u/OkMonth79

For context I am 22(F). I’ve dropped out of college because of personal issues and lack of funds. I don’t have a job currently because I recently moved states but I have been searching non stop. Long story short, I’m kind of a bum right now and have nothing going for myself.

Because of this, I’ve been extremely depressed and I spend my days struggling to get out of bed and also struggling to sleep early. When I do wake up (which is mid afternoon) I spend most of my day scrolling aimlessly on my phone or playing video games. I have absolutely no motivation for anything and I just genuinely cannot feel anything. I’m constantly binge eating because I’m bored at home and alone most of the time. I have no friends and I have no energy to get out of the house. I see everyone having fun around me and there’s so much to do if I can just get myself out of the house. I genuinely cannot get out of this rut.

I have NEVER been the type of person to be this lazy and unmotivated. I cry every day because I really don’t know what I became and I don’t know how to fix it. I know this is so embarrassing and I might get criticized but anyone please help me? I want to get out of this hole but idk how.

For context I am 22(F). I’ve dropped out of college because of personal issues and lack of funds. I don’t have a job currently because I recently moved states but I have been searching non stop. Long story short, I’m kind of a bum right now and have nothing going for myself.

Because of this, I’ve been extremely depressed and I spend my days struggling to get out of bed and also struggling to sleep early. When I do wake up (which is mid afternoon) I spend most of my day scrolling aimlessly on my phone or playing video games. I have absolutely no motivation for anything and I just genuinely cannot feel anything. I’m constantly binge eating because I’m bored at home and alone most of the time. I have no friends and I have no energy to get out of the house. I see everyone having fun around me and there’s so much to do if I can just get myself out of the house. I genuinely cannot get out of this rut.

I have NEVER been the type of person to be this lazy and unmotivated. I cry every day because I really don’t know what I became and I don’t know how to fix it. I know this is so embarrassing and I might get criticized but anyone please help me? I want to get out of this hole but idk how.

For context I am 22(F). I’ve dropped out of college because of personal issues and lack of funds. I don’t have a job currently because I recently moved states but I have been searching non stop. Long story short, I’m kind of a bum right now and have nothing going for myself.

Because of this, I’ve been extremely depressed and I spend my days struggling to get out of bed and also struggling to sleep early. When I do wake up (which is mid afternoon) I spend most of my day scrolling aimlessly on my phone or playing video games. I have absolutely no motivation for anything and I just genuinely cannot feel anything. I’m constantly binge eating because I’m bored at home and alone most of the time. I have no friends and I have no energy to get out of the house. I see everyone having fun around me and there’s so much to do if I can just get myself out of the house. I genuinely cannot get out of this rut.

I have NEVER been the type of person to be this lazy and unmotivated. I cry every day because I really don’t know what I became and I don’t know how to fix it. I know this is so embarrassing and I might get criticized but anyone please help me? I want to get out of this hole but idk how.

For context I am 22(F). I’ve dropped out of college because of personal issues and lack of funds. I don’t have a job currently because I recently moved states but I have been searching non stop. Long story short, I’m kind of a bum right now and have nothing going for myself.

Because of this, I’ve been extremely depressed and I spend my days struggling to get out of bed and also struggling to sleep early. When I do wake up (which is mid afternoon) I spend most of my day scrolling aimlessly on my phone or playing video games. I have absolutely no motivation for anything and I just genuinely cannot feel anything. I’m constantly binge eating because I’m bored at home and alone most of the time. I have no friends and I have no energy to get out of the house. I see everyone having fun around me and there’s so much to do if I can just get myself out of the house. I genuinely cannot get out of this rut.

I have NEVER been the type of person to be this lazy and unmotivated. I cry every day because I really don’t know what I became and I don’t know how to fix it. I know this is so embarrassing and I might get criticized but anyone please help me? I want to get out of this hole but idk how.

Every time me and my husband have a hard conversation, it usually ends up in an argument. I get mad that he’s not comprehending the things I’m telling him and he get mad that I’m getting mad. I know it’s not a good thing to get upset with your partner and trust me I try my very best not to but I am not perfect and it’s very difficult to contain my emotions sometimes especially when I’m not being heard or understood.

For context, our marriage has been extremely rocky lately and he’s started being really cold towards me and I feel I’m never heard or understood by him anymore. When I do communicate this, he gives me short responses and switches the topic about how he feels. He says that he can’t be like me (talking a lot and expressing my emotions) and can only give me short responses because he doesn’t have much to say. This is not true because prior to this, he would always communicate efficiently with me and we would have genuine talks.

