trip charge for this?

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u/More_Rain_3628 — 11 days ago