u/Routine_State_1569

Thoughts on this?

I have been talking to a man seems great so far…. He has told me he’s been looking for a traditional girl forever Christian pure conservative values etc. I thought this sounds great. We foolowed eachother on Instagram and I just looked at who he was following it’s public in the past I’ve always talked with men who follow a bunch of models half naked women etc. nonetheless he did as well over the years accumulated he said and more recent ones too I could see. However I’m confused how he wants trad is naming women as “wh\*\*\*\*” as well but follows women who have tattoos and dress quite provocative is this normal? Do most men do this? Why am I only ever finding men who follow a bunchhhhh of women like this ☹️

I have been talking to a man seems great so far…. He has told me he’s been looking for a traditional girl forever Christian pure conservative values etc. I thought this sounds great. We foolowed eachother on Instagram and I just looked at who he was following it’s public in the past I’ve always talked with men who follow a bunch of models half naked women etc. nonetheless he did as well over the years accumulated he said and more recent ones too I could see. However I’m confused how he wants trad is naming women as “wh****” as well but follows women who have tattoos and dress quite provocative is this normal? Do most men do this? Why am I only ever finding men who follow a bunchhhhh of women like this ☹️

I have a bit of a situation. However I’m very traditional and Christian and I’ve been talking to a man. Who said he’s been looking for a girl who’s traditional how it’s hard to find etc. however he keeps speaking like a misogynist do you run or? How to navigate? Things like no man cares if a woman is smart, 99% are who*** , retarded, only value is usually their body and has the book from Myron Gaines on why women deserve less?

Hey ladies! I haven’t had sex yet and plan to wait till a very serious relo or marriage. The guy I’m talking to said when he sees me he’s having sex with me jokingly and I said are you though? 🧐 he goes it will be hard not to almost impossible. I said a few years for me probably till he said haha I don’t think I could wait that long if I had you in my bed. I said what if I want to wait till marriage. He goes if that’s what you really wanted. I said haha he goes I have a feeling you want other things and I said do you? And he goes yep you are def scared of sex I said how do you know that? He goes you use that fear to justify waiting for marriage and goes because you were afraid of putting a tampon in then goes a pe*** is much bigger and I said I am scared of the pain I don’t know what it feels like yet. I did say I was scared to put in a tampon. Then goes well I want to have sex with you. I just am not sure how to interpret how he said I use that to justify waiting for marriage when it’s a value of mine ugh. Keep in mind he’s been getting to know me very well etc. I realise I should’ve been harder on him but I get shy and nervous about these things and don’t really stand my ground. As I think men if they don’t get sex will leave anyway

Hi ladies! This is quite a vulnerable post I guess. I’m in my early twenties and I haven’t had sex by choice and don’t plan to unless with a man who loves and respects me etc. however in the meantime I feel a longing for that intimacy not sex but touching by a man who loves me to be touched even the thought of dressing up for a husband a man who loves me in flirty things. It’s almost come up in my dreams so often I’m trying to get it all out of my mind! I’m also nervous that no guy will wait long enough or even till marriage

Hey all. Me and a guy ended things almost 2 months ago I’ve been blocked ever since on everything. I mean it’s so hard to know what’s going on the other side of the block. It didn’t end because of cruelty or something serious like cheating but the last convo we had got emotional. I felt hurt, explained that, and he got so furious and blocked me literally everywhere he said fuck you and you are getting blocked now. Same person who said they were in love would take a bullet etc. I mean does the absence hit I’m not going to do anything but like will we speak again keeps replaying in my head how it ended so awfully and that he just wants to leave it ended on such bad terms?!

Hey all. What do you think is the better way to start golf? Where I am there are women’s beginners programs for a group of women over like 6 weeks. You learn the basics etc. or to take on a one on one lesson with a male coach?

Hey all. How would you feel if a guy you were talking to said no guy cares how smart a woman is? And that Women like to show off their bodies because that’s their only value usually

Looking for the best push up bra!

Is there an amazing skims one that gives amazing ultimate cleavage or is the vs bombshell one good?

I know there could be a whole heap of reasons to this question. But I wonder like if you are over it why block someone everywhere?

Me and a guy ended maybe a month ago now. It ended badly in rage and was pretty brutal. In my head I don’t even want to be back together but like having the fear you never speak again…

Hey all! I was seeing a guy that ended up being for a while. We hit it off so well same values as I thought he seemed to love that I was “pure” liked that I hadn’t slept with anyone yet I thought we had the same sort of values etc. we aligned politically really well. He was saying he hadn’t felt this way in years and that I was a breath of fresh air in the modern dating world and he’s been struggling to find someone like me . When I first started talking to him he showed me a book called why women deserve less I honestly didn’t pay much attention to that but he talked about a lot of the points from it. As time went on these sort of comments came out , “99% of women are whores don’t deserve anything, no man cares if a women is smart, most women are retarded, he’s never listened to a women’s opinion and never will he said. Also that I don’t know how to speak to him and never learned. I mean what the heck happened where are the good men?!

Has anyone felt this way? I can’t quite explain it. It’s been only a few weeks since the break up and when it first ended like the first 2 days I was destroyed. Crying etc. I loved this person, now I’m like over them I feel like totally okay with it being over but also not? Like I wonder if we’ll talk again it’s like that runs through my head cause it ended badly.