To summarize things, we were having a conversation the other day and it was me expressing to him how the things he said to me the day before that made me feel. He wasn’t being kind to me and left me with my own thoughts while I’m already going through so much. I feel as if the conversation could’ve just been him simply taking accountability, apologizing, and us moving past it but he kept adding in what he thinks about it and how I took it the wrong way. I got upset at him because he does this every single time but when it comes to him I always acknowledge my wrongdoings and don’t push the issue any further.

As a result, that conversation ended up turning into an argument because we kept going back and forth. He ended up saying something COMPLETELY not true and showed that he definitely didn’t listen to anything I said just to make himself right so I laughed out of shock and he walked out the door to go to work. As he was walking away I kept calling out for him and he did not respond. He didn’t speak to me that whole day or today and I’m just baffled because every time we argue he ends up doing this and I’m always apologizing even if he’s in the wrong.

I just don’t get how you can ignore your own wife for days? I’m currently recovering from surgery so I don’t work which means I’m home alone with my thoughts often. I’m genuinely upset, I feel extremely lonely and neglected, and I feel like I shouldn’t have to reach out this time because the conversation was initially me coming to him about something he said wrong to me. Am I overreacting? Could there be something I could’ve/should’ve done instead?

Tl;dr: Every time me and my husband have a hard conversation he reacts by ignoring me when it gets difficult. He started being more neglectful towards my emotions and began ignoring me. What should I do?

Every time me and my husband have a hard conversation, it usually ends up in an argument. I get mad that he’s not comprehending the things I’m telling him and he get mad that I’m getting mad. I know it’s not a good thing to get upset with your partner and trust me I try my very best not to but I am not perfect and it’s very difficult to contain my emotions sometimes especially when I’m not being heard or understood.

For context, our marriage has been extremely rocky lately and he’s started being really cold towards me and I feel I’m never heard or understood by him anymore. When I do communicate this, he gives me short responses and switches the topic about how he feels. He says that he can’t be like me (talking a lot and expressing my emotions) and can only give me short responses because he doesn’t have much to say. This is not true because prior to this, he would always communicate efficiently with me and we would have genuine talks.

To summarize things, we were having a conversation the other day and it was me expressing to him how the things he said to me the day before that made me feel. He wasn’t being kind to me and left me with my own thoughts while I’m already going through so much. I feel as if the conversation could’ve just been him simply taking accountability, apologizing, and us moving past it but he kept adding in what he thinks about it and how I took it the wrong way. I got upset at him because he does this every single time but when it comes to him I always acknowledge my wrongdoings and don’t push the issue any further.

As a result, that conversation ended up turning into an argument because we kept going back and forth. He ended up saying something COMPLETELY not true and showed that he definitely didn’t listen to anything I said just to make himself right so I laughed out of shock and he walked out the door to go to work. As he was walking away I kept calling out for him and he did not respond. He didn’t speak to me that whole day or today and I’m just baffled because every time we argue he ends up doing this and I’m always apologizing even if he’s in the wrong.

I just don’t get how you can ignore your own wife for days? I’m currently recovering from surgery so I don’t work which means I’m home alone with my thoughts often. I’m genuinely upset, I feel extremely lonely and neglected, and I feel like I shouldn’t have to reach out this time because the conversation was initially me coming to him about something he said wrong to me. Am I overreacting? Could there be something I could’ve/should’ve done instead?

Okay so me and my husband have been together for only a year now. He’s a pretty nice and calm guy for the most part and we were friends for many years before getting married. Me and my husband have gotten into a huge fight recently and it’s changed my entire perspective on him. I found out he was lying to me about many things and was hiding a lot from me. After a LOT of back and forth I decided to give the married a second shot but unfortunately things haven’t been the very best. His mom on the other hand fully supports him and tried to convince me that I was being overdramatic and the experience changed the way I view her as well.

That is a bit of a summary between me and my husband and where some of my feelings currently come from. His mom is the complete opposite of him. She’s way more short tempered and is very overbearing. She isn’t a mean or bad person but she is just too much for me at times and our personalities are completely different. The main thing is that she will get upset that I don’t call her much (I have never been one to constantly call people and I am MUCH better at face to face communication) and constantly mention it. Another thing is that we live about 15 minutes away and she always expects me to come visit since we live so close. This is really hard for me especially because I really enjoy being alone. At first, I figured it was just because I had barely got married and she would back off a bit but it gradually got worse.

