u/Odd-Aside456

Where can a man with an abnormally long torso get shirts that don't become too short after a few washes?

I'm 6'1". I've got a really long torso. I measured today and from my pant line to the top of my shoulder is about 28 1/2".

Most my shirts become too short after a handful of washes.

I'm in the US. In northern Utah, specifically. Where can I shop, either in person or online, to buy shirts that fit great, feel great, and just importantly... won't shrink lengthwise, or are a little extra long.

I love a classy look, but I also enjoy a nice t-shirt.

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u/Odd-Aside456 — 13 hours ago

Where can a man with an abnormally long torso get shirts that don't become too short after a few washes?

I'm 6'1". I've got a really long torso. I measured today and from my pant line to the top of my shoulder is about 28 1/2".

Most my shirts become too short after a handful of washes.

I'm in the US. In northern Utah, specifically. Where can I shop, either in person or online, to buy shirts that fit great, feel great, and just importantly... won't shrink lengthwise, or are a little extra long.

I love a classy look, but I also enjoy a nice t-shirt.

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u/Odd-Aside456 — 16 hours ago

Memory between chats question

I want to try Hermes. I enjoyed OpenClaw, kinda, but the experience degraded the longer my agent was alive. So, here's one thing I want to be able to do with Hermes, and I'm wondering if it is feasible, or if you can tell me how to do it.

So, We had our OpenClaw agent, Winston, in Telegram. I had a chat with him, my wife had a chat with him, and we had a group chat with him.

As is secure design, we couldn't ask it anything about a conversation it's had with each other. However, my wife tried this this... it was my birthday, and in her own chat with Winston, she said, "Hey, in our group chat, I'm going to say 'Winston, did you have something to tell my husband?' in our group chat, and I want you to say 'Happy Birthday!' OK?" And Winston agreed. Well, it didn't work. At all. hahaha. I've tried similar things, or tried to be cute and tell it to tell her things in her chat with him on my behalf. None of that worked, of course.

Is there any way to do stuff like this with Hermes?

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u/Odd-Aside456 — 17 hours ago

Does Hermes make you reauthenticate with OpenAI all the time like OpenClaw does?

Maybe I was the only one having this problem, but my goodness, I had to reauthenticate with OpenAI all the time with OpenClaw while I was using it. There were many other frustrations, but that was one.

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u/Odd-Aside456 — 17 hours ago

Desktop client for improved searching?

I moved over to Protonmail from Gmail. It's an email service, and it works fine, so no complaints there. What I have been frustrated with for the last year or so is the less efficient search functionality when compared to gmail.

There is less capability in searching, and sometimes my searches don't search within the contents of the email (which I've read is intentional since for privacy Proton doesn't index email contents), but then sometimes it does.

I'm wondering if I use a desktop client like eM Client, Thunderbird, or something else if that will improve email searching? and what are your recommendations?

Also, if it makes a difference for your recommendations to me, I DON'T use Proton for contacts or calendar - strictly email. I actually self-host contacts, calendar, and tasks with NextCloud.

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u/Odd-Aside456 — 1 day ago

How do you message victims on social media without going to spam?

I've been uncovering several Facebook and Instagram accounts related to scam victims in my baiting as of late. I have to imagine including words like "scam" in my first message may make it more likely to go to "hidden message requests" i.e. spam. Any recommendations on how to handle an initial message to a victim?

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u/Odd-Aside456 — 10 days ago

Can I wake my PC on LAN from RustDesk Server?

I've just discovered RustDesk. I am going to use it to do work on my home PC from my laptop while out and about. However, my home PC is set to go to sleep after 15 minutes of inactivity, and I don't want to change that.

I have a home server on the same network as my home PC, and I know I can install any number of Wake On LAN applications on the server to wake my PC, but rather than doing that before connecting to it, I'd love if could just be one simple step. If I install RustDesk Server on my home server, can that send a WoL "magic packet" before attempting to initiate connection?

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u/Odd-Aside456 — 14 days ago
▲ 114 r/beards

I've heard some give advice to NOT trim the mustache above the lip, but rather to let it grow and train it by combing it to the side. That's what I've been trying to do, but it's still just growing over my lip which I don't love. I've seen others post on here who have clearly trimmed their stache and they've received feedback that their beard is "perfect." So, I'm just not sure what I should do.

This is after brushing it and using a "beard butter" I got from Walmart, but there are still obviously lots of flyaways and it some places where it's growing in weird directions (my mustache pokes up in a few places). Could be that my hair itself is so thick and wiry, or maybe the issue is just that I'm using the wrong product / Walmart quality product.

This is the longest I've allowed it to get, so I really don't know what I'm doing just yet.

u/Odd-Aside456 — 16 days ago

Not sure if I should be flagging this as a bug, or if this is just me.

When I go to Ads Center at https://business.facebook.com/latest/ad_center/all_ads I have 3 ads running, and 1 ad paused (and a bunch of old completed ads). I want to pause one of the 3 active ads, but that option no longer appears to be available. On the three "Active" ads the only option I see is "View results." The one paused ad has "View results," "Resume," and a 3 dots dropdown menu button that shows "Edit," "End ad," and "Run again."

I literally paused this paused ad just the other day, so I had the option to pause an ad just the other day.

So, I tried to pause the ad by instead going to Ads Manager at https://adsmanager.facebook.com/adsmanager/manage/campaigns, since it's more comprehensive than Ads Center. The only thing I could find was toggling the on / off switch. But after doing that, it still says "Active" in both Ads Center and Ads Manager.

Why can't I see Pause anymore and how do I pause from within Ads Manager? I suppose the issue could be that I set up these ads from within Ads Manager and not Ads Center, if that affects whether or not an ad can be paused from Ads Center.

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u/Odd-Aside456 — 18 days ago

I'm trying to set up a new traffic ad campaign. When I choose the conversion location as "Instagram or Facebook" the performance goal defaults to "Maximize number of Instagram profile visits" and cannot be changed, the dropdown is disabled. So... While I love getting people TO my profiles, I want to optimize the campaign around new follows. Is that an option? Maybe I need to choose something other than a traffic campaign?

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u/Odd-Aside456 — 22 days ago