If I don’t call her every other day, she will call me and just complain to me that I’m not making any effort to talk to her. She wants to come visit me or me visit her every few days. If I don’t pick up her phone call (if I’m busy, sleeping, etc.) she will call my husband or my mom and tell her that I don’t answer her calls. I communicated with my husband how I feel about this but he never does anything. My parents agree that she’s too overbearing and suggested I create a bit of space between us but it’s just very difficult because she gets offended at that.

Today, I saw she called me but I was busy trying on clothes and shopping so I figured I’ll call her back when I’m done. I got a call from her again about an hour later and she was very upset at me. She essentially said that if I don’t want to talk to her I can just let her know and that she will leave me alone and basically lectured me for 5 minutes about how I don’t make any effort to talk to her or come visit. I just got back from a trip and I’ve been extremely tired so I’ve been sleeping and not as social. Honestly, I got upset at her but instead of arguing I just kept the conversation short and the call ended there

Btw, I will admit that I started becoming more distant because of the way she handled the situation between me and my husband prior to this and just because of how overbearing she is. I call her now maybe once a week instead of every other day. I called my husband to express my frustration and it was almost as if he was blaming me for not reaching out to her. I’ve expressed to him multiple times how this made me feel and he’s taken no initiative. I got upset at him and we haven’t spoke since. I feel like he could just take my side for once but I also feel like I have to fight for respect from him and his mom. Am I overreacting for being so upset about this?

Okay so me and my husband have been together for only a year now. He’s a pretty nice and calm guy for the most part and we were friends for many years before getting married. Me and my husband have gotten into a huge fight recently and it’s changed my entire perspective on him. I found out he was lying to me about many things and was hiding a lot from me. After a LOT of back and forth I decided to give the married a second shot but unfortunately things haven’t been the very best. His mom on the other hand fully supports him and tried to convince me that I was being overdramatic and the experience changed the way I view her as well.

That is a bit of a summary between me and my husband and where some of my feelings currently come from. His mom is the complete opposite of him. She’s way more short tempered and is very overbearing. She isn’t a mean or bad person but she is just too much for me at times and our personalities are completely different. The main thing is that she will get upset that I don’t call her much (I have never been one to constantly call people and I am MUCH better at face to face communication) and constantly mention it. Another thing is that we live about 15 minutes away and she always expects me to come visit since we live so close. This is really hard for me especially because I really enjoy being alone. At first, I figured it was just because I had barely got married and she would back off a bit but it gradually got worse.

If I don’t call her every other day, she will call me and just complain to me that I’m not making any effort to talk to her. She wants to come visit me or me visit her every few days. If I don’t pick up her phone call (if I’m busy, sleeping, etc.) she will call my husband or my mom and tell her that I don’t answer her calls. I communicated with my husband how I feel about this but he never does anything. My parents agree that she’s too overbearing and suggested I create a bit of space between us but it’s just very difficult because she gets offended at that.

Today, I saw she called me but I was busy trying on clothes and shopping so I figured I’ll call her back when I’m done. I got a call from her again about an hour later and she was very upset at me. She essentially said that if I don’t want to talk to her I can just let her know and that she will leave me alone and basically lectured me for 5 minutes about how I don’t make any effort to talk to her or come visit. I just got back from a trip and I’ve been extremely tired so I’ve been sleeping and not as social. Honestly, I got upset at her but instead of arguing I just kept the conversation short and the call ended there

Btw, I will admit that I started becoming more distant because of the way she handled the situation between me and my husband prior to this and just because of how overbearing she is. I call her now maybe once a week instead of every other day. I called my husband to express my frustration and it was almost as if he was blaming me for not reaching out to her. I’ve expressed to him multiple times how this made me feel and he’s taken no initiative. I got upset at him and we haven’t spoke since. I feel like he could just take my side for once but I also feel like I have to fight for respect from him and his mom. Am I overreacting for being so upset about this?

Okay so me and my husband have been together for only a year now. He’s a pretty nice and calm guy for the most part and we were friends for many years before getting married. Me and my husband have gotten into a huge fight recently and it’s changed my entire perspective on him. I found out he was lying to me about many things and was hiding a lot from me. After a LOT of back and forth I decided to give the married a second shot but unfortunately things haven’t been the very best. His mom on the other hand fully supports him and tried to convince me that I was being overdramatic and the experience changed the way I view her as well.

That is a bit of a summary between me and my husband and where some of my feelings currently come from. His mom is the complete opposite of him. She’s way more short tempered and is very overbearing. She isn’t a mean or bad person but she is just too much for me at times and our personalities are completely different. The main thing is that she will get upset that I don’t call her much (I have never been one to constantly call people and I am MUCH better at face to face communication) and constantly mention it. Another thing is that we live about 15 minutes away and she always expects me to come visit since we live so close. This is really hard for me especially because I really enjoy being alone. At first, I figured it was just because I had barely got married and she would back off a bit but it gradually got worse.

If I don’t call her every other day, she will call me and just complain to me that I’m not making any effort to talk to her. She wants to come visit me or me visit her every few days. If I don’t pick up her phone call (if I’m busy, sleeping, etc.) she will call my husband or my mom and tell her that I don’t answer her calls. I communicated with my husband how I feel about this but he never does anything. My parents agree that she’s too overbearing and suggested I create a bit of space between us but it’s just very difficult because she gets offended at that.

Today, I saw she called me but I was busy trying on clothes and shopping so I figured I’ll call her back when I’m done. I got a call from her again about an hour later and she was very upset at me. She essentially said that if I don’t want to talk to her I can just let her know and that she will leave me alone and basically lectured me for 5 minutes about how I don’t make any effort to talk to her or come visit. I just got back from a trip and I’ve been extremely tired so I’ve been sleeping and not as social. Honestly, I got upset at her but instead of arguing I just kept the conversation short and the call ended there

Btw, I will admit that I started becoming more distant because of the way she handled the situation between me and my husband prior to this and just because of how overbearing she is. I call her now maybe once a week instead of every other day. I called my husband to express my frustration and it was almost as if he was blaming me for not reaching out to her. I’ve expressed to him multiple times how this made me feel and he’s taken no initiative. I got upset at him and we haven’t spoke since. I feel like he could just take my side for once but I also feel like I have to fight for respect from him and his mom. Am I overreacting for being so upset about this?

I (22F) have been in a constant state of stagnation and nothing seems to be changing in my life. I feel like I’ve been in the same spot for a while and I’m falling behind. What’s worse is that I’m with a partner of 3 years and I feel so empty with him. I feel like he’s holding me back and has drained me of all of my energy. I feel way better without him and as bad as it sounds I just feel like I’d be doing so much more with my life if we weren’t together. I really don’t know how to leave him or if I even should. I used to be such a bright and promising individual and now I’m just nothing. I don’t go to school anymore, I don’t have motivation to get out of bed anymore, my looks have gotten worse, my knowledge has decreased, I just don’t feel happy anymore and I feel like I’m wasting my life. What can I possibly do to get out of this hole? I really need advice.

I (22F) have been in a constant state of stagnation and nothing seems to be changing in my life. I feel like I’ve been in the same spot for a while and I’m falling behind. What’s worse is that I’m with a partner of 3 years and I feel so empty with him. I feel like he’s holding me back and has drained me of all of my energy. I feel way better without him and as bad as it sounds I just feel like I’d be doing so much more with my life if we weren’t together. I really don’t know how to leave him or if I even should. I used to be such a bright and promising individual and now I’m just nothing. I don’t go to school anymore, I don’t have motivation to get out of bed anymore, my looks have gotten worse, my knowledge has decreased, I just don’t feel happy anymore and I feel like I’m wasting my life. What can I possibly do to get out of this hole? I really need advice.

I (22F) have been in a constant state of stagnation and nothing seems to be changing in my life. I feel like I’ve been in the same spot for a while and I’m falling behind. What’s worse is that I’m with a partner of 3 years and I feel so empty with him. I feel like he’s holding me back and has drained me of all of my energy. I feel way better without him and as bad as it sounds I just feel like I’d be doing so much more with my life if we weren’t together. I really don’t know how to leave him or if I even should. I used to be such a bright and promising individual and now I’m just nothing. I don’t go to school anymore, I don’t have motivation to get out of bed anymore, my looks have gotten worse, my knowledge has decreased, I just don’t feel happy anymore and I feel like I’m wasting my life. I really need advice.

I am 26(F) and I’m currently married to a man 25(M). We have been together for 6 years total but married for 1. I’ve endured a lot when it comes to him and have just let a lot of things slide. Every issue even if it’s unresolved I’ve forgiven him for and I try to be very patient with him. Over time, the things he would do became less tolerable (arguing with me 24/7, hiding things, lying, etc.) which led to me slowly building resentment unconsciously.

Last year, we moved in together and despite the arguments and the disagreements I feel like we had such an amazing connection and I’ve never felt this way with anyone else. Unfortunately the ‘honeymoon’ stage died down and he started acting completely different. He would constantly be occupied with his phone and his game and stopped being intimate with me. He also started being way more rude and less patient with me. I truly and honestly don’t think the arguments are the cause of this but the shift slowly creeped in and it only occurred to me recently that something is definitely wrong.

About 2 months ago, I found out he’s been searching girls up online and just seeming infatuated with overly gorgeous girls. I don’t know all he’s been doing or how long he’s been doing these things but I was genuinely devastated to see this. I had so much suspicion towards him countless times because of small things I noticed. For eg: his search history being deleted 24/7 on every app all the time, barely texting anyone/all messages being deleted, ‘accidentally’ reposting women showing their bodies off, ‘accidentally’ following half naked women, etc. I’ve never been one to search phones unless I truly need to so he’s had all the privacy he needs. Every time I would notice something he would explain to me how it’s not what I think and I would always give him the benefit of the doubt after some time.

However, this time is different. This time my entire trust has completely left the window and I just feel so heartbroken. I feel like I wasted time with this man and I feel deceived. I’ve expressed to him countless times my suspicions and he’s always made me feel as though it’s all in my head. I feel so insecure with myself and I look nothing like those models he was lusting over. I just can’t get the thoughts out of my head.

After the incident, I told my family and him that I wanted to get a divorce but I ended up staying with my family while I ‘cleared my head’ so I don’t rush to a decision. I’ve come back to live with him now because for days he cried begging for me back and promised me that he will change and he’s deleted all social media. Our families have spoken countless times to him and me and everyone thinks it’s best for me to give him another chance. The only problem is that no matter how hard I’m trying to give him a chance, I feel so incredibly angry towards him. He’s made me feel so shitty for months only to be sneaking behind my back looking at other women inappropriately and potentially talking to them too. Till this day he claims what I saw is not what it seems and it angers me even more that he can’t even be honest with me.

Since that day, I can barely eat. I barely talk to anyone anymore. I’m crying and overthinking so often. I get so angry with him no matter what, even if it’s something so small. I feel bad for this but I just don’t know what to do. Any thoughts/advice?

I am 26(F) and I’m currently married to a man 25(M). We have been together for 6 years total but married for 1. I’ve endured a lot when it comes to him and have just let a lot of things slide. Every issue even if it’s unresolved I’ve forgiven him for and I try to be very patient with him. Over time, the things he would do became less tolerable (arguing with me 24/7, hiding things, lying, etc.) which led to me slowly building resentment unconsciously.

Last year, we moved in together and despite the arguments and the disagreements I feel like we had such an amazing connection and I’ve never felt this way with anyone else. Unfortunately the ‘honeymoon’ stage died down and he started acting completely different. He would constantly be occupied with his phone and his game and stopped being intimate with me. He also started being way more rude and less patient with me. I truly and honestly don’t think the arguments are the cause of this but the shift slowly creeped in and it only occurred to me recently that something is definitely wrong.

About 2 months ago, I found out he’s been searching girls up online and just seeming infatuated with overly gorgeous girls. I don’t know all he’s been doing or how long he’s been doing these things but I was genuinely devastated to see this. I had so much suspicion towards him countless times because of small things I noticed. For eg: his search history being deleted 24/7 on every app all the time, barely texting anyone/all messages being deleted, ‘accidentally’ reposting women showing their bodies off, ‘accidentally’ following half naked women, etc. I’ve never been one to search phones unless I truly need to so he’s had all the privacy he needs. Every time I would notice something he would explain to me how it’s not what I think and I would always give him the benefit of the doubt after some time.

However, this time is different. This time my entire trust has completely left the window and I just feel so heartbroken. I feel like I wasted time with this man and I feel deceived. I’ve expressed to him countless times my suspicions and he’s always made me feel as though it’s all in my head. I feel so insecure with myself and I look nothing like those models he was lusting over. I just can’t get the thoughts out of my head.

After the incident, I told my family and him that I wanted to get a divorce but I ended up staying with my family while I ‘cleared my head’ so I don’t rush to a decision. I’ve come back to live with him now because for days he cried begging for me back and promised me that he will change and he’s deleted all social media. Our families have spoken countless times to him and me and everyone thinks it’s best for me to give him another chance. The only problem is that no matter how hard I’m trying to give him a chance, I feel so incredibly angry towards him. He’s made me feel so shitty for months only to be sneaking behind my back looking at other women inappropriately and potentially talking to them too. Till this day he claims what I saw is not what it seems and it angers me even more that he can’t even be honest with me.

Since that day, I can barely eat. I barely talk to anyone anymore. I’m crying and overthinking so often. I get so angry with him no matter what, even if it’s something so small. I feel bad for this but I just don’t know what to do. Any thoughts/advice?

Tl;dr: Found out husband has been doing sneaky things behind my back and lying to me & now I feel anger and resentment towards him that I can’t move past. He said he would change and he is but I just don’t know what to do.

I am 26(F) and I’m currently married to a man 25(M). We have been together for 6 years total but married for 1. I’ve endured a lot when it comes to him and have just let a lot of things slide. Every issue even if it’s unresolved I’ve forgiven him for and I try to be very patient with him. Over time, the things he would do became less tolerable (arguing with me 24/7, hiding things, lying, etc.) which led to me slowly building resentment unconsciously.

Last year, we moved in together and despite the arguments and the disagreements I feel like we had such an amazing connection and I’ve never felt this way with anyone else. Unfortunately the ‘honeymoon’ stage died down and he started acting completely different. He would constantly be occupied with his phone and his game and stopped being intimate with me. He also started being way more rude and less patient with me. I truly and honestly don’t think the arguments are the cause of this but the shift slowly creeped in and it only occurred to me recently that something is definitely wrong.

About 2 months ago, I found out he’s been searching girls up online and just seeming infatuated with overly gorgeous girls. I don’t know all he’s been doing or how long he’s been doing these things but I was genuinely devastated to see this. I had so much suspicion towards him countless times because of small things I noticed. For eg: his search history being deleted 24/7 on every app all the time, barely texting anyone/all messages being deleted, ‘accidentally’ reposting women showing their bodies off, ‘accidentally’ following half naked women, etc. I’ve never been one to search phones unless I truly need to so he’s had all the privacy he needs. Every time I would notice something he would explain to me how it’s not what I think and I would always give him the benefit of the doubt after some time.

However, this time is different. This time my entire trust has completely left the window and I just feel so heartbroken. I feel like I wasted time with this man and I feel deceived. I’ve expressed to him countless times my suspicions and he’s always made me feel as though it’s all in my head. I feel so insecure with myself and I look nothing like those models he was lusting over. I just can’t get the thoughts out of my head.

After the incident, I told my family and him that I wanted to get a divorce but I ended up staying with my family while I ‘cleared my head’ so I don’t rush to a decision. I’ve come back to live with him now because for days he cried begging for me back and promised me that he will change and he’s deleted all social media. Our families have spoken countless times to him and me and everyone thinks it’s best for me to give him another chance. The only problem is that no matter how hard I’m trying to give him a chance, I feel so incredibly angry towards him. He’s made me feel so shitty for months only to be sneaking behind my back looking at other women inappropriately and potentially talking to them too. Till this day he claims what I saw is not what it seems and it angers me even more that he can’t even be honest with me.

Since that day, I can barely eat. I barely talk to anyone anymore. I’m crying and overthinking so often. I get so angry with him no matter what, even if it’s something so small. I feel bad for this but I just don’t know what to do. Any thoughts/advice?

Tl;dr: found out my husband has been lying to me and doing sneaky things behind my back and I can’t seem to move past it. Full of resentment even though he told me he will make a change.

I’m 22(F) and not in school right now. When I was going to school it was pretty easy making friends but for a while now I haven’t been able to go and I genuinely have no friends in general. I have nobody to text or call and the people I try to build friendships with just show no interest since they have their own friends. I do the occasional hangout with someone and then for a few weeks or months there’s no contact. I am kind and respectful to everyone, I have a LOT of interests so I’m easy to get along with, but I still have little to no friends and it’s getting depressing. I can’t tell what I’m doing wrong or what I should be doing better so if anyone could give me advice I’d really appreciate it!!

I’m 22(F) and not in school right now. When I was going to school it was pretty easy making friends but for a while now I haven’t been able to go and I genuinely have no friends in general. I have nobody to text or call and the people I try to build friendships with just show no interest since they have their own friends. I do the occasional hangout with someone and then for a few weeks or months there’s no contact. I am kind and respectful to everyone, I have a LOT of interests so I’m easy to get along with, but I still have little to no friends and it’s getting depressing. I can’t tell what I’m doing wrong or what I should be doing better so if anyone could give me advice I’d really appreciate it!!